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I so want to have sex but Im like 13..what should I do? Should I go for it or wait?

Dont! You dont need to have this in your life. If your being pressured to tell someone. Pray for help and just dont keep your feelings in tell someone as you did now. When its time to have sex hopefully youll be married and also ull kno when it time.

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i really want to go because i haven't gone before but i have no date and no guys wanna dance with me so i'm a loner..i can't ask anyone to go with me..i'd probably be rejected..if i do go, i will feel sad during the slow dances and shy with the fast dances..all my friends go there to dance and hang out..i can't just hang out..everyone has a date except for me..i'm sad and im confused..i don't know what to do..:( people make fun of me..esp. the guys

Dont worry about what they say just go and have fun. Hang with your friends and just dance with them. All you have to do is know that your there for urself and no matter what ppl may say. Have fun for you and dont ruin ur nite because of them.

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Ok well my best friend is really pretty and everyone loves to be around her. Alot of guys like her, its not even funny.
Well i would say i think im pretty but compared to her i dont feel pretty. It seems like everyone wants to be around her and not me.
I feel jealous all the time, and i hate it...i mean she is my best friend!!
What the heck is wrong with me and how do i stop feeling jealous??

For 1 thing stop comparing urself to her...i mean i hve this bf thats like beatiful and is comstantly dating where im not and yea i do feel jealous. But then i think of how many things i hve that she doesnt hve. Just b/c she may look preetier doesnt make her ne better. Tell her how u feel and nothing is wrong woth u. Theres people out there who wuld give there life for you and thats all that matters.

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oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!

PLEASE HELP!!

My parents have split up to and I know how you feel when your parents finnally go out with someone really nice that you and them both like. Your not being wrong to your Dad. Your Mom is just looking for another father figure in your life and its good to know that you like the one shes going with. Dont feel guilty your father knows you love him as it is now and will always know that. The same for when your Dad finds someone you like a lot to.

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Where can i get free graphics like cursors, backrounds, blinkies, dividers, scroll bars, banners, welcome signs, music, adoptables, aim icons, other html help like font issues, and maybe even quizes that give the code for the result? I would prefer at least one of those graphics on the sight. Thanks in advance. If I get a really good answer I'll rate high.

Go here to make some kool sparkly words for ur web page:
http://www.coolcherrycream.com/neopets/tutorials/sparkle_name_tutorial_acme.php

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ok i cut my hair about 4 months ago really short and i hate it b/c my hair has always been super long and my mom will flip if i show her but i feel bad should i show her or shouldnt i

I kno how ya feel and I would just show her but tell her that you made a mistake and that you have learned from it.

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I dont want to sound like a jackass or anything, but why do most women (most being the ones that ive talked to on the subject taht are in HS or graduated around the 17-21 age range) not like birth control. Now it seems to me that birthcontrol isnt to bad at all, and that these women dont understand that seriousness of having a baby. Can someone pleas like to explain why someone would rather risk getting pregnant and having an unplanned baby or having an abortion, instead of takin a pill that would save you from alot of trouble.

Sorry about the length, but its a serious subject, 18-m

Well birth control can be somewat dangerous with its side effects here r some that it can cause:

Nausea is a common early negative effect of the pill, as the estrogen in the pill may irritate the stomach lining. Nausea usually goes away after three months; antacid tablets or taking the pill with dinner usually gives relief. Again, if this symptom persists, seeing a practitioner and switching to a pill with twenty micrograms of estrogen might offer relief from the nausea and decreased appetite.

Other common side effects of the pill are headaches, depression, change in intensity of sexual desire and response, vaginitis and vaginal discharge, urinary tract infection, changes in menstrual flow, breast changes, skin problems, gum inflammation, it can aggravate asthma, and increase your incidence of contracting viral illnesses. All of these are common side effects, which means not to be alarmed, but to discuss them with your practitioner to see what changes can be made to reduce the discomfort.

Any problem lasting more than two or three cycles should be reported to a health practitioner. The following are symptoms of serious problems: severe pain or swelling in the legs (thigh or calf), bad headache, dizziness, weakness, numbness, blurred vision (or loss of sight), speech problems, chest pain or shortness of breath, abdominal pain. Report these immediately; they mean you should stop taking the pill.
~PiKlEz~Ne more ?'s IM me!

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ok... like i was supposed to get my period like last week. but ididn't yet. i have my doctors appointment september1. and my mom said that i have to tell tehm the truth of when i got it. but my mom like never believes me so she thinks i already got it but i never did. so like she said if i never got it. and i tell them that that they have to run tests on me. is that true? because i never did get it yet this month. and i am scared. like i got it in march. like don't say like "oh don't say that you are no0t on your origional track yet. but my mom doesn't believe thast happens. so like what should i do. im so confused. what are the tests.... and like i don't know. i am so confused. like i can't remember when my last period was so i can't tell them that. so.. what do i do?

Rissa xoxoxo
13/f

Well I cant really help you but what I would do is just pray.

