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ok i straighten my hair cuz it is really really curly i heard storys of people with curly hair and it just starts to turn staight i was wondering if there was anything to keep my hair staight even when water hits it.i rate 5s
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I know how much you want your hair to just stay straight even when its wet but the only way to do that is to spend a couple hundred dollars about every 5 months ad get it chemically straightened. I know it sounds like a gift from god but it destroys your natural hair and gives you split ends, its hard to keep your hair healthy. Think of it this way, the reason its straight after you chemically straighten it enough times, is because its dead. The chemicals start to dull your hair too. I'm sorry, but if you ever need tips on keeping your hair straight through a little humidity or something let me know.
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i need to know how to grow my ails the fastest way before my birthday party its in a week and there just a little bit long not that much i want the white part of my ails to show relly good and relly long i know not to bite them cauz i decided to stop but any other ways !!!!!!!!! (link)
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You need to take a vitamin called Biotin. It works really well if you have about 5 days, even better if taken longer. Its not a drug, and you take it everyday like a vitamin.
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Hey i saw someone asked about a site that you can see what you look like with different hairstyles & makeup and stuff. does anyone know any free ones? is there any? gosh i hope so cuz those are way cool. please let me know!!
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I don't know any free ones, but if you do find one, I know my mom tried it once and you take a picture of just your head and put different hairstyles and colors on your face, its hard though so before you try it for 5 or 6 bucks find out what it will let you do. The site my mom tried wouldn't center your face in the hair well and the hair colors weren't your typical brown, black, blonde, and red....it was like the colors were distorted, pinks and purples and muddy looking colors, it wasn't a good site. So be careful what you sign up for.
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i dont know how to tell my mom i got my period. i'm embarrassed about that kind of stuff, and i dont like talking to her about it. please tell me a good icebreaker, and be honest!!! HELPP!!! (link)
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Maybe you don't even have to, sometimes moms are just smart like that. You can let her notice herself when stuff starts disappearing out of her medicine cabinet or you can bring it up like your really happy because you got your period, being giddy about it covers up your embarrassment. But your mom has ben through it so many times now it won't seem embarrassing to her, so just bring it up, she'll understand.
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Does anyone know how to get chapstick stains out because i accidently left my chapstick one of the pairs of pants and it got washed with it. PLEASE HELP! Thanks! I'll rate high if it's not stupid and is actually helpful.! (link)
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It takes a lot of washing to get that kind of stuff out, I'm always getting vasaline stains and medicine stains on my clothes, if its thick and sticky you probably just have to keep washing it until it dilutes into the water, and dont rub it because that makes it worse.
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oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!
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It's definitely fair to want your mom to be happy and be with someone who makes you and your sister happy too. Your dad is going to date other people too, so don't feel bad, but do hope that your dad finds someone just as wonderful that makes him and you happy.
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I went to www.geocities.com to create a site, and then we went to Pagebuilder "help" and it said the minimum System requirement was 133MHz Pentium. What does that stand for? And also, can someone recommend another website-making site that's user-friendly, free, and doesn't require a lot of system stuff? (link)
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That system requirement is just something computers have. I don't know much about that. But if you've ever tried www.tripod.com or www.myspace.com those you can design your own page.
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hey all.. i have a quick question about anorexic girls. how come they eat so little and burn so many calories but their boobs dont get smaller? i'm on a diet now nad it's safe and healthy and i'm loosing about 1/2 a pound a week and it seems my boobs are getting smaller! any way i can prevent it? why doesn't it happen to them? (link)
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They aren't burning calories, its kind of like their bodies are slowly eating any fat and muscle they have. Their boobs will get smaller too, even if you don't see it. Or maybe they aren't anorexic, because anorexic girls are skinny and bony all around. And no you can't prevent yours from getting smaller, they are adjusting to fit your body in porportion.
