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In love, with somebody ELSE
So, i have a boyfriend sean, and he's a really amazing boy, but he's just not for me, and he always claims he's in love with me, but i actually want to break up with him, but i'm not sure how, because i feel HORRIBLE. On top of that, i've known this boy matt forever, and i've liked him for a loonnggg time, but his girlfriend and him have been going out for 7 months, and they aren't going to break up. Trust me. She treats him like SHIT, like seriously, she's horrible to him, and i'm always there for him, and i just don't know what to do..any ideas?
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Well, you can feel horrible about not loving your bf, but if you don't like him back, then there's not much you can do about it and it's not fair to him for you to lead him on. You need to communicate honestly with him about how you feel. As for Matt, he has a girlfriend, even if she is mean to him, so I wouldn't advise pursuing him especially as this would make it seem that you are breaking up with Sean for Matt which just causes more awkwardness. If you've liked him for this ong, the most you can do is wait out his relationship. If you really feel that his girlfriend is abusing him, you do have the power, being his friend and all, for your opinion to have a certain weight with him so you should tell him how you feel. Otherwise, be honest with your current bf, and wait out the rest.
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Well i think you should tell him the truth because a relationship wont work out if you both dont feel the same way. YOu should break up with him now before it gets deeper and deeper. Since you like matt you should be honest with him and tell him beause you never know if he feels the same way and you never know whats going to happen and since his girlfriend now treats him badly you have more of a chance with him.
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Well, this other guy you like is currently taken, so he's off limits for now. Try to put him out of your mind (or at least on a back shelf), and concentrate on your current situation. If you really don't have feelings for your boyfriend anymore, the only fair thing to do is break up with him. Breaking up is never easy, but it's much better for both of you to get it over with, rather than dragging it out. Just tell your boyfriend, "I've really had a great time going out with you, and I'll always cherish the time we've spent together, but I just don't feel the same way I did before and I think it's best that we break up." Your boyfriend may be hurt - and there's nothing you can do to make it easier - but the sooner you do it, the sooner he will get over it and you can both move on.
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