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More than just friends
Alrighty so there's this guy that I like, and it just so happens that we're good friends. So we're hanging out tomorrow and I'm really happy, I finally feel like I might have a chance with a guy that I really like. But I'm also kind of nervous because I think it'll be just me and him... what if we run out things to talk about, like what can I say? Also, how can I hint to him that I like him, without being too pushy/annoying? I just don't want it to be weird if he doesn't like me in that way because even if nothing happens, I still wanna be friends with him. Help?
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dont be nervous to hang out it i can bet once you get together it wont seem as awkward. and dont worry about running out of things to say because normally if the connection is right the conversation just flows. plus if you ever get worried about running out of things to talk about watch a movie so you wouldnt have to worry about that =] to tell him without telling him you like him (lol confusing i know) flirt with him while your hanging out, play with his hair, tickle him (if he's ticklish), nudge him or like nicely push him. hopefully he would catch on. and then after you hang out later that night text him or IM him or however and be like heyy i had alot of fun today =] or something like that
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Honestly: ya'll are already friends so just gotta be open and real with him. Easy topics would be school, music and hobbies....but once you find somethign ya'll are both into stretch the convo out...
I'm not sure how to tell him, but honestly just be real with him, because guys don't do to well with reading between the lines. So be straight-forward....just try something like We've become really close lately and i think your a really cool guy...compliment him for a minute, and then say- and because of all that we've been through I wonder if you would ever want to be more then friends because I want to.....just be real and honest....
Tell him, that you still want be friends even if no "sparks" are happeneing or anything- I hope this helps....Good Luck
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I know how this is! This is how my boyfriend and I started dating haha.. Trust me, you will not run out of things to say. And if you do, you'll probably be comfortable just not talking. He's going to know that you like him just by the way you treat him. Touch him a lot, but don't be annoying. Look him in the eye a lot, too. Talk about what he wants to talk about, which is probably going to be himself. If he likes you, he'll probably do the same. All you have to do is just give it time, really.. Or build up the courage to ask him out first. :] good luck
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Well I would see how the hanging out goes...does he sit close to you? Does he complement you...does he look at you and just smile? These are somethings you need to look for, before you make ANY kind of move...If you have a strong feeling that he likes you...dont say anything...just scoot closer...flirt a little more...if he seems to move away in ANY kind of way...back off alittle...and just be friends...
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