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taking sex out?
sorry this'll be so long. im thinking about taking sex out of the relationship im in, or if not completely then atleast every onnnce in a while. im 15, and please dont judge me. i see my bf on the weekends and honestly, we have sex atleast like 4 diff times each day. its pretty much 3/4 of wut we do when were with eachother and im sick of it. also, i feel so guilty doing it, specially when im around my dad and i think about it. i know it would hurt him so much if he found out n i feel like a failure or something. and i feel as if im like addicted to it, because ill have sex even when im not in the mood, or im bored n its just like heyy its sumthin to do. so now to my question. ive been with him for a year and 4 months now, and i do not want to break up. now first of all, our relationship is not just based off of sex. so, do you think by taking it out it would ruin our relationship in any way? i mean as far as how close we are and stuff? you get what i mean? i just dont want it to get weird between us or anything. because i know when you decide to have sex and everything with somebody it brings you a lot closer, and i dont want that taken away. so, help please?
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I think if you sit down and talk to your boyfriend about it in the right way, he should understand. He may not love the idea (ha ha!) but if your relationship is truly based on more than just sex, he should be willing to agree to your wishes. Start by telling him how much you love him, and you hope that your relationship will last a long time. Tell him that while you love the closeness that sex brings you, you kind of regret that you've started having sex so early, because you're afraid that you'll both get bored of each other and not have anything to look forward to later on. So in order to keep it special, you want to cut back some, so that the times you do have sex will be even more exciting. He will probably disagree with you at first, but if he really loves you and wants to stay with you, he should be willing to do this.
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well you should end the sex thing but yall can still like kiss or touch eachother but the whole sex thing is not a very good ideal. And if ur boyfriend dont understand or get mad over it then forget it if he dont like the whole sex thing ending then maybe he dont care enough for you and think the whole relationshio is only base on sex.And if you are addicted to it then maybe you should tell ur parents no matter how hard it is and get some help.
good luck!!!
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Don't take it completely out. Have it like once a day or something, or once every two weeks. Talk to your boyfriend about it & see what he has to say. If he gets pissed about it, then he's obviously not worth your time & he's become addicted.
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personally you shouldnt be having sex at 15.
aside from that, if he breaks up with you over any sort of detailed discussion he isn't worth your time.
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