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is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13?
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You have to know that you want to do this. Consider why you are going to do this and if you will regret doing it at such a young age. Think about the fact that this is deffinetely wrong, but if you feel the time is right then go for it! :]
♥ lena
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It's not wrong to want to do it... it's just hormones. But is it wrong to actually do it at age 13? I think the answer to that is ABSOLUTELY!! You are still a child... you haven't even full developed, and neither have the boys your age! There is no way you could possibly be ready to take on the responsibility that comes along with having sex! If you still don't think it's wrong, ask yourself this... "is 13 too young to have a baby?"
Take care and respect yourself!! :)
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no that is normal that is when your homones start to kick in
so dont worry
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No, not to want to. But if you are actually having sex at age 13, yes. Thats wrong ..
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Sure it's okay to want to have sex at 13, but I highly reccomend you don't.
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its not wrong you just have to be sure that youre ready and its with the right guy. so you dont regret it later
hope i helped
kim
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no way it's normal to think about sex and want to do it but it depends on if your ready or not to actually have sex
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Well it depends on you. If you think youre ready then I dont belive its wrong but if you have doubts I dont think its a good idea. I personaly think its a bit too early but it all depends on you ;)
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Well it isnt wrong to think about it because that is normal. I think it is a little young of an age to do that sort of thing i mean protection doesnt always work, do you want to be pregnant at your age right now? i mean there is a chance that it will work but are willing to take the chance? but it is perfectly normal for your age to think about it and want to do it.
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no, its not bad, i want to sometimes, and im one year younger than you... but u might want to know, pick the right person for ur first!(not that i would know from experience!)
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It is never wrong to have sex but you are way too young and it could hurt you by giving you a baby and that sort of stuff so do not do it.
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Yes, it is. I don't believe anyone should have sex before marriage, but if you absouloutly HAVE to, like what a lot of people think, do it when you're at least eighteen.
-mystical_breeze
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it isnt wrong it just shouldnt be done. everyone now a days wants to have sex but tha doesnt mean they all should.
*~Stephanie~*
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It's not wrong to want to have sex... but it doesn't mean you should.
My personal beliefs are that you should only have sex if you are able to deal with any potential outcomes, such as pregnancy or STDs. If you cannot comfortably carry a child to term, then you should not be having sex.
That is just my opinion, but remember there are other ways of having sexual fun without actually having intercourse!
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its a sinn.. you can get std,, if you dont ko whhat your doing you can get stds and hurt yourself and get yourself f*cking pregnate..
please just dont.
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It's not really a right or wrong question, or an age question. It's more if you are ready, and know what might happen afterwards. I wouldn't have sex until i'm married, but I know a lot of people now aren't like that.
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Nope, not worng to want it. It's natural. However, it would be wrong to do it.
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Well in my opinion,I dont really think so i mean thats when our hormones start and we start to want to do things with guys/girls.I started wanted it at like around 13 or 14 lol so yeah its totally normal.I probably wont recommend actually having sex though at 13,believe me its a bad idea.
♥ danielle
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No its not wrong its normal for teenagers espcially at the age of 13 to want sex!! its hormones && very normal..
Also i`m not sayin go out && have sex with anybody when ever you feel this way tho..
♥Dez
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I don't think it's wrong to want it because that's when puberty is kicking in, but I do think it's wrong to actually go out and have sex. It's still too young, so if the wanting is that bad, maybe trying to satisfy yourself could relieve that a little.
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I had sex at 13 and I am now 15 and I regret it because I feel I got used and It wasn’t worth it. I wish I could have saved my virginity for the guy I’m with right now. He actually loves me and cares for me. And the other guy didn’t. so I would make sure you know your partner. Make sure you love him and he treats you well. The guy I was with was 16 at the time and I made a HUGE mistake! So it isn’t wrong to have sex at 13 but it isn’t good either. Please make sure he cares for you and wont leave you. I loved the guy I did it with but he didn’t feel the same way. We went out a while but it wasn’t long enough to know the real him.. and I now regret everything… so think before you act this was a perfect question for me to answer!!!
I really hope I helped you make the right decision..
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no i dont think it's wrong but still , think before you do something that could get you in trouble!!!
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Well it depends. When you have sex, it's usually your choice. However, it is illegal. You need to be I think 18 for it to be legal to have sex. If you have sex with someone that is 18 and you are only 13, your partner could get in major troble. Just make sure you know the risks of having sex. If you are safe then you should be fine. In my opinion, I think it's young.. don't risk your life at such a young age.
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It depends on what you mean by "wrong".
Is it wrong from a religious perspective? Possibly, but that depends on your particular faith, if you have one. If so, you may want to discuss this issue with your spiritual adviser.
Is it ethically wrong? I don't think so. You want what you want, and it makes no sense to condemn yourself for feeling a particular way; it would be like thinking that you were "wrong" for the color of your hair.
You can't control what you want. What you DO about it, though, IS under your control.
In other words, wanting sex is perfectly natural. It's our basic biological urge. If ALL of our ancestors didn't want sex, we wouldn't be here. It's programmed into our DNA at the very deepest level.
Of course, not everyone feels that way at age 13. Boys are more likely to have overt sexual feelings at that age than girls are. And the simple truth is, while human beings often *want* to have sex at an early age, mentally, emotionally, and in some ways even physically we simply aren't ready at that point.
At 13, you're still a child in many ways. Adolescence is just beginning. And there's a HUGE amount of growth and change that is about to take place.
That growth won't really be accomplished until you've reached your early 20s. Does that mean that people should wait until their early 20s for their first time? Not necessarily. The urges are pretty strong, and many people just can't wait that long. But waiting as long as possible - 18 is a good target age, if not a bit later - is a good idea.
Sex at an early age tends to really screw up your attitude towards sex, love, and the opposite gender. It can lead to pregnancy, which is almost always a total disaster for the underage. And, of course, there are the legal issues.
So don't feel bad about wanting sex...but don't rush into it. Good luck!
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