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how can you gain a bigger self confidence in your self? i always find myself doubting myself. please and thanks! (link)
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i think i remember when i didn't have much self confidence in me. It really sucked, but i may have a solution, i do remember when i started drawing and finishing some of my pictures i got this feeling of accomlishment. As if i did something not may people could do (which i found out not many can) also i started listening to techno, happy hardcore, hardcore, jungle, frumb n' bass. It made me have some kind of confidence, like i can become someone and not give a fuck if anybody had a problem with me. After this transformation i made a lot of friends, sure there were problems but i know if i set my mind to it that i can jump back up on my feet. What im saying is to find something, a lil hobby maybe and then knowing that self-accomplishment will give you confidence and re asurence that will make you feel better. Hope this helps and take care
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I want to become a witch and i just want any one to tell me anything that they actually know about the process, consequences, and benefits of it. (link)
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yikes, well, for what rewason would you want to be a witch? just becuase? or you have a purpose for being a witch. Most witches i've encountered are EVIL and the reason why is becuase they did it for no reason but thought it would be cool. What happenes is that if you become a witch with no purpose of helping you, then shadows will come to you with what you might think they'll help. Then they'll envelop your soul and you'll end up corrupted. migth wanna read up on wicca and what it has to offer, need to do a lot of reaserch before you dive right in. People get hurt when they go in without reaserch. Hope this helps
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last night i had a dream,where there was a tornado coming towards my house and then i was across my room .I tried to yell to my mom but i couldn't hear anything come out of my mouth and i was trying to reach forward but it felt like something was holding me back to keep me from going forward tehn i just kepy sayin devil leave me alone and then i woke up and i gasped.. somebody said that dream was an experience of a witch riding my back.. i want to know y did it happen.......please help (link)
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these dreams tend to either tell a story of what's to come, or someone maybe put a nightmare spell to you. Believe it of not nightmare spells and other magick stuff are real, just pople choose not to believe it cause it's not in the bible or what ever reason. Anyway, you haven't pissed anyone off or have been mean to the quiet kid at school have you? cause that might happen, karma gets those who deserve it for their actions. If not, then it could be a dream to tell of upcomming events. For example, the otnado might mean a big deal of commotion that you know about, maybe it's trouble with friends? school? relationship? as for the saying "devil be gone" might be a climax of having enough of what ever problem it may be. Hope this help take care now
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I am a Christian but my entire group of friends is not. I want to tell them about Jesus or my faith, but I constantly find myself afraid of their disapproval, but I need to because it won't be long before I become tempted to go against my beliefs. How do I make my stand? (link)
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well it's good to know that you love jesus but the fact is, is that sometimes poeple who are jesus freaks sometimes tend to be a lil annoying when they just preach and preach about jesus. Now im not knocking on the whole thing or saying it's worng im just saying that im pretty sure everyone knows who jesus is, what miricales he did and what he did for us on the cross. Cept when people just go on and on and on, you might get some guy saying " we know already" All of us are all on a mission from god im sure, i am, you are, and your friends are as well, some know and some don't know. Sometimes it's best to let others know for themselves so they can get the true value of the calling. After all you wouldn't want to ruin the ending of a good movie am i right? hope this helps and keep on keeping on ^^
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Isn't Christmas about the birth of Jesus and one of God's biggest miracles? So why do most atheist still celebrate it? (link)
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well actually christmas was a pegan holiday long long ago. The whole tree thing in the house was suppost to be for good luck if it was home grown and you uprooted it, if it lived by the time you wput it back then you're house was blessed with good luck. Also in the bible it was said that jesus was born in augest the time of the harvest.
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What does god want from me? I am 13 and been a christian for 7 years but last month I realized that I need to have a better relationship with god all help is valued. I will take all advice and try to use it..
