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ohkay..so im not suppose to have a myspace, so i would ussually i just delete my history after i check mine. well now it wont delete. it deletes everything but advicenators and myspace. i would get in really big trouble if my parents found out. is there any way to delete all of the history?

..i usually go to tools..then internet options and delete my cookies, files, and history? (link)
you need to CLOSE the browser first, and then right click on your Internet Icon on your start menu, then go to internet options, and clean it from there (assuming you are using internet explorer 7)


Im 16 and my dad died when i was 8 and my mom recently got married to a guy who used to be in the army. I have two sister and now i have 3 step brothers. He is like way strict and his kids are like perfect angels but me and my sisters have never really been raised that strict and for lack of better words are pretty wild. my mom never really punished us for things and now this guy is trying to control us and take over our lives. What should i do? (link)
well he is your step dad. assuming he lives with you, he does have somewhat of control over you. However being he is not your biological dad, that isnt the baest way for him to be close to you. I would talk to your mom about it, and tell her how you feel, and she can relay things to your stepdad. if that doesnt do anything, you can try talking directly to your step dad.
HOWEVER, take it slow, dont yell, and KNOW what youre going to say when you talk to him. Be prepared for anything.


^^^^ seriously.

first of all, i should say that i'm nervous about relationships. i'm nervous ENTERING relationships in the first place and they never seem to go well. i have a hard time talking to boys and i'm really reluctant to admit when i like someone.

a few months ago i met this kid who we'll call brian. brian was really into me and made it really obvious. he was also really sweet about it. he opened doors for me, told me that i was the cutest girl he'd ever seen, gave me hugs about once every two or three seconds, made sure he ALWAYS sat by me no matter where we were, etc. he tried to get me to respond for two or three solid months. seriously.

i wanted to so badly, i really did. it was just that i was nervous, and when he flirted with me it was usually in front of my friends. my friend is best friends with brian and introduced me to him in the first place, so i felt weird about even thinking about going into a relationship with him. all of that made me pretty standoffish, and i was basically sat there and giggled like a retard while he tried to get me to give him a hug or hold his hand.

eventually he told my friend that he really genuinely liked me and thought i was gorgeous and so on. hearing that made me really happy because i genuinely liked him too. but i just COULDN'T do anything about it. i felt so stupid when i wanted to hug him or tell him that i liked him but i just couldn't because we were never alone. we were always with his friends or my friends, and more than often both.

a while after that he told my friend, AND me, that he was giving up. his exact words were something like, "i'm gonna give up now." :[

now he's talking to another girl. they aren't even close to being serious. he sees her maybe twice a month. i still usually see him at least twice a week but lately i haven't been seeing him much at all.

how can i work up the courage to actually admit to him that i'm interested? how can i even get him alone long enough to tell him? i really don't want him to date this girl and leave me feeling like an idiot for not taking advantage of a good thing.

any advice would honestly be really appreciated. &thank you to anyone who actually read this. (link)
well if he really did like you, you should have been able to feel comfortable, knowing that he genuinly liked you, not trying to take advantage, etc.

but ignoring him like that for 3 months just doesnt seem fair to him. if he's been trying to long and youre not responding to him, then his feelings are slowly going to get torn down. Read below

something this happened to me with a girl (i'm a guy). We liked eachother but lived an hour from eathother, and her parents would barely let me see her. 72 days went by of not seeing her, and to tell you the truth, my feelings just went down when i saw her. I mean i was in awe, but mostly because I ahdnt seen her in so long. it started getting less real, way too physical, and all without a solid friendship foundation. Eventually her mom got upset about some things about her seeing me or something and when i heard i wouldnt be allowed to drive up to see her, it ripped everything out of me, and from that point on i was no longer attatched to her. Thank God it did happen.

sorry for length.

My point is, you can only last so long without success. If he tried getting you for 3 months, and you didnt respond hes going to feel down, and feel like hes wasting time on you.

The only opportunity you have is try talking to him again, in a NON ROMANTIC way. when you start getting somewhat close (and i would NOT recommend rushing anything, thats asking for it to end early) then see if he'd be interested and try for yourself.
he may still be attatched to you and not know it. if you show him your still interested, he might try you again...


good luck! I hope things work out. you seem very nice :D


is this close friend or just friends?
-talk to each other a lot
-talk to each other in AIM and myspace
-tell each other secrets
-comes to me when she have a problem
-talks about deep stuff
-used to call& text each other
-we talk in class
-we walk together after class
-we know each other a lot

but we dont
-we never went to their house
-we dont hang out like going somewhere like movies and etc.
-we dont hang out at lunch
-we never saw both of our parents
-we dont get invite from eachother's bday party

are we close friend or just friends? we both knew eachother for 2 years. (link)
i'd say somewhere in between clsoe friends and just friends, especially considering you nor her/him have never gone to either of your houses together. that does take alot of time out of hanging out, and home is where she/he will act like she normally does. if you dont see that then you wont know how he/she acts when your not around.

but you still do seem decently close. I would just try to be with ehr at home a little more, otherwise you look good from what i can see.