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help me plzz i cant stop crying. my face just keeps getting worst and worst. PImples are everywhere. i mean it! I try everything. i have very ovily skin. can someone please tell me what i need to do. dont tell me to buy something from clean and clear that shit doenst work. does ayone know any pills that help?? if so tell me what its called. please i cant even go outside
i hid all summer long becuase i feel so ugly!! (link)
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Have you tried sleeping with any kind of acne cream on your face? Cuz if you put a lot on and dont rub it in and leave it on all night it will help make them smaller and drier so they are easier to was. Then in the morning wash it off with hot water, but not hot enough to burn you, and wash with an acne soap that says it exfoliates becuase that will dig the dirt out. Then rinse with cold water so nothing more gets in. Then during the day if you get hot and sweat or get your face dirty rinse your face with warm water and then cold water. Warm to get the dirt out and cold to close your pores. And whatever you do...do not touch your face if you don't need to because there's oil on your hands and lots of dirt so that will make it worse. And DO NOT pop pimples because it causes all kinds of scarring and its not fun. Hope I helped.
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Alright, I'm going to be quoting Wicked a bit in here. In the last month, I've been bombarded with feelings "so pure, so strong." I felt true love. I felt true jealousy. And yet those new, previously unfelt emotions are more than I can handle. I've been losing sleep. I just need a warning. Are there any other true feelings? 'Cause "though I do admit they came on fast, still I do believe that they can last". Which they did. And school's starting soon. I'm in the same science class as the one I'm loving and am a bit jealous of, so whenever I look at her, I'll be distracted. This is bad. It's an advanced science class. I just need to know what else will come. Thanks! (link)
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I know you might be in love, but if the person doesn't know or doesn't have the same feelings or is taken then these feelings are just going to have to start to fade, you're going to have to do that yourself. It seems impossible but I've done it a hundred times before it seems, you can forget if you try. Concentrate on the fact that you want to do well in Science and maybe work on being friends with her. Keep yourself in the present though, don't wander into fantasies and day dreams about her or you'll go crazy (slight exaggeration). It'll work out, but try not to do anything different in your daily life because you're in love.
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well in 2 weeks its my boyfriends birthday
and i dont know what to get him. he loves
baseball and hes really into his heritage
of being fully sicilian. im in a $20 budget
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Maybe if he has photos of him that show his culture you should ask his parents if you can copy them in a photo machine (usually at a pharmacy or something) and make a collage. Or find a baseball with the signature of a player or team he likes, BUT MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T HAVE IT ALREADY!
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OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's! (link)
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Sounds like she has some major ass grudge against you, if you can find out what it is. Or if she's just nosy and annoying try to tell her to take it down a notch. If she's just being a bitch then get her out of your life completely but nicely so she doesn't try to make your life miserable afterwards. Just gradually stop hanging out with her. You can pick your friends.
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HI,
My grandma abuses me what should I do?
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If you live with her, tell the cops. If you have a choice of going to her house or not choose not to. And if you have to go or stay at her house try to do lots of time consuming stuff like go for a walk or weed her garden or something that'll get you out of the way. But definitely tell parents or the police.
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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That's really sweet, baking him a cake would definitely be a good idea...and maybe for plans for the day you should take a walk outside and have a picnic. Something that'll keep you both busy in case you don't want to spend every moment talking would besomething like going to the arcade, or ask him what he would like to do after you've done something you wanted to do with him. He'll probably either pick something really fun and energy consuming or somewhere where you would definitely talk. Boating is really fun, or if you like to roller skate or bike...maybe even swimming, it depends what you can and can't do and what the weather's like. For a rainy day you could rent movies and stay inside, or a really hot day go swimming or go somewhere air conditioned. Lots of possibilities, let me know if you need more. Hope I helped. And have lots of fun.
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there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.
how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?
who should i pick?
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If a guy is goping to be an ass and start to hate you for no reason start getting over him NOW. He dosen't deserve someone as good as you if he's going to be a snob about it. Get to know the other guy instead and see what happens. Good luck.
