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friends are asking me things i cant answer
im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do?
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who cares there not your real friends just because you havent kissed a guy doesnt mean your friends should ditch your its good to wait anyways
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Well dont rush at kissin a guy. You want your first kiss to be special, not because your freinds have and you just want to say you got a kiss. When they talk about it and ask you just sayin your waiting for the right guy to come along. Hope I helped some!
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who cares if you haven't kissed anyone....at least you aren't a slut!!! Its better to save your virginity for the one you are gonna spend the rest of your life with. Right now, it may seem like you are the only one out there that isn't haveing sex (thats how I feel) but in the long run it will pay off and you will be really happy you made the smart decision and didn't have sex. when your frieds ask you how far you've gone tell them you haven't had sex or done anything like that and be proud. But about the kissing, kissing is great! lol You will get kissed soon. And if you don't want to tell your friends you haven't done anything you can say that you have made out with a guy
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You need to not worry about these things at the moment. If you friends were real friends, they wouldn't care if you told them that you've never been kissed. Theres nothing wrong with never being kissed at 14. You should be really proud of yourself about it and be happy about yourself. But, you can't let your friends get to you because they've had more experiance with guys. You need to look at this differently. You're 14, and havn't found the right guy to kiss. You don't want a silly reputation with guys and kissing like everyone else. This is your life, your pace, and I'm sure you'd love to kiss a guy right now, and sometime you will. You just need to wait and not worry about your friends' experiances.
-TheTeenGirl
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♥ WELL MAKE A MOVE ON A GUY!! HE MiGHT KiSS YOU FOR NOW, TELL THEM THE TRUTH i MEEN THERE YOUR FRiENDS BUT iF iTS TO HARD JUSTCHANGE THE SUBJECT..iM SORRY! ♥ GRACiE
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Well just wait untill your ready dont do it becuase everyone else is!! Ok hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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deffinantly go at your own pace but dont lie...if you wanna kiss somone etc. then when they ask say well...i havent done anything but i wanna do this " " and then say it...go at your own pace...who cares what everyone else is doing?
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you're smart. you're waiting for the right guy instead of blowing everything off on a loser.
Good job.
Who cares. Tell them that you'd rather have a relationship last with a good guy rather than have it last for 2 weeks with a loser.
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well tell them i havent found the right guy and i would like to but they arent the right people!!!
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You should just tell your friends the truth when they ask you. If they cant accpet you not having done anything with a guy then their not very good friends. It may be hard but it's the right thing to do! And if they start talking about things like that then you should just ask them if you guyz can just change th subject because your not comfortable talking about stuff like that! I really hoped that i helped! Good Luck
Xo Kara Xo
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Be honest they should understand and eventually you will get your chance dont worry about it. :)
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Hey!
I kind of know how you feel. I've never kissed a guy either and ALL my friends have. NOT FAIR!
Trust me... you're not being left behind. The moment will come when it's meant to. You can't EXPECT it because then, there's no fun in doing it! Your friend may have but that doesn't mean you have to follow what she does. What she does is her business and what you is yours. You don't have to kiss a guy to be "popular" or "cool" around your friends. Be yourself.
You seem like a smart girl because I know you won't go TOO far with a guy when you're TOO young. Just because your firneds lost "it" doesn't mean you have to. That special time will come to you when it's supposed to. You're smart because you know right from wrong. Kissing IS normal at your age but sex isn't. You're not going to be "dumb" or "uncool" if you don't kiss a boy at the age of 14. You may be 35 before you have your first kiss! WHO CARES?!?! You do it when you're ready, not when everyone else is ready for you to.
I hope this advice helps. Email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com if you need advice or want to talk about ANYTHING or talk about nothing! LOL Just email me if you want!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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Double LOVE~!~! ♥♥
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tell the truth. at least you have enough morals to not to
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Your friends sound like whores.
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First of all, you should be proud to not have had sex. Because, if your only 14, and all of your friends are having sex.. That's horrible... Your soo young, sex is supposed to be something that you share with a special person, not just some random boyfriend who you feel as though you need to have sex. You know? And the whole thing about your friends asking you how far you have ever been with a guy, tell them the truth. They'll be like "WHAT? ARE YOU SERIOUS?" You know? But, your not a slut... So you should be proud of that. I didn't have my first kiss until I was like 14... or maybe even 13. I am not sure. But, just take it easy. Don't worry about what other people think of you, sex, and kissing are not every thing. If any thing you should be shoving it in their faces that your still a virgin and they aren't because that is the most special thing in a girls life...
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First of all, I'm 17, and I haven't "lost it" OR kissed anyone yet. There's nothing Wrong with you, it just means you haven't met someone you've liked well enough to have a relationship with, or maybe just haven't gotten around to kidding. there a heaps of 14 year olds who are the same as you. I don't want to sound rude (but I'm obviously going to anyway, so don't take it too bad ^.-) but your friends sound sort of slutty. What's their point? So fëcking what, you haven't lost your virginity... is it "cool" to lose your virginity? I think it's STUPID to lose your virginity to peer pressure!
Maybe if you really do think you're being left behind by your friends then it's for the better. If they're so far ahead of you then there's sure to be some people right alongside you, and they're probably the people you want to know better. The ones who don't care that you're still a virgin, who don't even ask about it.
Just as a parting thought; you've got to live sometimes. There has to be a first time for everything you want to do in your life. But you also have so much time in which to do things. There's a balance between "seize the day", because you could die in a car accident, and "take it slow", because everybody knows that people make stupid mistakes they regret. You just have to decide when you're ready - don't let other people tell you.
-K
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if your friends are really your friends. the'll except you for who you are, and not for how many times you've done it. and if they stop being your friends for such a ridulious reason then there not worth being friends with.
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you should just tell them if there your true friends they wont be mean to you and you should be proud bc one of them could get pregnant so just tell them if there mean find better caring friends<3 hope i helped yah!
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GOOD!! keep it like that!! you should feel cool because your different from everyone. they'll like you more because your a leader and not a follower. your only 14 and going beyond kissing at your age is just WRONG. who cares what they think about you!? if you dont want to do it. DONT. just simply tell them..the furthest you've done was kissed because you respect yourself and its a personally choice so you dont care what they think. you'll sound more mature.. and you sound like a WAY better person than those people who are having sex at 14.. thats just GROSS.
** im proud of you! dont fall into stupid peer pressure.. im exactly like you too! = ) **
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Don't rush it, honey. Just wait, it will come soon enough. If you rush it, it just..the next time you kiss or do it w/ a guy, it won't be the same. Especially if it's someone you love. Just don;t rush. Maybe you could lie or something, or tell them the truth. If they like get mad at you, then they're not worth it. But just don;t rush it.
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if they r making fun of you. you shouldn't hang with them. but if there just talkin bout it try to change the subject. like say you have to go to the bathroom then come back in a min or 2 and ask them a question like where do you get your hair done. Hope my advice helps!!!!!!
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