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Mom dad and moms "friend"
oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!
PLEASE HELP!!
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Well your not wrong for liking your moms new boyfriend. Its a natural feeling. You really love your dad and nothing is going to change that. Dont feel guilty. Your parents decided to date other people so thats what they are doing. I know how you are feeling because im going through the same thing but just remember that nothing is going to change the way you feel about your dad.
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I think you are doing nothing wrong. Your dad (and mom) made the decision to get a devorce, so you are doing the rite thing, and it makes your mom happy to have someone againe, so I hope this helps. :D and remember, dont feel bad. your dad is always your dad, and its ok to like the other person to.
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Its okay to like your moms new boyfriend. Just as long as your dad knows that you love him and that he and you both know that that new guy isnt going to replace your dad.
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It's definitely fair to want your mom to be happy and be with someone who makes you and your sister happy too. Your dad is going to date other people too, so don't feel bad, but do hope that your dad finds someone just as wonderful that makes him and you happy.
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You can't say your not being fair you just think your mom's boyfriend is a great guy I mean anyways your parents are going to get a divorce.It's cool that you think feel that way about your mom's boyfriend because a lot of other daughters or sons have a hard time accepting that there parents separate .You should talk to your father about how you feel when things are calm your dad should understand but tell him no matter how great the guy is or better to you he will be the best dad ever and nobody can replace him.Everybody should all get along which will make this world better!You're very mature!
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ok well my parents just split up too. so i now what your dealing with. well your dad doesnt want you to be unhappy.he will find someone he likes too. you cant put that much pressure on yourself you just cant, not on top on school friends guys work and so much more you know??just wait god has a plan for everything, you will see. plus it's only their first date you know?they could decied just to stay friends. have an opened mind and if you have anything you need help with just ask.
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Hi. There's nothing wrong with liking this guy. The truth is that your mother and father's marriage didn't work out very well. Your mother deserves to be happy and so does your father. But right now it is your mother who is moving on. It's really great that she found such a nice guy. You're not being unfsair to your dad. JJust because you like this guy a lot doesn't mean you lvoe your dad any less. If your father knows aboutt his I'm sure he understands that because he's an adult and he cares about your happiness, well being, and safety. This man can get close to the family and you can care about him a lot but your father will always be your father... you'll just be one of the lucky ones that have a bigger family and more people that care about them and more people that they care about. I can honestly say that there's nothing wrong with that.
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It is okay to like this guy because he is good to your family and just an all around nice guy. Your father will understand, and probably hope, that when he starts to date, you'll treat the woman he chooses with as much welcome, warmth and maturity.
Love is one of those amazing things. You don't have less of it when you give it to others. You don't love your dad any less just because you like someone else. So relax and care for the people you want to care for.
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It's hard dealing with your parents divorcing. However, since they both decided to date other people, I don't think it will matter to your dad if you like the guy your mom is dating. If it bothers you a lot, just tell your dad that even though you like the other guy, he (meaning your dad) is the only dad you want.
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My parents have split up to and I know how you feel when your parents finnally go out with someone really nice that you and them both like. Your not being wrong to your Dad. Your Mom is just looking for another father figure in your life and its good to know that you like the one shes going with. Dont feel guilty your father knows you love him as it is now and will always know that. The same for when your Dad finds someone you like a lot to.
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