16/f

i have no clue at all what i am fealing lately. i have always noticed another girl to be cute or attractive and i have thought about girls in sexual ways but i always thought it was a phase. i started becoming attracted to guys but there was always part of me saying this is how it has to be boy/girl. i have recently made a friend and she is gay and i have been he;lping her with many issues in her life including issues about being gay and i now am fealng attracted to her on a higher level as well as many other girls. i feel like i shoud tell ehr this but i am afraid that she will think i was usuing her in a way to just get close to her, because all along i have been her straight, understanding friend

i dont know what i should do i feel like i am gay but i am jsut not sure (link)
I would give it time and jsut wait. You dont want to do soemthing youre going to regret. if these gay feelings continue to stay I guess your gay, but wait it out a little while. I think you might just be going thru something.


I have mcaffe 2005 virus scan and it dont work anymore, where can I download a good virus scan and firewall off the internet for free that actually works? (link)
I would suggest DOwnloading a free 6 month trial of F secure Anti Virus from Mycrosoft. here is a link:

http://www.f-secure.com/protectyourpc/

SCROLL DOWN TO THE BOTTOM, AND CLICK THE LINK IN THIS LINE: "If you haven't tried F-Secure Anti-Virus software before, you can download a free F-Secure Anti-Virus 6 month trial from HERE"


my friend is letting me borrow her sims 2 game and im gonna put it on my computer and then also her university expansion then im buying a seasons expansion. after doing all this, will my game still work without the original sims 2 cd, and just my seasons cd? cause she just uses her university cd to play, and that was what we wanted to do since the games are so expensive. if this wont work what else can i do thats kinda similar to this?

1. how can i get the sim kids to dance good? and can the kids learn to dance starting from when they are a toddler and then the experience just builds up?
2. can sims do ballroom dancing? w/o cheats? otherwise, whats the cheat to let them do it.
3. can your sim sing in other ways without having the nightlife game?
4. any other tips that will help me through out the game?
5. do you have any info on the new sims3 game?

THANKS! =]] (link)
install the latest expansion pack you have (in this case, seasons), and it will require that cd (again, in this case, seasons).

as for your questions:

1. I dont think theres a measure for dancing
2. I don't know of a way without cheats. Im sure you can google it and find a way
3. i'm not understanding what your asking
4. just play it you will get the hang of it. Otherwise I would just google the "sims 2 gamespot guide" and read up on that. you do have to register, but its a HUGE help.
5. its slated for like a 2009 release or something so idk...


ive been talking to this guy for ever now! it seems like forever. weve gone out once before and we talk constantly on the phone and on the internet. he calls me pet names like baby and stuff. but he says that we arent going out. its true he hasnt askd me and i havent really called him on it. he doesnt really act like a boyfriend around me when were with his friends but then when were alone he acts as if he is my boyfriend. i am so confused! what do i say to him or ask him..or what?! idk! any advice is welcome.
thankyou (link)
yeah for what hes doing to you, he should be the one who is dropped...

people who dont act like a bf/gf to their bf/gf are not worthy of the position. I would try talkign to him. Maybe he doesnt realize hes doing it to you, so talk to him about how you feel.

like what was written though, if he doesnt straighten up, you should probably leave him, as he'll end up doing it to you and it'll be 10 times more painful.

also, spend ALOT of time with him. Maybe hes a party animal.


Freshman year of high school I was going into a new school and didn't have a lot of friends,but I got a few within the first couple weeks.I just got more and more in and out of school,including people I hadn't talked to in a while.Summer was great,but by the end of it I sort of abruptly stopped talking to people as much.It really hit me at a party when I was sort of sitting around while everyone was mingling.It got worse and I ended up talking to hardly anyone,and I don't think I hung out with anyone for the entire year.So Summer's here,and even though it just started...things don't seem any different.I don't want my summer to be like last year,and I REALLY don't know what I'll do if my Junior year goes the same way as last year.

What can I do to get back with my old friends,or make some new ones? (link)
I think you should do both of what you suggested!

Theres nothing wrong with trying to ressurrect a friendship. It can definitly be worth it in the long run, but that DOES NOT mean that you shouldn't make new friends.

I mean you really cant have too many friends! its always good to have a alot of people you can call just to talk or spend some time together. It totally pays in the end :D

God Bless you!


