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Hey! I'm Mellie. I live in Arizona with my dad, stepmom, sister, 2 dogs, and 2 cats. I am an extremely outgoing person if you can take the time to talk to me.
My favorite color is green and blue.
Ask me any question, and I am SURE to answer it.
Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Member Since: February 11, 2006
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Last Update: February 11, 2006
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what should i do for my mom on v day she is single...thanks (link)
Ask her if she wants to go to a restaurant.
Maybe offer to pay some of the bill :D
Rent a movie.
or better yet, MAKE her dinner! :D


I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying (link)
Well the kids I babysit do this to me. All you have to do is when you babysit, ask them what THEY want to do. If you are controlling and just do what YOU want to do, they will think you're bossy and mean. So let them have a say in some things.
For example, if I am getting a drink or something, they ask me if they can pour it in the cup. And I will say yes. There's no reason that you should say no.
Also, you may not pay enough attention to them. You have to let them know that you are willing to watch them play. Or listen to them sing or talk. Not just sit there and watch TV. If they want to watch TV, let THEM choose the channel. If they wanna watch Disney, let them.


i have a question bout my parens ...... well dealing with them. I am 15 years old. My parents argue a lot and i cant take it. i hate it so much and they dont understand how much sress it causes me. i dont know how to deal. how can i deal with the stress and anger they cause me? please answer as soon as possible. thank you.

Signed,
Stressed and emotional
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My parents have done that before too. What I do first is I go in my room and turn up the TV loudly or music.
If it gets completely out of hand, I go for a walk IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD. Don't just get up and walk out of the house. Walk past them and say "I'm going for a walk." This will probably help them understand that you don't like them arguing, and they might stop.
You should also try sitting them down and talking to them about how you feel about them arguing.


Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them. (link)
I would reccomend stop hanging out with them. If you aren't that kind of person, and it gets on your nerves, then tell them that. If they refuse to stop, don't hang out with them.


I have this talking problem
I talk way too fast and my words stumble over each other
It is just a habit
How can I stop this? (link)
Hmm..
I agree with some of the other answers. You may need orthodontics or dentistry.
It also may just be you get excited real easily. You should probably just try to be calmer and it will slow down ur speech a bit.


okay so my brother wanted to use his headphones with my ThinkPad Laptop and when he plugged them in it worked fine but now when he took them out they dont work, and only work with headphones. so i plugged the phones back in to the headphone jack and then i plugged it into a jack that is red with a microphone pic above it and it started working again. this was yesterday. he did it again today and i tried the red microphhone jack and its not working again, and not even with what worked yesterday. whats wrong how do i get the volume back (link)
Try plugging them into the headohone jack again. If they are headphones, they ARENT gonna work in a mic jack. So try the hdphne jack.


-----Mellie------




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