THE NAME IS BETH.
i live in the great state of pennsylvania and love it.
im a pretty easy going person and easy to get along with.
i love meeting new people,,but im very shy
im 15,, freshman
i hate people that think they are better than everyone else, becuase they're obviously not.
i never get mad,, but my feelings get hurt easily.
God is very important to me,, im catholic.
food is love.
i love helping people,, which is why i subscribed to this site.
im a generally nice person, and i dont have any enemies.
Website: BETH
E-mail: BRWeller92891@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: SugaRHigH2891
Member Since: November 15, 2006
Answers: 6
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ok i have a friend im confused about! I love her so much! and i dont wanna stop being friends with her, but im so jelous of her and constantly envying her its weakening my self-esteem.. so maybe i should! like this girl is pretty close to perfect.. so everytime i feel happy about something good ive done.. i compare myself to her and start feeling bad.. i can never feel good about my looks, grades, self.. or anything.because i realize "good" will never be as good as her. and its not her fault, duh, i know. But ive tried stopping to compare myself to her AND IT DIDNT WORK! SO I DONT KNOW IF I HAVE ANY OTHER OPTION! what should i do?
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i understand completely with what you're saying. i have a friend like that too. i think the important thing for you to realize first, is that in no way is your friend perfect. no one is. i think you have little confidence in yourself, and you need to find a way to build that confidence up. im sure your a smart girl and will go far, but you cant let someone else keep bringing you down like that. you should find something about yourself that she doesnt have, like maybe you're really good at math, and maybe you could try to just do better than her. i know it sounds sort of wrong, but it really will build up your self esteem. you'll feel better knowing that your better at something than her, and it'll help you realize that she isnt perfect. i know you still want to be friends with her, but maybe you could try to not be around her as much, and you wont have someone to compare yourself against.
i hope this helped, and good luck. i just want you to know that you are beautiful, smart, and talented, and dont let anyone tell you any different!
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i just got a mp3 player and i downloaded limewire. but i dont know how to get the music on downloaded to my limewire library to my mp3 player. how do i get the music from limewire to my mp3 player? step by step would really help. thanks a lot (link)
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ok. i downloaded limewire also, and this is what i do-
download a song, and it will automatically be saved to your computer.
then go to where you organize the music for your mp3 player and go to file and there should be something that says "add file to library" or something like that. click on that and find the place that the music was saved from limewire. then click on the song that you want and click "open".
hope that works!! good luck!
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so okay, i cut. and well i dont see anything wrong with that. i mean its not like its that serious. its just like getting a tattoo. or getting a peircing so why is it so "bad". people always say dont do it blah blah blah. its not hurting them so why should they care? i just dont get why its like considered so "bad" doing drugs and drinking is a wholee lot worse. so does anyone know why people think its so bad? any other opinions?
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for most people cutting is a way of making their pain physical. somehow seeing the cut and blood is stimulation to them and they forget about the internal pain for awhile. it can be serious. cutting can lead to other more harmful ways of hurting yourself. people probably care because they care about you and dont want to see you hurting like that. instead of cutting, try writing in a journal or talking to a close friend or family member. i think it is just intimidating to people who dont understand. i've had to deal with depression for most of my life, and i know what it is like for no one to understand. people probably just dont see the point in it becuase they have never had to deal with the pain of being sad or depressed.
my advice to you is to just try to stop cutting and find another way to get your feelings out. ignore the people that may stare or make comments. only you know what is really going on in your head, and if they dont understand that is THEIR problem. you shouldnt have to worry about it.