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ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers (link)
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Maybe you two have just hung out together so much that your tired of each other and you don't know it. It would probably make you both act different, which would explain more argueing and such. Or maybe he just went through something in his life that he can't explain to you and its getting to him. Or maybe...yes i thought of a lot of options....maybe you two have been together so long he decided he likes you. Anything is possible, I'm sure you'll get through it though, maybe just make a little more space for now and see what happens. It'll be okay. ~Ash
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i have a lotta vivid dreams, and theyre always frightening, stressful, or sad, so i keep waking up scared, panicked or even crying. so it takes me forever to get back to sleep again. i know i probs cant stop the dreams but does anyone have any tips on how i could relax when i wake up from them? ive tried everything from stretching to listening to music to breathign excersizes and nothing works until i just drop off back to sleep again and have another scary/panicking dream. what else can i do?
the dreams are usually about me being lost somewere and panicking that i cant get back, or me dying, or being chased by something, that kinda thing if that helps.
ta muchly. (link)
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It's kind of hard to understand, but you are the one in control of your dreams, lets say your getting chased by something...maybe dream that you were all of a sudden a hundred times bigger than it and you stepped on it when you were running away!:) Or...if these dreams can't be stopped, it'll take awhile, but you need to wake up with the windows closed and some sort of light on because it'll make you feel safer if you can see what's around you. If your still scared, hide under your covers and try to think of something really happy, sometimes it'll give you confidence. Think of a beach or your birthday...anything that makes YOU feel better.
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i am obsessed with jeopardy, soap operas and hollywood. do i need help? (link)
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No, being interested in things is fine...unless its obsessive compulsive, then you might want to try a little less of it.
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ok, well there's this friend that i have, and her name is . i dont know what to do becuz she always lies to me. she always lies to me. when she says that she is coming over my house, she doesnt, she always goes to some other guys house. the last time she did this, she was missing for a day. i was really worried and so was her mom. i felt guilty, because what if something happened?? she was sposed to come to my house right?i just dont really know what to think. the last time she didnt show up, she was missing for 2 1/2 days, she doesnt even call me to tell me she's ok or even her mom. i know that i should just forget about her becuase she's using me to go to guys houses(her mom wont let her go to guys houses)and then i end up feeling bad, but the thing is she always tells me that she was sad and her da was drunk and hit her or something, she makes me feel bad for her and then i just cant stay mad. to add to all this, her boyfriend is thinkin of breakin up with her becuz he wants to go out with me. i just dont know what to think, if you cant help, thats ok i know it doesnt seem like much, but it is to me. by the way im a 14/f.....help pleez if u can!!!!!!! (link)
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I hate to tell you this, but you can't help her. You need to tell her mom and let them sort it all out. And sometimes people just want to be sad because it makes things go their way. And if she's visiting other guys houses, her bf deserves to be himself too, so he shouldnt feel obligated to be with her if she's not true to him. You never know, she may thank you later.
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Sometimes I don't know who I am anymore. For the most part ive become a really sophisticated, goody good with really STRONG morals. I always do homework and go to church. I never -- cheat, steal, drink, cuss, smoke, do drugs, ditch school, party, sneak out, have sex, listen to rap, etc. But sometimes i get sick of being like that. Sometimes i just want to bust out my old dirty, rap collection and live life a little. But then later the goody/serious side of me DESPISES rap because its so degrading and disgusting. The thing is.. it's not about rap music. (That was just an example of how im like two different people within hours or days.) I really dont think i have a split personality or anything to that extreme. I just dont know who I am anymore. One part of me wants to stay moral, and the other part of me wants to break free and live. How do I find out who i truely am when both of these WAY DIFFERENT personalities keep showing? (link)
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You need to let go once in awhile...try to ignore your true thoughts for awhile and go out and act like a nut, we all need to sometimes, it's not healthy if we don't.
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