Allie (link)
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Hi Allie nice to meet you
Personaly i believe that if you think too hard on what god wants from you, you'll end up stressing out and think you're doing everything wrong. Callings from out creater take a while especially as young as you are, i wouldn't really worry about it, but if you are concerned then maybe take the time and enjoy the visual that he's given us. For example the sunrise, the ocean, the wind, you'd be amazed how many stories the wind tells if you just listen to it one day. God gives out callings to those who he deems ready for it. To have a better relationship with god i think would be to just live your life while continueing to be a good person, that's how you live for him. So once in a while take a deep breathe and exhale those worrys, cause someday you mind just realize who you really are and what you're ment for, remember it's not his calling it's yours taht will come in time. Hope this helps
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is the devinci code fact or fiction? im wondering about the secret societies of the church? also they talk about religious history throughout the movie so i was wondering if any of it was true. (link)
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well there's no doubt about the secret societies amoung us form teh freemasons to the illuminnoty. thing is about the movie is that it makes too much sense to be real, so if we really went out and tryied to uncover whatever it is the secret societies will know, stop us, and bs the media. Religion is so big that no one questions it and so becuase of the fear some bring they run organizations the only benift the organizations, did you know that churches bring about 1 billion a year? it was on CNN when they did a peice on it. so it makes sense and dosn't make sense. Guess it's just up to people to figure it out on their own. Hope this helps
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who/what is god?
he who created the universe?
is "he" an unseen entity? bc why do i picture in my head like he looks like a man with long white hair and a long, flowing beard in white robes like zeus except not. hes not a man who created the universe but ppl put this image up of him? (link)
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Kinda frustrating when no one asnwers it the right way huh? they just say what he did rather that what he looks like. It's also kinda funny how people would post things up on relegious figures like the woise man you discribed in your question. I think it's really hard to say, after all he is everything, the alpha and omega, hell he could even be the guy next to you or the homless guy you see sometimes. I think maybe he's someone just like us in a way, shapeless yet always watching, and his true form won't be shown until all of us are with him in heaven. Hope this helps helps
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what are eveangelical christians? not sure if i spelled it right. how are they different from other divisions of christianity? (link)
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when it comes to religion there'll always be a bunch of them especially which ones will say the right ones and to be honest it gets kinda annoying. Anywho evengelicles ( i honesly don't know how to spell it either) are people who strongly believe in the bible and fallow it form page to page... or at least they try to, i mean after all we're only human am i right?
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okay so im kinda in a rut and i was just wondering, can you guys give me advice on why its important to be grateful for everything you have? also can you give me some examples of where youve personally had to believe that. also, people always say to me every experience has a silver lining. any thoughts? also...what do you really believe in? and why? like...i believe that you should always treat others the way you would like to be treated. what do you think? any thoughts would be appreciated. im going through a hard time right now and i just need some advice on beliefs and values. thank you for your time. (link)
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A lot of people feel this way on something as touchie as religion. What i believe in would be somehting a lil differnt, i believe that there is something out there far greater than we can imagine or comprehend no matter how many churches or religious authority figures there are. I beleieve that the laws of most religions were made by man and not god, it was god who wrote the ten commandments and therefore so shall it be, ya know? makes sense if you think about it. Also, yes it is good to treat poeple as if you wan tto be treated so then they'll remember you're kindness and treat mothers with taht same kindness so hopefully we'll all look inside ourseleves and help out one another. Although becuase of the greed and ignorance of today it might not happen as quickly as we all make it out to be. What i think that god would want us to do would be to just live our lives, sure we should question it's not blastfomy. Seriously, it's no crime to just enjoy the ouside and wonder around with eyes and a mind forever hungry for knowlege, to learn about other religion would give us a better understanding about other people so we too could be better people and not so closed minded as others. Couple eyars ago i too had a fall out with my religion but i figured out that just becuase popele screw it up for me doesn't mean i can't be who i am. So i ask