Im not here to tell everyone my life story. Im here to give advice to people who ask for it. I will only give them the truth and what they need to hear. Im not dishonest and i dont critize people. But i would love to give you advice. =)
Yours truley,
Katina*
Website: Myspace
E-mail: Kikyo293@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester
Age: 15
AIM: xTie him down
Yahoo: Katina
Member Since: September 4, 2005
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Last Update: September 10, 2005
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Im moving and i get to paint my room whatever color i want, any suggestions? (link)
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you should paint your room based on your personality.
Katina*
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Well i recently got a boyfriend almost been together for a month now , well i like him alot and he says he likes me alot but we are always fighting about dumb stuff. or it seems like a big deal at the moment and then when u really think about it any guy does that kind of stuff. yeah well thats how it is and i never really had a good relationship so what to do? i know i should talk to him about it but i dont know what to say and i just need help with how to keep a good long relationship thing. (link)
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Yea apparently guys have to do that for some really weird reason.Everybody has there bad relationships..even me! But that doesnt mean not to talk things out. Just tell him how you feel when you guys have your fights.Talking is the key to almost everything. I used to date this one guy for 2years and all we did was fight but we loved each other. I'll give you some hints and tips hun. 1.) if hes complaining about something maybe you should ask him "well what do you want to do about it?" see what he wants. Maybe he might open up a little bit 2.)DONT! dont ever change yourself for him. Because if he wants something changed then he's not really liking you for being you. 3.)When you guys fight be like " why do we have to yell for? lets just try and talk it out" 4.)Just be honest about how you feel and tell him to voice his opinions. Ask how he feels.
5.)dont be afraid to ask why. You'll figure out more information that way.
6.) and dont forget to talk CALMLY! lol
if you want any more tips or questions let me know and i will do my best to give you advice. Thanks for asking me, im delighted to answer.
Katina*
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While picking out clothes to wear to school tomorrow, I noticed my sweaters in the back of my closet, and began to wonder if it was okay to wear them yet. The temperature has been averaging about 75 degrees here, but it's VERY cold in school...So, since it's after Labor Day, is it okay to wear sweaters yet?
thank yah much! (link)
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Its ok if you want to wear a sweater... but if you get to hott when you go outside then yur gunna have a problem..lol you could wear a shirt and have a light jacket on top of it if yuor school is kinda chilly..cause my school is like below zero lol
Katina*
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Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much. (link)
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Just sit your mom down and talk to her. Like girl talk. And just bring it up..i know it might seem kinda scary but it might work.
Katina*
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oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!
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Well your not wrong for liking your moms new boyfriend. Its a natural feeling. You really love your dad and nothing is going to change that. Dont feel guilty. Your parents decided to date other people so thats what they are doing. I know how you are feeling because im going through the same thing but just remember that nothing is going to change the way you feel about your dad.
Katina*
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Me n this guy are really good frendz. he doesnt know that i like him and i cant b sure that he likes me. should i ask him to the movies?
*~Michele~* (link)
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You can ask him to the movies and you can also start a conversation and add in" Cant you see me and you together?" and see what he says
Katina*
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OK so I have a group of friends..they're just school friends..it's been like this for 5 years now! I hate it..I want to go to the mall or hang out with them outside of school..but how? I can't just self invite myself..I can't invite them over to my house because of family reasons..but I want to get closer to them and be BEST friends with them..not school friends..what do i do? (link)
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When your talking to them at school just be like" Hey, do you guys wanna got to the mall?" or "What are your plans this week? You wanna do something?"
Be confident.
Katina*
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i went out with this kid we will call him C, well we broke up because he accused me of cheating because some one told him i was, but thats a lie i gave my best friend a hug. well we recently went back out and broke up because he cheated on me this time with my best friend, he doesnt get the picture i dont want to date him he calls me 24/7 and he tells me he loves me if i got an away soccer game he shows up when the bus gets back and nos what way i go home and waits for me and really annoying i dont know what to so please help! (link)
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Talk to him. Sit him down and tell him. just be honest about the way you feel. And if hes annoying you then tell him. Just be like i appreciate you coming to m games calling me but its getting a little bit to much and if he takes it the wrong way then its his loss fer loosing a really great person.