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ok for the past 2 days now i've been crying and i don't know the reason for why iam crying i feel like such a baby right now and yesterday my blood pressure was 127/90 and my hands was cold and clammy,but i felt really sweaty like when i have panick attacks and my heart rate was 111 and my doctor says that's very high.I don't know why i had that panick attack becouse i didn't feel sad or nervous and why did i cry for the past 2 days over very little things?one reason i cried was becouse monday i couldn't get the sheet on my bad so i just got mad i wanted to cuss so bad but iam trying to quit so when i could cuss the sheet out i just burst into tears which i knew sounded lame but it's true.Then yesterday i was trying to sew in homeec and somebody told me that i was doing it wrong and i just burst into tears and ran out of the classroom and ran in to the bathroom and locked the bathroom stall door and just sat down and cried so mrs.anderson found me and took me to the counslers office so we could talk but i just sat there and ignored the counsler for the next 15 minutes and then at lunch i wouldn't eat anything at school untill my friend made me eat a couple of bites of her sandwhich so i wouldn't get sick.I just felt like crying all day yesterday for somereason and then after i ate that couple of bites i went to the bathroom so i could throw it up and i've been doing that for the past couple of days throwing up everything i eat.what's wrong with me? (link)
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well it is most likely hormones.they can do such crazy things to your emotions. you probably should see a doctor about it though. throwing up your food definitely isnt healthy. you need to eat! i think you just need to talk to someone. there probably is something going on deep down but you just might not realize it right now. i hope you feel better soon!
beth
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What can I do to be more open about myself with my boyfriend? (link)
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if you feel like you cant open up right now, then you probably dont feel comfortable with him yet. before you can start opening up about the personal stuff, you need to get to know eachother better. just start with hanging out and talking about your day. once you feel comfortable talking to him about the small stuff, it'll be a lot easier to talk to him about the bigger stuff. good luck! hope i helped!
beth
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Well i'm in the 8th grade, and I dont have a best friend... is that bad??? I'm not saying that I am lonely and I have no friends, I have plenty of friends.. just none of them are actually my BEST friends. Arn't best friends supposed to be there for you when you're feeling low? and they always come and sleepover and you always share secrets with each other? welll it seems like whenever I go up to my other friends, they are always busy with 'their' other best friends. It's like they have no intrest in me anymore. My brother just moved away to college and my cousin is staying with us for a while. I have a dog, could that be my best friend? I just feel like I have a lot of depression going on in my life and I really need somebody to talk to. yes, i know.......... I can talk to you on advicenators, but I need somebody not only for talking... but to share my happy moments with, a best friend
and I know you'll say talk to your family.... but the thing is.. both of my parents are ALWAYS working... they leave the house way earlier than I do... and the next time I see them is when i'm asleep. Its just not fair. My brother is in college, and my cousin is always hanging out with his friends or finding some excuse not to be in the house. I'm really sad that I dont have a best friend, and I'm a very busy person.... could that be the reason why I dont have a best friend? cause i'm always busy and they never have any time with me????????
You might say join a school activity and meet friends there... but TRUST ME! I dont make friends easily, lets just say I get SUPER SUPER SUPER nervous when I meet new people, or give a speech to a class. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! I FEEL SO ALONE.... I always see kids in the hallway, hanging out with their best friends, and I am really sad that I dont have a best friend there by me. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????
OH AND IF YOU COULD: ANOTHER QUESTION= HOW DO I GET RID OF THE FEAR OF MEETING NEW PEOPLE AND GIVING OUT SPEECHES??????????????? THANKS SOOOOOOOOO MUCH... I KNOW THIS WAS LONG, BUT THANKS (link)
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holy wow. you sound EXACTLY like me when i was in 8th grade (last year). i didnt really have a best friend, but i still had friends. im the same way,, i get really depressed a lot and i get nervous when i meet new people. all you can really do is just try to talk to new people even though it might be hard. the only real way to overcome it is by doing it as often as you can. the more you talk to new people, the more you'll feel comfortable around them. keep trying to make plans with your current friends and eventually they have to have an opening in their schedule. just remember that a best friend is more than just a label. im sure that a lot of the people in your school just like to have the label of being "best friends", but really arent that close on an emotional level. but trust me,, you arent alone. i know A LOT of people that dont have best friends. it isnt just you. well this is getting super long,, but good luck with everything!!
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