myself.. "why should i care? they're not my maker, so i'll worship my own way" of course i didn't get a lot of favor but i learned that just becuase you are wjho you are doesn't mean it's wrong cuase the bible said it is. The bible was actualy made by a bunch of other short stories so people can be inspred to fallow through and be a good person like teh good semaratin. Unfortunitly most people read it wrong by thinking it's how ALL life shold be, but tehy're forgetting that we are still human and mistakes will be made, if you live for yourself while still being a good person, you're living for HIM and i think that's what he would want us to be. After all he individualy crafted us with our different talenst so they can be sued to help or entertain us am i right? if we just stuck our noses in the bible and worship then there would be no art, music, or what we have today. It's good to be greatful of what means themost to you cuase it could be taken away in the blink of an eye. Anyway i hope this helps and i hope i didn't offend you. Take care buddy and let me know if you want to chat more ^^
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Why is it that Christians worship Jesus more than they do God? Jesus isn't God but it almost seems that he is more important to Christians than God. (link)
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i think it is becuase that only through jesus we can get in good terms with god, but you do have a point. Jesus is gods incarnete but not god. I on the other hand believe in jesus and god , but for some this is a touchie subject so i hope what i say doesn't offend you. In catholic beliefs they worship amry when she isn'd god either but only a messanger, i guess jesus is gods messanger but with the events that took place it makes it sound as if they were gods. Just know that there is only one god and the words he wrote were the ten commandments and not what other people wrote or say. Hope this helps and take care
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What is Christian Meditation? I want to know more about it because I heard that it brings you closer to Jesus. Also, what does it mean to "meditate on a scripture"? Is it literal? Thanks (link)
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i don't think there's really a christian meditation it's just meditation. What it is, ism to clear your mind and block out all the unwanted noise so you can hear your thoughts. As for the "meditate on the scripture" all you need to do is maybe read it and try to break it down by thinking about it through meditation or just pure thought, no need to think on it too hard otherwise you might read it the wrong way you know? just takes time and patience After all we're only human anyway, hope this helps.
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OKay soo i really liike this guy at my school and i wanna do something cute for christmas but i want my name to be anonymous. So i was wondering if i sould burn a CD with the only song on it being "All I want for Christmas is you" and decorate it and like write inside it "To the world you may be one person, bu to one person you may be the world" and just leave it on his locker without a name. What do you guys think? should i do this, or something else, or nothing at all?
thank you ! (link)
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i think yes, it is cute and if it were me i'd be flattered, but sometimes these things don't really go with the plan cause then some other women can say it was from her and then he'll think its from her and then... yea BACK FIRE!!!! but what i was thinking maybe is that you could bake him something, and at the bottom could be your e-mail or im or something. Men LOVE htings that they can eat, the way to get into a mans heart is through his arterys, know what i mean? or is not you could make him a scarf or somerthing. ^^ well hope this helps and take care
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one of my best friends is turning 15 tomorrow, and i already got her a gift. she invited me to her party as well (sunday). when should I give her the gift? on her birthday or her party? :) (link)
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luckaly most women are materialistic no matter who sweet or bitchy they are, not saying that your friend is. from my experiance women LOVE necklaces, they'll love anything that they can wear and show around women females to show their status, kinda like on the animal planet with peacocks, when the males show off their colored feathers to show off for female? cept for this one is almost the same... cept no males with feathers. Just get her a nice necklace or bracelette, she'll love it and wear it around school or something. I gave my girlfriend a bracelette a i found on the floor and she LOVES IT, wears it everyday, when i did found it, it was tarnished and dirty so i cleaned it up all nice and new. All im saying is, get her something that she can wear, not like clothes ot anything but jewelary wise ya know? but don't spend over 100 on it otherwise she'll think you're made of moneya nd that's BAD. you'll do fine, and i hope this helps. Take care buddy
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Ok, dont think im crazy, or weird, but i have a problem. What do you think the point in life is???
I asked one of my friends, and they said to serve god. and i go to church and believe in god, but im not very religious (ok, well i am, just im 14, and to afraid to tell my parents i dont believe what they and the church (roman catholics) believe.)