Katina*
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So this girl I'm not friends w/ anymore got REALLY SKINNY and she thinks she needs to lose a couple more pounds when she's really tall and is like 20 lbs under weight!!! Her friends (that I'm still friends w/) tell me that she hasn't been eating much anymore and I'm worried about her but I don't want to get involved in it bc technically it's none of my business since I ended the friendship (although the girl doesn't seem to realize this) And her friend told me that a bunch of people tried talking to the girl's mom about her not eating and her mom didn't do anything about it. We're all concered but aren't obsessing over it yet. What should my role in this be? Should I stay out of it or should I talk to her about it??? (link)
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Even if you ended your friendship with her it doesnt mean that you cant get involed. Try to talk to her. Sit her down and express how you feel about her situation. Dont tell her that she needs to stop amd start eating again because thats just going to get her angry. Just tell her that your really worried about her and you want the best for her. Tell her you'll be by her side and if she needs anybody to talk to your there for her. Just see why she is not eating . Give her compliments like "Your looking really nice" " You look amazing!" give her confidence.You never know. and if that doesnt help after a couple of weeks then you will have to talk to her mother about it if it gets even more serious.
Katina*
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well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think
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Look its ok to have mainly only guy friends because thats how i am.. i dont like the drama either..its gets annoying after awhile. Dont care what people say because its only going to drive you crazy. Just mind about your buisness and hold your head up high and dont even think about it. Put it this way..They are probly jealous that you are cool with like all the guys and mayb some of the other girls like hate you for it because you have something they dont..
Katina*
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There is a sinor at school(im a sophomore) I have a chance to introduce myself twice before. I guess im just scared to but i dont know what to do. I dont wanna seem CREEPY...!!! (link)
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Just be casual. Be like "hey you look nice today" or " is that a new shirt?" and just lead into a conversation. Hey you never know until you try.
Katina*
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okay i have a friend and i am on the phone with her and she wants me to come over and i dont know if i want to go bacause i dont really like her sisters and i dont want to go what are some good excuses you can think of that I can get out of this i really need this help my mom said i could but i dont want to so she asks me and i say i dont know but i need a excuse but i dont want it to be mean so please give me some good excuses
love brittany
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Maybe you could invite her to your house and you guys can chill there. If you want to go over there but you dont like her sisters you cant let them get in the way of you two's relastionship. You could talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about it or talk to her sisters and see whats going on between you guys. But if you dont want to do neither of them options then you could say "well do you want to go to the movies?", " Wanna go chill at the mall" or " Maybe another time".
Katina*
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ok so theres a kid at my school that picks on other people because they cant spell good. hes all like.. you'll never meet anyone if you cant spell.. but we know its not true but no one will stand up to him. what should we do? (link)
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Maybe you should stand up to him. Maybe if you do it other people would build up the courage join in and stand up to him..hey you never know =)
Katina*
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There's this guy that i know. I like him but hes really immature sometimes, and it gets annoying and old. And I dont even know if he likes me!!! Should I just forget about the hole thing??
please help i rate high!!!
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No dont give up if you really like him. Try to sit him down and have a conversation. It could be about anything and just ask could you picture us together? and if he says yes then ask him out to the movies or see what he's interests are. If he says no not really then just try and forget about it and just continue your relationship with him as friends.
Katina*
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sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok
please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it. (link)
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Its not that you dont love your father. Its just that you probly feel hurt that he really hasnt been there for you in the past. Yea you might be mad that he hasnt tried to get in touch with you but maybe he wants to see his child that he never had the chance to see grow up. He probly feels guilty too. But dont feel self-centered. Its a normal feeling. And your not a scum of the earth. You have the right to feel the way you do. And hey, maybe if you go and visit him maybe you can learn more about him. Learn a little bit more of his childhood..his past. Just follow your heart.
Katina*
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my dad can be so mean sometimes he yells really loud and when he gets mad he throws and breaks stuff and it really scares me. i feel bad because i dont know if i love him or not and i feel like everything is my fault!! i dont know what to do please help! (link)
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You love your father..you may dislike what he does or does to you but its not your fault. Dont blame yourself. Talk to him about it and see why he gets upset..talking is always the answer..
Katina*
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