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Gender: Female
Location: good ole Boone County W Va.!
Occupation: School
Age: 14
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 29
Last Update: November 7, 2004
Visitors: 1785
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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Yes, it can be normal for that.
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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Well if you have only done it 2 times then your not use to it. If it hurt supersuper bad the first time then you just have to wait till a couple times after to make it feel good.
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k.. im a freshman, and i like a junior.
my friend to the guy i liked him and told him she would show me to him and then he would decide if he wanted to talk to me or not.
I really like this guy. And i dunno wut to do. Cause wut if he says im fugly or something. I dunno wut i would do. But i dont want that to happen.
Hes gonna meet me on friday n i wanna kno wut i should do and wut i should act like and how i should look and if he does wanna talk to me what to talk about.
Thanks soo much!
*Confused n Scared* (link)
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Just be your self and dont act nervous and things...
Well just find out what he likes and dont like and get to know him alot more
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How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped? (link)
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You may or may not bleed your first time. It all depends.
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my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do? (link)
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Well if you dont want to hear it put a head set on and listen to music while that is going on. If it will make you feel better tell your your about it and see what she can do so that you wont hear it.
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ok, im 17 and what do you do when your mom and best freind both hate the guy you are "seeing" and wont even give him a chance? but they dont even know how we are around each other and how we care about each other? (link)
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Talk to them both and tell them that you both really care for each other.
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Okay well their is this boy at my school and we have gone out and broke up alot! Well now i think im startin to really like him again and he likes me to ! Im tired of breakin up and all but i really like him! Should i go out with him or say No??
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Boy TrouBle!! (link)
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I think you should go out with him again. It's really up to you and him though. Let everything fall in place all over again.
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Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.
Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me (link)
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Well, If you want to help him see if he can talk to his old friends and tell them that the things that his ex-girlfriend said wasn't true and all that,or you can talk to his old friends and see what all had went wrong with them. See what you can do to help him out with all of that.
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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!! (link)
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I know some people that are like that and no one makes fun of them. It wont ruin your raltionship. If he was to break up with you it wont ruin your relationship forever, yeah it will hurt for a while but you will find someone new. Just be sure not to do anything bad to make him brake up with you if you really love him. Then you wont have to worry about breaking up.
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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Well if you really really like him then say yes. I dont think its a little weird thoguh. I mean I dont think after he does it to you he wont talk to you ever again. It might just be a little weird after that but you will get back to being the way things were before he did that.
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14? (link)
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I dont think it is a long time for dating someone. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and almost 2 months.
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when you use a tampon is that like fingering yourself? (link)
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No, its nothing like that.
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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
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Well if he said that to you then you should be with him.You dont need someone that will pressure you into doing something that you dont want to do.
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i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice? (link)
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If you had sex since you were 11 and with every boyfriend you have had, and you want to or not....Why would you do it if you didnt want to? If you didnt want to then you shouldnt have had to. I dont know what to tell ya but I dont think its normal.
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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do? (link)
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Just tell him that your not ready for that yet.
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my best friends parents got devorced about a year ago, and ever since then he has gone into a distructive pattern, he cut himself, smoked pot, and drank, he did all of this to try to dampen the pain. is there anything i can do to get him to stop those and actually help him? (link)
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Tell him that its not the way to go and hide his pain of what happened in his household.Tell him that if he needs to get somethings off his chest or to just talk to someone that he can come to you.
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when ur giving head and u spit instead of swallow...where do u spit it? (link)
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You spit in a trash can if you dont swallow.
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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It's totally up to you if you think a person of 14 is to young to have sex,but once you have it you can never turn back to the way it was before you had sex and was a virgin.
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i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
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If you havent had sex or anytihng like that then I dont think you could be pregnant.The only way that you could be pregnant is if you have had sex or anything like that.
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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If I were you I would go and see a doctor about it or take a test. you will not know till you do that,But for now on I think the smart thing to do is use protection for now on.
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