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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)
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ya its normal! not all girls bleed!:) hope i helped! happy holidays
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13! wow.. i wish you wouldn't of had sex.. your so young and still have MANY years ahead of you.. sex IS NOT the greatest.. but.. yeah.. ur all normal.. you not bleeding just means he didn't pop your cherry.. or at least.. didn't pop your cherry all the way.. it's all normal don't worry.. some girls don't ever bleed from it..
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yes, completly normal. not everyone bleeds. and yah it hurts (what ive heard) but its normal, dont worry about it!
x0x-dani
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yes its very normal bcuz not everyone bleeds there 1st n it hurt supersuper bad bcuz the skin was streching
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u dont always bleed. i guess you could say it u dont always beed when u get a cut so u may not not bleed at all. it varies in dif girls
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Yes, it can be normal for that.
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iight,i'm a virgin,but my sister isnt and i'm 13...but she tells me everything anyways the reason y u didnt bleed is cuz he didnt brake this,its like this really thin peice of skin inside u,rite,and well thats y they say ur cherry popped cuz its like that u have a thin peice of skin and like a stem on it,and when it brakes u bleed{like a cherry} anyways my sister says its okay,but usally when u have sex for the first time part of it bleeds,but since it didnt prolly next time u do,it'll bleed
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I think nothing is wrong, so don't worry. If you are SUPER concerned, talk to your parents. =) ~*Jenni*~
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yeh some girls bleed and some girls dont it depends on wether u got yer cherry popped before sex or not...u can already of had it popped by tampons or gettin fingered! hope i helped!
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Well. when you bleed its because they "popped your cherry" and he might not of did that cause that doesnt always happen. or you could have just done it some other time. because if your athletic and stuff you can do it that way with out even realizing.
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wow ur onli 13 SLUTTT!!!!!!!!
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Yeah, it's normal. I didn't bleed my first time either. Your hymen probley broke before you had sex, either by excercise or tampon use, and it's supposed to hurt super bad your first time. Congrats on your first time. lol.
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NO that is normal not everyone bleeds..I hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie
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oh don't worry hun you're fine! every girl's body is different. _x3*Kathleen
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if you dont mind, would you be able 2 tell me how it was?!...me and my boyfriend are planning on doing it, im just a little scared!
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Yes sweetie! Your normal. Some people bleed and some people don't. It's all just up to your body. Now, this has nothing to do w/ ur question but I'm telling you anyway. =) Your 13 and having sex...so I would think you need to get on some type of birth control. You should talk to your parents about taking you to the doctor, if you can't do that then you should proably check w/ a friends mom, go to the health department, or PLAN (some states have them some dont) If you go to either one of these places they can't tell your parents w/o your concent. If you get on birth control it would still be a good idea to use condoms to protect againt diseases. If if you promise your not going to do it again (everyone says that) chances are you will and you need to be safe. Think about it! =) -Sonnie
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every girl is different.. despite what you've heard.. u don't ALWAYS bleed your first time.. but it does hurt most girls unless they are "loose" as sum people say.. things will get better for u!
-xoXo!*Katie
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at 13?? well im not sure if its normal or not cuz im 13..but im pretty sure u'll be regrettin cuz i have friends (guys) who r like idk 15 n they've uhhh $#@%ed alot of girls n they regret it..in a way but u no there guys though
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yea its normal, not all girls bleed, and your pretty stupid for having sex at such a young age.. your be regreting it!....
never did i call you a slut, im just saying that you are too young for doing that, and yes your will regret it, maybe not now, but watch you'll see
also you put your age up in the question, most people would take that into consideration and mention something about it.
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Anything is normal when it comes to first time sex, as long as both of you want to have sex and you've protected yourself against pregnancy and diseases.
Many females DO bleed when they lose their virginity, but it doesn't mean you are abnormal if you don't.
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well some people bleed and some people dont it just depends on the person. BUt he might not of fully popped your cherry so maybe thats why you didnt bleed!
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ok that is normal sometimes it will bleed and sometimes it wont.. it just depends on ur body type ... when i did it the first time it didnt and the second time it did so i would at least say it will happen atleast once..<3 hope I helped!
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It's supposed to hurt, but you dont necessarily bleed tha first time. Everyone is different. xOx
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It's supposed to hurt and not everyone bleeds their first time.
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Hi Hun =)
I didn't bleed my first time, but OMG, it hurt!! It is normal, not everyone bleeds, it depends on the person. As long as you enjoyed youself (pain aside of course) then you have nothing to worry about. Don't listen to the people who call you a slut, it's YOUR life, not theres! Have a good day!
Em =)
Me again =) Thanks for the comments in my feeback, it was sweet of you! Drop me a line in my inbox if you ever want to talk, I'm ALWAYS online LOL Have a good night =) And, just remember this... the more times, the easier & better it is ;) <3
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ok i dont want to be bitchy but you deserve it... i mean you're 13! if you don't want people bitching at you on here and criticizing you,you shouldn't have posted your question. but you did, so i will give you my advice. yes, its normal not bleeding. you should of known that before having sex. if you bleed that means your cherry popped. sometimes it can pop when you put a tampon in, and you dont even know, but sometimes it happens when you have sex. no offense, but i really think you made a mistake, you're WAY TOO YOUNG. think of the consequences! go to planned parenthood and you can find out more info there. oh and i don't want to say this, i reaaaly don't, but you and him aren't going to last. i mean you're 13, wait till high school, you'll see how many different girls are there .... and also how long have you two been together? well ok enough of me talkin, good luck
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Yes, its perfectly normal not to bleed. Not everyone does thier first time, and yeah of course its going to hurt because for one, your 13 so your a bit tight. It's a shame to see 13 year olds going out and having sex but its your life and your decisions and thats not why im answering here. Just letting you know that yes its normal and just please, i know its overrated but if your going to start being more sexual active... just PLEASE BE CAREFUL!. :-)
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