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I'm 15, female and it may seem young, but I'm almost positive I've been in love. This might be hard to understand and sound stupid, but I hope you get what i'm trying to say. There's this boy, Cory, and I've liked him for like 4 or 5 years now. It's such a long story about us, I can't even type it all. But we've had things on and off and hung out a lot and yeah we've done stuff..and we even got to the point where we said I love you. I meant it when I said it too. But we've never actually dated, like been official. We fight A LOT though, and he told me it will never work out between us, which pretty much broke my heart. We hang out with the same people, so it's hard to avoide him sometimes. I've tried to get over him and while I've been trying, I somewhat started to talk to this boy, Tyler. He's really cute and a sweetheart. He always said we needed to hang out and everything. And I've started to hang out with his group a lot, like every weekend now. I thought we were kind of talking, but then I heard he was talking to another girl, Alex. So I asked him and they said they are. :/ I dont know what to do...it's been about 2 months and I still really want to try and be with Tyler. Am I stupid for still wanting him after he screwed me over? And I still think about Cory a lot..I dont know what to do. What would I even say to Tyler? It always seems like I fall for the complete wrong guys...I know I'm young and there will be so many guys throughout my life but when I feel this strong about one right now, I can't help it. I really do think this is it. I dont know if this all makes since, but anything would help. Thanks.
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i have been in your situation before.and still am. okay what i don't understand is that if you and cory have told each other that you love each other, then why is he saying that it wouldn't work out. and has he given you reasons why it won't work out. chances are that he might be afraid of committment. now about tyler.even though he is dating another girl, my opinion is that you should(to get your feelings out and not hold them inside)tell him how you feel. oyu will feel better about it and you will still have tyler as a friend. you never know, tyler might break up with ashley and he will remember you liking him and go to you. the best thing i would do is to make a pro/con list of each boy and figure it out from there. i know that you love cory but if he doesn't want anything to do with you besides friendship, then i would keep it that way. you want a guy who's gonna stay with you through bad and good times and through the fights and the rough times. i hope i helped.
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