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shy!!!
ok. i am so VERY shy!! and i hate it. well most of the times. i mean sometimes i dont mind being shy but other times i hate it!!! so how can i like not become shy1!?!?!?!?!like for my sport that i do EVERYONE is so loud and stuff and im like not. so i feel left out. and im not very outgoing like how do i become more of that tooo? lol i dont know if you can change that... but i was just wondering.
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just be your self maybe your not meant to be loud. or you can just try to speak your thoughts
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First, take small steps, like saying "Hi" to people in the halls to become more outgoing. It's best to find a good friend who you can talk to at your sport so you can laugh, enjoy yourself and basically have a good time. Conversation starters work wonders.
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The reason your shy may be because you're scared of what others think if you were to be outgoing? All I can say is just talk when you're in groups, give your point of views, and don't be embarassed to do something spontaneous! Just always be yourself though, don't change for anyone.
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Don't force yourself to be someone else. I know where you're at. Maybe you're just soft spoken-always smile and have something to say to lift the spirits of others. People will admire you for that. Being loud just isn't your thing which is good because sometimes really loud people are obnoxious. lol
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hey I am exactly the same way but over the last year I have losened up some just when you see people doing something loud and spontanius just dont think about what anyone will think of you and just join in as long as you are having fun who cares what other poeple think ........from a shy person to another.
ps. I hope I helped
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well..i used to be shy when i was little..then i got into acting and soccer and cheerleading. in cheerleading you are definitly outgoing. i think acting will help too. i do drama camp and a ton of shows in my town and its a lot of fun. you make a ton of friends too. hope i helped..rate high! thanks (: Rachel
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It's not a bad thing to be shy, don't worry about that. When you meet someone new, give them a big smile and introduce yourself. Say random things to start conversations, and make them laugh. I say the word 'sexy' a lot (weird right?) but it makes people laugh and makes them comfortable. Talk about things you have interest in, and if you feel like you've said something dumb, don't think about it. People don't really care if you mess up, and if they find it funny for a second, they'll forget about it later. Just be yourself.
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