Question Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 4:59 pm
Well i recently got a boyfriend almost been together for a month now , well i like him alot and he says he likes me alot but we are always fighting about dumb stuff. or it seems like a big deal at the moment and then when u really think about it any guy does that kind of stuff. yeah well thats how it is and i never really had a good relationship so what to do? i know i should talk to him about it but i dont know what to say and i just need help with how to keep a good long relationship thing.<3jacky
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Katina answered Thursday September 8 2005, 6:36 pm: Yea apparently guys have to do that for some really weird reason.Everybody has there bad relationships..even me! But that doesnt mean not to talk things out. Just tell him how you feel when you guys have your fights.Talking is the key to almost everything. I used to date this one guy for 2years and all we did was fight but we loved each other. I'll give you some hints and tips hun. 1.) if hes complaining about something maybe you should ask him "well what do you want to do about it?" see what he wants. Maybe he might open up a little bit 2.)DONT! dont ever change yourself for him. Because if he wants something changed then he's not really liking you for being you. 3.)When you guys fight be like " why do we have to yell for? lets just try and talk it out" 4.)Just be honest about how you feel and tell him to voice his opinions. Ask how he feels.
5.)dont be afraid to ask why. You'll figure out more information that way.
6.) and dont forget to talk CALMLY! lol
if you want any more tips or questions let me know and i will do my best to give you advice. Thanks for asking me, im delighted to answer.
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