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Member Since: October 21, 2004
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Last Update: November 7, 2004
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
iight,i'm a virgin,but my sister isnt and i'm 13...but she tells me everything anyways the reason y u didnt bleed is cuz he didnt brake this,its like this really thin peice of skin inside u,rite,and well thats y they say ur cherry popped cuz its like that u have a thin peice of skin and like a stem on it,and when it brakes u bleed{like a cherry} anyways my sister says its okay,but usally when u have sex for the first time part of it bleeds,but since it didnt prolly next time u do,it'll bleed


Does anyone know where i can get some great clothes for low prices? (Im really into jeans, sweatshirts, long sleeve shirts, knee high socks and accecories!)

14/f
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platoes closet, goodwill,gabrel brothers, ect.


i want her so bad...i dont know if the guy who loves you feels the same, but i cry whenever i think about this whole thing, because LITERALLY, i have not once in my life gotten what i want, and i go out of my way to try and make everyone happy just like my dad and no one shows any gratitude and im used to it, i never get anything in return...and i love her..and i need her.
i thought that this would be it, because she liked me a lot and then i dunno what happened. she cheated on her boyfriend for me..and then it seems like after she dumped him(that night by the way we made out like 15 times while she was over) she stopped liking me
and i just don understand..the guy that you dumped your boyfriend for loves you and everything but then when youre single you dont want him anymore? i just dont get it (link)
OMG,u must really really luv this gurrl,and it seems she just is pushing it off.iight now how i feel about the guy that does kinda luv me,well i dont want to go out with him cuz hes a good friend and i dont wanna brake that up,and also i went with his bestfriend,be4 i even knew him. and maybe she just doesnt picture u as a bf to her,thats how i feel.I'M SO SRY....that she doesnt feel that way about u,but maybe u just need to ask her agian how she really feels,and tell her how u feel,but not so much that it'll freak her out,ya no wat i mean? iight pls.just for now like i said all u can do is be her friend! maybe thats all she wants u to do,cuz she just doesnt c u as anything more than just a close friend......{i'm sry}
p.s. pls write/tell me more,my email address is ccangel120@yahoo.com or u can just talk to me here.
cindy


im 14/m and i am in love with this girl. she used to like me a lot and then she said over a few days she started having mixed feelings. she had liked me like a week after she started going out with my friend and she dumped him but didnt say why or something like that. i told her she was beautiful and that i love her. we have mostly similar common interests. we have made out and stuff and we were very close. at homecoming during the last slow song i asked her out..she she doesnt know and the next day she said she doesnt like me anymore..that was like a month ago and now she likes this sophomore who i think is using her. she told me one of the reasons she didnt like me anymore was she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend..i saw the guy she likes today and i was thinking WTF!?! you can picture him but not me....i know more about her than anyone and i am in love with her. i think about her all day and i found out on halloween night that she had snuck out with the guy and went to a park and made out for a few hours and on monday he gave her a bunch of hickeys and made out and everything and it keeps running through my head...ever since homecoming i have been depressed and i just wish she liked me still, my friends tell me she will but i dont believe them, i always thought that a guy who treats a girl like gold and devotes all of his time to her and everything was exactly what a girl wants..sorry this has been so long...answer and ill tell you the rest if you want to hear..if you do say yes in the beginning of your answer AND PLEASE HELP ME I AM SO CONFUSED..I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO (link)
yea of coarse i wanna hear da rest, okay i'm 13 and in da 8th grade and theres this boi that likes me like u like her,and were friends and stuff just like u 2,but i mean i like him & all but i just dont picture him as a bf,and i think the reason y she said that bout u is probably the same reason i have......iight since u've been friends she prolly doesnt want to brake that friednship up,if something were to go wrong.and cause she went with one of ur friends, same thing with me but were just not in highskool yet,lol anyways on halloween i did almost the same shiht she did,and i told my friend{the guy who likes me} everything that happened cause i like talkin to him.but i think he kinda got mad when i showed him this hicky i had from my bf.but i'm just trying to say u'll get through it,just be her friend for now,iight cause thats all she really wants and until shes finds out that she wants u more then that,ur just gonna have to wait.......I'M SO SRY THOUGH.
but i want to say thx cause u made me think bout wat i'm doing to my friend,and how he luvs me so much and i'm hurting him......and yea i wanna hear more
cindy




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