my gf is always flirting with this other guy at my school and it really pisses me off cuz she barly talks to me anymore can someone tell me a way to get her bak to me
Striker6909 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 3:45 pm: Well I think she thinks that you're too available... so what you do in return... is you talk to girls and you ignore her sometimes or better yet.. if she asks you if you want to go out and do stuff just be like... oh sorry i've got plans with my friend who's a girl.. that way she'll think that maybe she has competition... That's one option a more "manly" one... another option would be to just sit down and tell her and work things out that way. [ Striker6909's advice column | Ask Striker6909 A Question ]
AskMissy answered Friday August 18 2006, 1:05 am: I think you should tell her that you dont like it when she flirts with other guys.
triciaXterror answered Thursday August 17 2006, 9:47 pm: A lot of girls are flirts - including me. It's okay because that's just how we are.
The only way you can fix this is to talk to her. Just pull her aside and be like, "I feel like you are spending more time with other guys with me. I might be wrong, but that's how I'm feeling." And let her respond to that. Make sure you don't say it like "YOU ARE FLIRTING WITH OTHER GUYS! STOP IT!" because she might not think so. After you guys talk, think up a solution to your problem. Spend more time with her, give her gifts, when she's with other guys come up from behind and hug her. Show her you love her.
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Cux answered Thursday August 17 2006, 6:55 pm: Hey-
Try talking to your gf and tell that you don't appreciate what she's doing- ask (or tell- your choice) her to stop flirting with the other guy
Maybe (now this is extreme- I don't recommend you do this) you could dump her and see what she says. (I'm just trying to say something different than what all the other people said)
Try being sweet and take her out to dinner on a friday night somewhere in town- show her that you really care about her and she might just realize she needs to hang out and talk to you more..
stillstella answered Thursday August 17 2006, 6:42 pm: The best way to get a girl back is to let her know how you feel. Be straight and upfront about the situation. Let her know that you are uncomfortable with her always flirting with that other guy and that you would rather she flirt with you. But not only should you tell her, you should also show her. Make her want you. Be a gentlemen, do more things to make her laugh, and show her that she is an important part of your life. [ stillstella's advice column | Ask stillstella A Question ]
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