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Ever since I read this book
13/F
Hi!!!,
Ok, my mom told me that I was to young for the book but I went ahead and read it anyway and it has Very described sex scenes in it, now ever since I read it i can stop thinking about it. I dream that I'm having it with my BF(we've touched e/o but never kiss or acually taken our clothes off) and last night I dreamed I had it and then I got pregnat and the baby died and.... oh my god. I was so scared. what should I do?
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its normal for the hormones to kick and natural to be curious but dont have sex...just chill out your only 13 and just now entering teen s
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its alright. youre 13 and your hormones are all jumping around. Its called being horny. Im sure you knew that. Starting at ages 13 all the way to about 16 or 17 our hormones are really going crazy and like sometimes sex is all we think about .Its ok to think about having sex with your boyfriend but also maybe that dream was telling you not to have sex. When you say that you and your boyfriend touch each other do you mean on like your boobs and his penis? Because after looking in a book like that and having touched your boyfriend you may have just been sexually eroused. And that perfectly fine at our age. Dont worry about it. Its just your hormones. :-)
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it is perfectly normal to start thinking about sex and stuff at a young age if you have bad enough urges just mastribate or tell your boyfriend you want to get a little closer and try new things dont worry you will be fine
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It seems 2 me that you have a guilty consciounce on your hands. I know you might not want to do this and you dnt have 2 but u will keep ahveing those dreams i would tell your mom and then your concionce will be cleared try it i guarentee it will work
Hope i helped
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maybe you should tell your mom that you read the book and are having them dreams.
this all could be from your conscience knowing you werent supposed to but did it anyways.
if you told it probably would go away..
good luck
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i know know one wants to do this but tell your mom that you read the book!! and it will clear your contions!!!
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Next time listen to your mum!
Anyway, don't worry, most people think stuff like that sometime, just remember that your mum was right, you are too young. So keep it in your head, don't start doing things like that with your boyfriend. I guess your dream has shown you what kind of consequences sex can have... just think of it as something to look forward to when you're married!
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don't worry about it. you'll get over it soon :)
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