My boyfriend & I have been dating for 4 months now & he's going off to college while I'm stuck here in high school. Would things change between him & I? Should I dump him because of the distance we'll be having? (He isn't moving to a different state/country, just not the same school) My parents are hardcore strict! & they never let me out and there's no way of convincing them to let me go out w/ people or my boyfriend (I'm not asking for advice to talk to my parents, they can't understand English anyway lol). So what should I do? Should I continue this relationship and love him for the next 2-3 years? Do you think a COLLEGE student would still love me by then? :) Please help. (link)
it depends how far you are into highschool...

if you think he is for you then persure him. I wish you luck. God bless you :)


SO me and my gf had unprotected sex yesterday and she is only gonna stay with me until she gets outta high school (she just turned a senior now) i dont know what to do
should i stay with her or end it here? (link)
i dont see why you put yourself in ehr hands emotionally if shes gunna drop you after high school... end it now, save yourself the pain later...


sorry this'll be so long. im thinking about taking sex out of the relationship im in, or if not completely then atleast every onnnce in a while. im 15, and please dont judge me. i see my bf on the weekends and honestly, we have sex atleast like 4 diff times each day. its pretty much 3/4 of wut we do when were with eachother and im sick of it. also, i feel so guilty doing it, specially when im around my dad and i think about it. i know it would hurt him so much if he found out n i feel like a failure or something. and i feel as if im like addicted to it, because ill have sex even when im not in the mood, or im bored n its just like heyy its sumthin to do. so now to my question. ive been with him for a year and 4 months now, and i do not want to break up. now first of all, our relationship is not just based off of sex. so, do you think by taking it out it would ruin our relationship in any way? i mean as far as how close we are and stuff? you get what i mean? i just dont want it to get weird between us or anything. because i know when you decide to have sex and everything with somebody it brings you a lot closer, and i dont want that taken away. so, help please? (link)
personally you shouldnt be having sex at 15.

aside from that, if he breaks up with you over any sort of detailed discussion he isn't worth your time.


Okay, so my computer is like, majorly messed up.
I've tried restarting it a few times, but it's not working.. so here's my problem..


My dad messed the computer up somehow (he's not very good with them..) So, now you go to the desktop or w/e, and all that's showing is the picture. no toolbar, no icons. nothing. the only way i'm on this, is because my AIM box came up for sign on, like it always does, along with the regular block up popping block up poppers.


So what I was wondering was, either A)how do i get my 'stuff' back? I've tried going through programs (ctrl, alt and delete) and i've tried just hitting that thing for the start up options to come up (key between ctrl and alt).

Either that, or how can I get to system restore, if I don't have my icons, because I was just planning on going back a week or something.

I've tried calling the people I always call who help with the computer, they're professionals, but they were really no help like, at all.


Please help if you actually know something about computers?


Thanks. (link)
when you start the computer, repeatedly tap the "F8" key, and when the options box comes up, choose safe mode. When windows is started, it will pop a box up with a "yes" or "no" answer. Click no, and then follow the prompts to restore your computer back to a few days ago. You will not lsoe any data thats been worked with in the my documents folder. You might have to reinstall any programs that you installed depending on what date you choose to restore.



PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ!!! SORRY IT IS SO LONG!

Hey everyone I just had a few questions about fashion.... Well everyone is telling us at this age to be yourself and all that. Well, last year {8th grade) I did just that. I was pretty happy with it. As far as fashion goes, I mostly wore t-shirts and jeans. you know, the kind of tshirts you get from sports teams or from school events. One problem is, you can't get those ANYWHERE but from things that you join and teams that you are on. Like you can't buy them from a store. I have this really small comfort zone and t-shirts are all that I will wear. I am not exactly sure why but I wont touch tight fitting shirts or baby doll type spaghetti straps, skirts or dresses. I wear makeup, but usually no jewelry. Actually, I do
sort of know why I dont wear these. A few years ago, (7 grade) I had a run in with the really popular girls. This was a time when i didnt have a good group of friends yet, I had a lot of friends from home but they went to different schools or they were in different grades. So anyways i was kind of starving for popularity, like most girls this age are, and i befriended this girl Katie. She is VERY popular, predjudiced,and basically doesnt like anyone who doesnt wear hollister or abercrombie. So I joined the club. I got into hollister and all that stuff and was mean to people that didnt wear it. Note- I feel absolutely HORRIBLE about this now and have gone back and apoligized for how stupid I acted. Anyways. While I was friends with Katie, I realized how mean some of these girl are. I dont know about your school, but they are Horrible. So at the end of that year She and I broke up our friendship because she was calling me names all the time and then she started acting REALLY mean to me. When I talking to the girls I had gotten to know through her, they completely ignored me too. So basically, that is why Im not comfortable wearing those kind of clothes. I dont want to look or act or have ANYTHING to do with them. two years ago I came home crying every day. last year, after my style change, i came home with friends and I was happy and everything was good. (even though some of my friends wish I was a little more GIRLY) I am actually really athletic. Okay anyways. Here is the problem. AM I NORMAL? I want to be more feminine. I dont really feel girly. I mean I look nice enough, I dont look like a slob, but lets just say Im not on top of the latest fashion. Its not comfortable for me and I just feel more comfortable in tshirts. I also really need some other clothing options badly. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? no offense but for some reason I got it in my head that everyone associates that type of hollister/abercrombie clothing with being snotty and rude and rich and spoiled. Like if i met a kid wearing rags and smelled I would probably side with him over a girl that was wearing this kind of stuff. I have had a very bad experiance with these type of people and need to get over it. In the meantime, I need some help... PLEASE!!! (link)
wear some loose-er clothes, not skin tight. youre not abnormal. its sorta tom boyish. (not a bad thing, just different). sure it isnt very feminie but it seems like you dont want to be a tom boy so just go to a store like gap or something, see what they have. also, wearing hollister DOES NOT make you a snobby prep.