I think i have an issue (like...mental, not LITTERALLY, but like depression ,or someting....my friends, even my bf said im bipolar, b/c i am happy, then all of a sudden depressed for no reason)
ANYWAYS, what do you think the point in life is?
thank you, and sorry this is a long Q. im just trying to explain myself! (link)
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I'm not exactly religious myself like all the other jesus freaks (that's what they call themselves) but i do believe there is one god, and one only god, and jesus. Everyone has their own take on life and it's point, for some, some people say to serve god, for other is to live life. I bleieve it's up to us to choose what life and it's point really is. Sure anyone could say that god wants us to do whatever. As long as it has god in a sentance poeple will listen, although that's not a right way to make people listen, more like brain washing, but that's just my opinion. The point of life i think is up to humanity to choose weither or not to live or kill eachother for stupid reasons, it's up to not just the organizations taht say what is life but the very fragment who says what is life, and i beleive with my heart that it's up to you, and you only. You choose what you're life and what you represent is all about, wiether to live or die for what you believe in. I found my reason what my life is all about and that's to live my life and serve god as best i can. Don't have to go to church every sunday and give money, if i live for myself and obey the 10 commandmends, be a good person then i should be fine. I don't fear what happens cause i know god will take care of me. Life is ment for us, the people to live, to live for what you do and grow to tell people what your life was about. Life is just a broader word for a over all generalazation of everything. what is life?, what is death? what is peace? could be anything we make of it, or nothing. Hope this helps and take care
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I am a 16 year old girl who has trouble finding and keeping good friends. This has been a problem since mid-elemetary school. I feel lonley and bored a lot and really wish I had some good friends. How can I make more friends and be happier? (link)
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eh it's all good, i can understand where you're comming from. When i was in elementary school i didn't have a lot of friends either. Well having friends is always trouble, i just try and be friendly to everyone really. If you see someone in need of something like a lil help with something (doesn't have to be a big thing) like if they drop something or they dropped their books you can pick em' up and give it to them. Introduce yourself and there you go, you got a person you know, till you start talking more and more till it's a friend. It's a lil slow but at elast if you just watch the world around you, you'll begin to understand the flow of humanity. What i mean is, take the time and no epople without saying anything, another term for it would be people watching, just know the people while you can. Or just go out into the world and just be you, you'll eventually find friends in middle and high school. And college ooo that's the most awesome place ever, best 6 years of your life and well freakin worth it. So you have all your life to be misserable, so why start now? just ahve fun with it. Your young and you're being paid for, wait till your 18, you're eaither out or you have to get a job and pay for yourself. liek life, happiness is what you amke of it. Hope this helps and take care.
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how do you make yourself do something you dont want to do? (link)
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when i do things that i know i dislike with great intencity, like... christmas shopping or working at school on crosscountry meets, i just close my eyes and say to my self; that it'll all be over soon and in the end i'll get something in return even thought the work im doing is tidious, the sun will set and a new morning will come. As for the work i just visualize my paycheck getting bigger cause hey, works work and moneys money. Sometimes.. hell most times we're not motivated for a lotof stuff but when it gets doen, the satisfaction's there. You've did it, you did the thing no one wanted to do so you should at least give a pat on the back to yourself. While someone else is dicking around doing nothing you got up and went on. It depends on the situation too so keep your wits up. Hope this helps and maybe i motivated you a lil bit. Life's already fucked up so we all have to get used to it.
