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okay i can help people with there problems but i cant solve my own....i am 16 years old female and i have an 18 year old boyfriend...the other day he broke up with me and said i was talking to guys on the internet...then a few hours later after i said i wasnt he comes back to my house and says okay i believe you...should i take him back or what???
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In my experience, guys who display jealous/possessive behaviour such as this, where they act on suspicion rather than fact, are always best avoided. The main issue is, he's done it once with no evidence to support his theory and how many times will he do it again and what will his jealousy lead him to do? You have to think long term with guys like this and try to work out what their behaviour might be say, six months down the line. Will he get enraged because you talk to a guy who is just a friend of yours?
I can't tell you what to do but I would like to suggest that if you can imagine he is the sort of person who would fly into jealous rages some time down the line for no reason at all, you need to think seriously about whether or not you want to be having to handle that.
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NO, you shouldn't take him back guys are dogs and it sounds like he wants you back, not genuinely , but for the attention! If you were just talking to guys on the internet he either overreacted or was looking for an excuse to break up w/ you. Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!
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Hi.
Whether or not you take him back is up to you but I think you need to have a serious chat with him first to find out what's going on because the last thing you would need is him to play up in this way again in a few months.
And what if you was talking to guys online??? I seriously see no reason why, just bcause you have a bf, you can't talk to guys online. If you're cheating on him then fair enough he has reason to be upset/angry but if all you're doing is talking to people then he is very much overreacting. More to the point - he is your boyfriend and thats it. He doesn't own you. I don't care how much a couple love each other one doesn't own the other.
Relationships are about resolving things and communication. :/ If he has a problem about something (or vice-versa) then you both need to sit down and talk and try resolve it, not just jump to conclusions, assume you're right and then walk out.
If you want to give him a second chance that's totally your call but you need to talk to him to find out what's going on with him and to make sure this won't just happen again next week or something. :]
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