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Well to start off...I am 18/f/ alot of places ;) I am going to a photography school soon, So that meens I am moving from all my friends...so yes I have problems too ;) I found this site because I needed some advice...;) well more about me...I love to be creative, I love to be active, andmy fav color is kelly green. I have a dog named rambow...he is a min pincher/dashound...what a mix ;) I was raised in the country, and now i'm movein to the big city ;)
Gender: Female
Location: Texas soon Ill be living in illinose
Occupation: I work at a vet clinic, But ill be going to a photography school soon.
Age: 18
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Alrighty so there's this guy that I like, and it just so happens that we're good friends. So we're hanging out tomorrow and I'm really happy, I finally feel like I might have a chance with a guy that I really like. But I'm also kind of nervous because I think it'll be just me and him... what if we run out things to talk about, like what can I say? Also, how can I hint to him that I like him, without being too pushy/annoying? I just don't want it to be weird if he doesn't like me in that way because even if nothing happens, I still wanna be friends with him. Help? (link)
Well I would see how the hanging out goes...does he sit close to you? Does he complement you...does he look at you and just smile? These are somethings you need to look for, before you make ANY kind of move...If you have a strong feeling that he likes you...dont say anything...just scoot closer...flirt a little more...if he seems to move away in ANY kind of way...back off alittle...and just be friends...


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at my school we have a time during lunch that when you finish, you can go outside. i hang out with a large group of my friends, but mostly with a mini-group of people. this group is called "jonathans posse". jonathan is mine and 3 other friends best friend. i love them dearly, but they act so bitchy to me. during lunch they'll be having a conversation while i sit there with them and if i say something, one will glare at me and tell me to mind my own business. these people are my best friends, remember. on the other hand, if one of us has a party, they'll act as nice and pleasant as like berries and cream. one friend actually semi-yelled at me that no one liked me and to go away, until jonathan stared at her and said "shes my friend." (awkward silence for like 30 sec.) i've become clingy to jon, but i still want to keep my friends for fear of losing everyone else with them. any one know how to earn my "friend's" respect?

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Hmm this one is hard... I try to put myself in your shoes...If I hung around people like that...well I wouldnt, I'd find others...Are these people you 'best friends' because "the name brand" Like are they populare? Now this jonathan guy seems to be great, and the fact that he stood up for you shows something...maybe he likes you...or maybe he is a really good friend...but I have been told by many people that A guy ussally likes a girl, if he stands up for them, or even hangs out...do you like him? But I think you should find other friends...I'm sorry if this is not what you want to here...but they do sound like bitchs...


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Okay, so here's what happened. My friend really likes this guy, and i do too. And we are sure he likes both of us. And so today, my friend wanted to know, so she asked me if i could ask him if he liked anyone, and if so who. And i said that she could, because i wanted to know. So, after school..she went up to him, and told him. "i need to talk to you". and he said "okay, hold on let me get something". so he went running...and went past me. [by the way: i wasn't with her]. And, so i saw him running, put his backpack down, and then went somewhere. And he came back, after a long time. And my friend was tearing because she thought he ran away from her, and i think he did, because he just sat back on the hill he usually sits at, and didn't do anything. And obviously, he didn't forget. And he was looking at her...and she had to go, and she told me to ask him, so my friend stayed there for a little bit while i was gonna ask. And i was about to go, but then his mom picked him up. And so now, what should we do because today was the last say of school..? And we can't call him, and he lives near us. We can't call him or email him. (link)
Well it kinda depends on how old is he...if you guys are young like 9-13...he might have been scared of the " ineed to ask you something" Do you talk to him often... what makes you think he like you? Now if he is olde..that dosnt make alot of since to run...but he might have been ovoiding her...I say move on...If he is to scared to answer a question...find someone else... find a "man" ;)


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