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Question Posted Sunday October 31 2004, 1:53 pm

hey im 15/f and i was at my really good friends jacobs hosue the other night (16/m) our families have been close forever, adns he is the sweetest best looking guy u will ever meet, although kinda cocky (in a cute way) sometimes. well we were alone at his house (nothing new, our parents dont think ne thing of it) adn he said something really sweet, and we kissed. after we just had dinner and were watchign tv, in alittle while he was telling me about when he went shopping wiht his friend and he got a free pair of hand cuffs, we joked aroun wiht them, untill he locked them to me adn to the leg of the table. we made a game out of it, adn we were kissing and playing around, before i knew it he was on top of me. i told him 2 times i didnt want to do that and to stop, but eventrally i just stopped adn actually enjoyed it. is this rape , please some one help me

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QBillion answered Monday November 1 2004, 1:12 pm:
This is rape. (Trust me I just learned all this in health class like a week ago) If he has sex with you without your consent without you saying "Yes, I want to have sex," it is RAPE. If you just smile and giggle a little and then he has sex with you, it is still rape, even if you enjoyed it and said no.
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Ask_me_a_question answered Sunday October 31 2004, 4:06 pm:
Yes. This is rape. It's illegal.
Get help. This guy is an asshole for not respecting your wishes.
The police or a counsler or an anonymous support group, or at least a friend, needs to know.
Just go tell someone.
Good luck.

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ask_the_becsturr answered Sunday October 31 2004, 2:54 pm:
well kind of but then again not. if you said no then he should have stopped right then and there. but if you stopped protesting and worrying about it then its not. u ned to tell him that it wnast cool that he didnt listen though to prevent it from happening in the future when it really can be rape.

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frenchfries21 answered Sunday October 31 2004, 2:10 pm:
well if u eventually gave in and let him then it wasnt but if u had sex b4 u said ok then i would consider it a rape. and if u enjoyed it then i dont think id consider it rape. it really doesnt matter what u consider it, u still had sex. hope i helped ~stef~

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