150 billion trillion miles = how many light years? (link)
150 billion trillion miles = 2.55167143 × 1010 lightyears

(thanks goes to google calculator)


my boyfriend drinks and i dont approve of it. i dont want to sound like stuckup or anything but we're only 14!! and this is something i take pretty seriously because my friend was killed by a drunk driver but anyways..would it be stupid to break up with him because of this? i kno he really likes me but its summer and i dont see him that much and i just think we're growing apart (link)
the drinking shouldn't be enough to break up with him. Its a stupid thing to fight over. Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel about drinking. If he respects you he'll take your opinion and try to make you happy as his gf.

Now if youre growing apart, thats something you have to think about. nobody can make that choice for you. If you think its best to move on and not be with him so be it, but think it thru first. You want to try youre best not to regret it later.


so these 2 girls asked me out. and i like both. wanna help me? please look at the pictures.
this is katie: http://a797.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01007/69/70/1007270796_l.jpg
shes tom boyish. she likes to act. she does alright in school. shes good at some sports. she plays alot of instraments. shes a prude. she has a good amount of money. shes adventurous. shes always buisy. she likes ping pong and skate boarding. shes really family orriented. shes childish. she always hangs out with guys. she is well liked. she has a preppy prude boring sense of style. she always partys and gets drunk. plays xbox alot. tends to meet people on xbox live. she wears hollister and pacsun and things like that 24/7.

this is marychelle:http://a756.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l_9a6daff5fbc15300da1df6b689dd5753.jpg
shes more on the girly down to earth side. shes been through a lot in her life. she loves to break the law. shes iffy at sports. but is a really fast runner. she does ok in school. shes not really prude. her family dosnt have much money. shes loud. but quite in school and around adults. shes wild. shes ussaully not buisy. shes a great dancer. she loves to swim and take pictures. shes funny. alot of people hate her cause shes straight and in the gay straight aliance. shes loud. she has a unique style. like hollister/abercrombie/hot topic/ghetto/retroish.


who do you think is a better choice?
prettier?
what do you think?
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its really all who you like, not what other people think dude...

don't go out with a girl jsut becasue someone said you should.
PS: not to be mean either, but i dont see how you can "like" both of them. Its kinda one or the other...



Go for katie. she seems nicer and seems to have her head screwd on right.


ok i have a girlfriend and ive kissed her before and all that but i was just wondering what are some good tips to do with your hands or mouth while kissing, and like where to do it and all that to make it more enjoyable for her, thanks in advance (link)
umm... I've never kissed someone before (I'm straight), but I guess just holding close to her, maybe just like idk hold her with you. I mean I myself would like that if i was making out with a girl :D


OKay is there anyway to be a preppy scene kid? I so love the scene style and everything. But i also love preppy clothes. I already own tons of Lacoste and Burberry and such. And i dont wanna get rid of them. So I need some help. Thanks and im sorry if this question is so confusing. Oh and if you can help me find some websites with some good scene clothes, that would be most helpful. Cost is no problem.
Thanks

Cody* (link)
especially for guys, this is kind of an oxymoron. Scene and Prep are 2 totally different types of styles, and they don't mix well together. You can wear different style clothes on different days, but I wouldnt try wearing scene and prep clothes together.


I currlently have dial up...which is REALLY slow, I want to go to DSL, but I do not know what is best for me. I do a lot of surfing on the net, and download music, whats best for me? (link)
you should get cable, it is 10 times faster, literally (i've tested this myself with online speedtests)




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