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my friend is madly in love with his girlfriend. they both love each other and were planning on getting married when they grew up. they were gonna go to college together, get married, and have a family. however, she went to a party without him and got very drunk. some guy took advantage of her and they hooked up. she apologized to him (my friend), and told him how much she regretted it, and how she would never do it again. should he break up with her? (link)
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Do to the heart ake from aomehitng like this i would have to say yes, but then that might jump to things too quickly. I would feel very insulted and probably seperate for a while and just being friends for now. To have all that commitment shattered like that i personaly wouldn't forgive. If she said herself she was sorry, how could he trust her again? his heart is probvably scared and in a different view of how promises from men or women are void and nothing more. I would just tell him to keep it as friends for now till she realizes what harm she's done by that, maybe he'll find someone who really does appriciate him and values him for who he is. If they still do love eachother then that's good to know how strong of a commitment they have for eachother and second chances maybe possible. Hope this helps
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I have very pale skin, since my grandmother is from Ireland on my mom's side and my grandmother on my dad's side is from France, where it is not very sunny, so pale skin soaks up Vitamin D in the barest sliver of sun. The issue is, even though teasing of my skin has stopped about 2 years ago (in 6th grade when people finally grew up), whenever I express my desire to be a fashion model or a movie star, I get stares and comments that I could never be a model because I am too pale. I know I am pale. I am not oblivious to the fact that my skin is as fair as it can be for a person who is not albino. I do not tan (I burn), and frown upon tanning for fear of skin cancer. These remarks depress me because I think that my not-so-supportive friends don't recognize any of the aspects of the industry I dream of entering someday. I know that I am not the California porn star with large breasts or tan skin or blond hair, but I am me, and I know that someone is going to like what they see when they look at me. How do I cope with the put-downs that my friends give me? I know they think that they are giving me what they think people are going to think of me, but I know that they don't actually know. Does that make sense? (link)
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wow a women with pale skin being a modle? o baby ^^ personaly i thnk pale skins sexy. YES, i believe that you could be a modle, did you know in the middle ages pale skin was to be thought of the most beautiful women out there? also a thing about purity and nobleity. If you truly believe that you can assert yourself , and going taht extra mile in being a modle, and since you have the euro histroy taht makes it even BETTER all euro chicks are very attractive. Fuck those other guys who don't think you can make it. You know you're right your not some cali whore with a shirt that says "skank" with glitter on it and that's great, i discust those anyway. Besides all those other modles had child issues too. Too tall, too fat when they were younger, had braces, blah blah blah. You shouoldn't let those people talk you down, it's another test to see if you are worthy and just by hearing your message about you being you then YES you are worthy. again i believe pale skin is VERY attractive. it's goo to take care of your skin so you don't get cancer but yes and very yes you can and im sure you will make it. To cope with the put downs you don't need to be snotty just remember those comments and use them to motivate yoursewlf and keep your dream alive hun, and when you're being interveiwed just say "well before i became a world class modle and bear fighter, i was told not to be modle material cause of my pale skin and look were i am now?" yes i think you can fight bears.. and WiN. Anywho hope this helps and let me know how it turns out ^^ take care now.
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okay so basically my style is prepish. i usually wear knits or polos from hollister or abercrombie but i love ralph lauren and lacoste, but they're too expensive. i'm also sick of wearing hollister, i want a better style. any ideas? pictures would be greatt. thanks! (link)
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I believe that style only exsists in the persons adittude rather than the clothes he or she wears. These "prepish" clothes i've seen are honestly.. an eye sore foe me really, i can understand what styles people go with only cause what the majority wants them too. The so called style i use is just... well.. free range. All these ralph lauren and abercrombie are just expensive giving off that you're better then everyone else, sure wear what you want and be happy but some people who DO ewra these turn out to be snobbish or just plain mean. I think if you want to look for a new style i suggest you look into yourself and dig in search of who you are. I'm an artist at heart, mind, and body so i just wear whatevere creative thing i want and just go with my own crowd. Believe it or not some people don't like that cause they want things to be in sections, or "cliqes" just like preps... in a sense. When it's about changing style... it diffines YOU yourself. If you seek change then that emans you're evolving which is very very good. Then soon you'll realize the better thing, take the time one day and just listen to the earth itself. The wind agenst the trees, the chatter of people, the motion were everyone's going, the cars rushing. Soon you'll realize what YOU want and what difines you as a person. Open minds open doors, and through those doors sin't what you're friends say.. it's what you say. I hope this helps and take care.
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