me & my best friend have been friends for 4yrs. but sometimes I get the feeling that she might be using me & that she's two faced. we talk on the fone & on AIM everyday & she would get pissed at me for nothing. she will blame me for her problems at home. & she would get mad if i talk to a guy that she thinks is hot. I dont like starting shitt so i just say that i'm sorrii & i sux up to her. but i dont wanna do that animore & im sick of her yelling at me for no reason. for once i wanna be the one that is in control. but im scared that if me && her get into a fight that all my other friends will choose sides & i would end up friend less.
should i still be friends with her even tho she might be talking shitt about me the same way she talks shitt about all her other friends?
[[P.S sorry it's so long]]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? whatever07 answered Sunday June 17 2007, 6:46 pm: okay, i have had a friend like this before. if there is no reason, for her getting pissed at you. maybe she's just physco. lol but really, i say be in control. don't let her talk to you like thhat, be the bigger person. sit down with her, tell her how you are feeling. maybe she's just going through something at home, and takes things out on other people. As far as your other friends choosing sides, don't make them do that. It's an awful position to be put in. If they are your true friends, they will learn to accept both of you. Dont give up on your friend yet, just talk it out. Friends get in fights, al the time, but not always do you lose your friendship over it. Good luck, and let me know if you need anything else. HOpe i helped :) [ whatever07's advice column | Ask whatever07 A Question ]
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