Hey im greg a 10th grader in average america and have a very extremly annoying love triangle problem.
So obviously there is this girl and w/e you no i like her she likes me you no so im hearing all this stuff that she likes me i like her so friday night comes and not totally but pretty much igonres me and was hanging out with this other kid scott. So i get home and talk to her online and are like wtf and she was like listen i really like you but scott likes me and me and him are really really good friends and i dont want him to not be friends with me if i go out with you and stuff. and i dont want to make her choose between us or anything like that but idk wat to do she thinks i want her to choose and are making it hard for her. k hopfully you can help me thnx.
tell her your not trying to make her choose, you just like her a lot, and dont want to lose this chance.
ask her if it would be ok if you talked to scott. you promise you won't be mean you just want to find out what the deal is.
if she says its ok, just tell scott:
i really like this girl, and i think i might have a chance. she doesnt want to lose her friendship with you, but thats all she wants to be is friends. is it ok if we go out?
and see what he says. if he says no and is a jerk about it, well then maybe the girl you like will see he is a jerk. and if he says its fine, go for it.
Ask_Sam answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 7:05 pm: hiya
jus back off a little coz yes you are jealous i mean any guy would be but jus tell her straight that your jealous and you dont want to loose her. tell her that you really care for her and you are scared of losing her to someon else.
yours truly sam x x [ Ask_Sam's advice column | Ask Ask_Sam A Question ]
karenR answered Monday November 20 2006, 10:50 pm: If they are "just friends" there is absolutely no reason for her not to date you. What if he wants a girlfriend? Think he is going to care what she thinks about it? Don't think so.
I think you need to be asking her some questions like, "are you and your friend dating?" "Are you waiting for him to ask you out?"
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