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has anyone here used accutane for pimples??? im scared about the side effetcs? is it safe to use for a 15 yr old girl? what about birth control?

Well I dont think you should even be having sex at your age it can be very dangerous.

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im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do?

Well dont rush at kissin a guy. You want your first kiss to be special, not because your freinds have and you just want to say you got a kiss. When they talk about it and ask you just sayin your waiting for the right guy to come along. Hope I helped some!

~Brooke~IM at piklez333 or email me at piklez333@aol.com if you have anymore questions~

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Im starting High School in 10 days. Im excited/nervous but whatever. Does anybody know any school supplies that will be needed? Or could anybody recommend school supplies i should have? Except for pens,notebooks and a backpack because i already have those things?

A Bible.

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i am 15 and going to be a sophmore at my highschool. and i guess me and robbie had a crush on eachother in 5th grade and we went out in 6th grade and 7th but on and off ( you now how those middle school relationships are, dont mean anything) but i guess its funny because we even talked in middle school after elementary and he IMed me the other for the first time since like 8th grade.. but we have been talking online the last couple of weeks and lastnight he asked me to hangout sometime next week. we will probably end up going to see a movie or sumthing but honestly ive never really been on a date. ive had serious relationships but i mean we didnt go on dates first, i dont know how to explain it. so i need some ideas on where to go, what i could wear, and some stuff to talk about. thanks alottt

Well wat you wear depends on where you go.And what you wear depends on where you go, because if you want to be comfortable go to the movies. If you want to be more dressy go out to eat, but it also depends where your going to.(If you go to Mc.Donalds dress casual/If you go to Applebees dress up more.)EX.If you go to the mall where a jean skirt and I nice shirt to match.Also what you talk about depends on what you are doing but only to start off the conversation. The it will all just flow together if its meant to be.

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I went to www.geocities.com to create a site, and then we went to Pagebuilder "help" and it said the minimum System requirement was 133MHz Pentium. What does that stand for? And also, can someone recommend another website-making site that's user-friendly, free, and doesn't require a lot of system stuff?

Try freewebs.com

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Okay so my friend said she hates my boyfriend, and always tells me to dump him or she will make my live hell.. she said that i deserve someone hotter because my boyfriend is ugly, and cares about only me. She and my boyfriend are always arguing and it makes me cry, and today she was being really mean to him, and she made him cry, and then me. I dont know what to do..please help!

Dont dump him. Tell her that if she is trully your friend she will let you date whoever you think is right for you but you appreciate her trying to help and her caring enough for you to share her ideas on your boyfriend.

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to lose stomach fat, is walking the same as running? im not very good at running and i really want to lose my stomach fat so can i just walk? will walking help me lose my stomach weight?

No it wont. Do crunches and sit-ups to help with your stomach fat.

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This is so weird but..my friend has a pic of my ex bf that I like so much and she made him a website and it has the picture. When I saw the picture, I started crying. I dont even know why. Maybe cuz I haven't seen him for 4 months striaght. I'm supposed to be hanging out with him when I get back from vacation. What if when I see him i want to start crying?? What can I do and why did i start crying like that?? How can help myself from crying when I see him?? PLEASE HELP ME!

Well you might want to avoid him untill you have tottaly gotten over him. Because obviously you arent as over him as you might think.

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how do you dump a guy?

Well dot lie when you do it. Make sure you are strong on what you mean so he knows it is over but dont be mean about it.

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what are some good screen names that arent taken yet. i dont want something that is lettery lik ursofune or something im way past the luv and oic types i like things typed out like they should be so i want something real and simple but i dont want it to be boring

Greenbean

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this year im taking two high school courses (algebra 1 and intergrated pyhics and chemistry) along with advance placement classes. but my problem is that the teachers have loaded us with homework each night and its only the fourth day of school. i have stayed up until 11:00 every night doing homework and i get off of school at 2:25.

can someone give me some tips on how to finish my homework faster...so i can get some sleep.

BTW: im 13/f and i rate high enless its a smartass answer...

signed-
Sleep Deprived

Well go to an enviroment where you dont lack any concentration. Have so water with you and a snack to keep you from getting up and forgetting that you have homework to do.Do some of your homework in your free time like in classes when you may just be sittin there. Though do take a break every so often to give your brain a break so you can start fresh when you go back to your work.

Hope it Helps!~Brooke~

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hey im a new student and i just moved from CA to ND its horrible i got you guys sn from a friend any way i am a new student and im really upset because nobody knows me and they all have there own little cliks and nobody wqants me in theirs

PLEASE HELP

signed,
no friends

Well start loaning like pencils and stuff to them when they need them. See what there interested in and bring up a conversation. Start tlkn and they will listen. Theres always a place for everyone. Also join a sport. Haveing a sport to play is a great way to make friends. I know its hard to really get into a whole do skool and enviroment. Just pray and do your best!
Hope I helped! ~Hearts~Brooke~

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