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my dad
my dad can be so mean sometimes he yells really loud and when he gets mad he throws and breaks stuff and it really scares me. i feel bad because i dont know if i love him or not and i feel like everything is my fault!! i dont know what to do please help!
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well growing up i went through that to. i told my dad "you need anger management" and it pissed him of even more so don't tell him that but try to get your family together and talk to him about his anger prolbem. even if he does get mad or whatever that is no reason to throw stuff. don't think is your fault more than likely is't not! people just have their own way of dealing with things and maybe thats his but it needs to be delt with so do the best thing possible "get him some help" i hope that thing will work out for you.
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your dad has a temper on him its isnt your fault
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well it depends on what you did? just be nice to him and complement him and just be nice! i mean thats reallly all that i can say!
<33 erinlvsyou
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Wow..Listen to me..nothing is your fault if your father is acting abusive..
GET HELP..if you really can't take it anymore.
These are signs of an abusive relationship between your father and yourself. If you can't talk to him about it, try going to your counselor or someone you can trust.
Try to avoid his rampages as much as possible and keep your distance from him if you don't want to get involved.
I wish you the best of luck and if you need anything else, feel free to drop one in my inbox.
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Hey listen, it's not your fault. Your dad might just have some kind of issue and he may see you as the only way to vent his anger and frustration if he has something going on behind the scenes. When he does this again you should try and remain calm then and show him even if you is going to mad and causes destruction your not going to get upset over it. Let him do this and when he is done say "I love you dad" then walk off and find something to calm yourself down with if your still upset. You should be calm when he does do it though and show some maturity, even in the face of what is happening.
Hope this helps and you are able to get something done with your dad.
-Ryan
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You love your father..you may dislike what he does or does to you but its not your fault. Dont blame yourself. Talk to him about it and see why he gets upset..talking is always the answer..
Katina*
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Hey, It's not your fault. People handle things in really different ways and that is just his way of handling things. Don't think that it's your fault. And you do love him, you just don't when he does that. Sorry if that was no help.
<3 Natalie
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htis is a typical reaction everything seems like your fault but i can assure you it is really not. Hes your father you do love him but you can resent someone you love at the same time. talk to him about it or even better talk to your mum or siblings.
He is you father and loves you something could be bothering him elsewherebut you don't hate him.
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well do you have a mom? are they seperated, you should go live with her if thats a choice, n if hes throwing shit at you you should tell him if he does it again your going to report him to the fucken cops
rate me high
<3 always michaele
mg y did u give me 4 your a waste of my time
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ok listen when he is like that dont blame your self , just try to calm him down and if it does not work just keep out of his way and when it all blows over try telling him how you feel , and of cors you love him he is your dad , at times you might feel like you hate him but you dont really good luck xxx xWhiteTigerx
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Calm down i'm sure you didn't cause him to be mad maybe your dad is going through something.
Look i would just give him some space. Or when he gets mad go in the other room until he calms down.
When he is in a better mood Try telling him about it maybe he will listen.:-)
Hope i helped♥
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