Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 8:06 am
well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think
Katina answered Sunday September 4 2005, 6:35 pm: Look its ok to have mainly only guy friends because thats how i am.. i dont like the drama either..its gets annoying after awhile. Dont care what people say because its only going to drive you crazy. Just mind about your buisness and hold your head up high and dont even think about it. Put it this way..They are probly jealous that you are cool with like all the guys and mayb some of the other girls like hate you for it because you have something they dont..
kaitlin_joelle answered Sunday September 4 2005, 2:51 pm: I think you shouldn't think about what other people say, You know they're wrong so let them be wrong. I have many guy friends to. It's just girlfriends always lie and they have a better chance of ditching you for other friends. guyfriends they are always kind and they tell the truth, they still bring drama but its one you can fix without fighting. Have guyfriends whenever you want guyfriends its your choice.
Good Luck,
kaitln_joelle [ kaitlin_joelle's advice column | Ask kaitlin_joelle A Question ]
DazedAndConfused answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:29 pm: who ever you pick as your friends thats you business and noone knows why you pick them over girls but why should they care..if any girls come up to you saying dat you hang around with them cuz you want a b/f or soemthing stupid like dat be like and your only coming up to me and saying dat cuz you wish you were the one hanging with a bunch of guys...and then walk away [ DazedAndConfused's advice column | Ask DazedAndConfused A Question ]
xxBrOkEnxx answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:02 pm: yeah its deff. a good idea because i hate drama and most of them are funny..you shouldnt care what other people think..its you not them [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
smartgirl321 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:59 am: i am the same way. i have a lot of guy frends. its fine to have guy frends. i luv some of my guy frends like theyre my brothers. the others r just frends. i like having some guy frends b/c they can give you advice on things girl frends cant. plus they dont have all the gossiping and attitude like a lot of girls. my frends think the same thing that like i shudnt hang out with them so much, but they are my frends. if your frends still bother you about it, tel them why you like to hang out with them. if they still dont get it just ignore them.
~Maegan~
p.s. my cuzista--talktome224-- feels practically the same way and has the same situation as you. ask her if you want more help. [ smartgirl321's advice column | Ask smartgirl321 A Question ]
SweetxxIntoxication answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:49 am: not weird at all. im like that too. some girls just get along with guys better than other girls, and some guys get along better with girls than other guys.
nothing weird about it, as long as your happy with your friends. =] [ SweetxxIntoxication's advice column | Ask SweetxxIntoxication A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:09 am: No ; you just sound like what you said. You just think they're funny and nice and stuff and nothing's wrong with that. Girls are probably just jealous because your friends with so many boys and stuff and they aren't. Just next time they say that, just tell them they're wrong. Who cares if they think that? I mean, you know you don't "love" them and the guys know. Maybe even have the guys talk to the people who say that. I hope I helped!
xoxcaittxox answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:33 am: Umm I dont think soo...I mean I have a bunch of buys that are friends and also my sister really only has boy friends...hope I helped...xoxcaitt [ xoxcaittxox's advice column | Ask xoxcaittxox A Question ]
justneil5 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:32 am: Hey! I totally relate to this question. I am a guy with a lot of girl friends. Because they are fun without the competitivness. Some people have made fun of me in the past, but i think that having good friends count. and maybe one day you will have feelings about one of them. But its good to have friends no matter what gender they are.
FireFairy141 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:03 am: I think that its perfectly okay for a nice girl to hang out with guys. No offense to some girls, but guys can be alot more fun. Their not afraid to do certain things, that girls refuse to do! You should hang out with who ever you like, and no-one should tell you diffrent!
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:02 am: your normal, ive felt that way a lot! guys are so much easier to get along with but a guy with all girls gives the wrong impression sometimes and yes, people will think that your dating all of them. ignore them...guys are fun. thats what i think.. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:51 am: No, alot of girls feel this way. Sometimes girls hanging out with girls just causes too many problems.... and you'll probably seldom ever have a 'fight' with your guy friends. Whereas, with girl friends its quite easy to start fights. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
xcheerbabex108 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:37 am: I think it is easier/better to have guy friends, because sometimes girls backstab and everything. Your fine, and don't care about what other people think.
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