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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?
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look just tell him you arent comfortable with that being on his phone and he should understand if he doesnt than he doesnt respect you
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Do you want to send him a picture of your private, but not too his phone? If so, he might accept that. If you don't want to do it at all, tell him you love him. You can take your pants off to show him, maybe...try to figure another way out if you can.
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Just be like,"I love you, but I don't want to do it. I'm not comfortable with it." And if he loves you, he should respect your decision not to do it. Never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. And who knows what he could do with it? He could put in online, show it to all his buddies, it'd be humiliating. But if he doesn't respect your decision, you might want to break up with him. You should be with someone who respects you. I hope everything works out well, and I hope I helped! <3
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Just say 'NO!' If you don't want to do this, don't feel like you have to or you need to do this to make him happy. The picture could get into the wrong hands and could be put all over the place, even the internet. You never know, you and your boyfriend could break up and he could get mad. Then, he'll have that picture and he'll just post it up everywhere. The best thing would be to say 'NO' and hopefully he respects that. If not, he's not a good boyfriend in the first place. ♥
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Just tell him that you dont love him unless he excepts you. Tell him that your face is prettier than your pussy.
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omg my friend wanted me to that for me!he asked me like 687686 times ugh it was so annoying guys can be such jerks sometimes...just say "hunny if you really love me youll respect me by not giving you that picture im a little uncomfortable about it" and then the conversation should be dropped.If he keeps it up then i think you should think about finding someone else who will respect your wishes.
♥ danielle
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Well first of all , it`s your body. So if you say no & he`s not okay with it .. then u shouldn`t feel bad AT ALL. And if you don`t send it to him and hes all like , "i`m ganna break up with you now , blah blah blah" , then he`s not worth your time anyway.
Hope I helped. <3
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Just tell him you don't feel comfortable doing that and tell him you love him.
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Just tell him that your not comfortable with that.DONT EVER do that.You never know WHO hell show it too.What if you guys break up and he goes off showing his freinds or prints it and posts it out everywhere to get revenge?I know you said you dont want to but im just warning you about what could happen.
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If he really cares for you then telling him that you don't feel comfortable doing something really shouldn't bother him. Really he should be happy knowing that you didn't do something you didn't want to because if he cares for you then he wouldn't make you do something you weren't comfortable doing.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
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oh don't do that. this one girl at my school sent it to a guy and he sent them to everyone he knew! she was known as the biggest slut ever i felt so bad for her!! <3
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If you don't want to, then don't. If this boy really loves you then he'll understand. A guy asking a girl that is pretty gross to me.
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Your integrity and dignity are all you have. NEVER jeoporidise that for a guy. No matter how much you love him, you shouldn't do anything you don't want to do. He needs to RESPECT you first and foremost. Asking that of you is NOT respectful. You need to communicate upfront with him upfront and say "That makes me feel really uncomfortable, and violated; I won't do it!" If he doesn't take no, tell him to hit the road. It sounds harsh, but asking you to do something degrading like that isn't right. He could show that to friends (he most likely will, evne if he says he won't) and tell people. Your reputation could be ruined. Even if you think it's worth it, it's not. Never hold your tongue for what you know deep down is right. :)
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just say no way! laugh it off or call them sickos in a teasing kind of way. looking at ur buissness has nothing to do with love anyways. whats the worst that can happen?
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you should deffinitly tell him noooo.
sending naked pictures of yourself isn`t considered not loving someone its just considered not being a dumbass!
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Love has nothing to do with it. If you don't want to, tell him "NO".
You can tell him this little story if it will help...a 15 year old left her cell phone in an 18 year old boy's car. Instead of telling her Mom it was in the car, she said the boy stole the phone. When the police came to his door, he searched his car for the phone and found it. He handed it over to the police. The police officer started paging through the numbers to see if he'd used the phone and found nude pictures of the girl, and pictures of people smoking pot. The phone became evidence, and he is being charge with possesion of child pornography and she is being investigated for drugs. So my advice is not to consider doing so, it may end up in the wrong hands and be used against you or him in some manner.
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You dont have to do anything you dont want to do. Just tell your boyfriend that you dont feel comfortable sending him a picture. If he ends the relatioship he never really loved you. he was in the relationship for other reasons.
hope i helped.
Kim:)
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You tell him a picture isn't love and you aren't going to do it. And don't do it.
You may think you will be with him forever but if you aren't that picture could be shown around school or on the Internet. It would be very hard to get over something like that and could devastate you forever.
If this boy cares about you he won't insist or argue about it. If he does then I would be a little suspicious of his motives for wanting the picture. :)
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