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Question Posted Saturday July 31 2004, 7:28 pm

my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP

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xoDeexo answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 2:58 pm:
dont do it just bcuz your boyfriend wants you to. if you dont want to then dont do it. you shouldnt do something you dont want to do just to keep your boyfriend. and if your boyfriend will break up with you bcuz of that. then hes not worth it anyway. you should make sure that your gonna do it with someone that you care about and someone who cares about you. from what you saying he really doesnt seem like he cares much if he'll break up with you if you dont do what he wants.

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KittyCutie2007 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:05 am:
Well obviously your boyfriend only wants one thing from you. If he really loves you he would listen to what you have to say and just wait until your ready, it would be better for the both of you and you wouldn't have guilty feelings about doing it afterwards. You should not stay with him if that is his attitude about sex. You should wait and find that someone that really cares for you and your feelings about it, because I know I did and everything turned out great. If he loves you then he'll wait forever if it's what you want. You deserve better than that, find someone better.

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AdViCeGrL123 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 11:37 pm:
DONT BE STUPID AND WASTE UR FIRST TIME ON THAT DIRT Bag cuzzzzzzz guess what.........hes using you ass......dump his nasty ass move on girlfriend you can do better!
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BlOnDeZhAvmOrFuN answered Sunday August 1 2004, 6:46 pm:
If your not ready then don't do it!! He's not worth anything if he says he'll break up with you if you don't! That's all he's looking for in the relationship! I say DUMP him if your ready or not! He's not worth it!!!-BlOnDy**

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xlilcherrychic69 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:25 pm:
dont do it he clesrly doesnt care about you if hes gonna pressure you into it

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rainbowcherrie answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:29 am:
if he says he'll dump you cause you wont sleep with him then he's not worth it, ditch him.

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IHatePeopleYeeee answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:05 am:
tell him to go to hell, if your not ready then hell, your not ready. Don't feel bad about it, if he won't stick around until you are your better off.. or get a few of your guy friends to kick his ass...always a great sight.... bad... don't do that, just do what you think is right...

if you need to talk i got aim as Ihatepeopleyeeee
I have yahoo messenger as tazmil07 however most of the time i am invis... so just say something and i'll talk...
I have msn messenger at bluecrazzzy07@hotmail.com... that isn't my email... so you can't email me there...

hope i helped...

Andy

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TheAdviceGuru answered Sunday August 1 2004, 2:51 am:
All i can say is you should drop his @$$ next time you see him cause if he sais he'll dump you for no having sex with him then he really doesnt care about you and that means hes just using you for sex so yeah..brake up with him

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alderworth1 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 2:39 am:
tell him to suck a nut and fuck off cause even if u he does do u then they when u two are goin out he will only be in it for the sex so just tell him to fuck off

good luck
Gabe

PS: where did u find this dude?!?

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ShOrThOnEy_ox answered Sunday August 1 2004, 2:23 am:
Well if he said that to you then you should be with him.You dont need someone that will pressure you into doing something that you dont want to do.

xo_

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pigsroksox! answered Sunday August 1 2004, 1:44 am:
Well darn, I guess you better dump him then. A guy like that doesn't deserve your time, or for that matter a look at your body. Don't stress over it, just wait for the right guy. Toodles!
.::Chelsea::.

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xo_dream answered Sunday August 1 2004, 1:13 am:
DON'T do it if you're not ready. Yeah, it sounds like he only wants one thing out of your relationship, and .. yeah. But don't do it until you're sure you're ready and don't let him pressure you into anything.

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B-Munny501 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 12:41 am:
If you know that you're not ready for it then don't do it. You'll only regret it later. If he's stupid enough just to dump you because you won't let him get his rocks off, then he's not worth it in the first place. Dump the damn guy!

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lilillini answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:30 pm:
no good guy will force you to do anything .. this boy is not worth it .. drop him ! if he can't repect your pace, hes not mature enough for you. hope i helped !!

Kourtni

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x3sweetbabiigrlx3 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:51 pm:
If he says that if you don't have sex with me then we can't be together if that is what he is saying then tell him to be gone.. Because guys like that aren't worth it trust me!

x0x Jamielynn

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l_l_ChRiStInA_l_l answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:39 pm:
If your not ready for it dont do it. He cant force you into doing it, if it was a real relationship he wouldnt force you into doing anything you wouldnt want to do...--Christina

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MainMan2230 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:39 pm:
I got two words you should tell him Fuck Off. If he's gonna dump you cause you wont have sex wit him then you dont want to be wit him anyways. There are plenty of nice guys out there you just got to weed all the bastards out first. HOpe i could help.

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:35 pm:
Don't do it if it makes you uncomfortable. Forget him if hes putting that kind of pressure on you. Thats just wrong. Thats how a girl gets into trouble.

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boricuamami2014 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:30 pm:
IF UR NOT READY DONT DO IT DONT FORCE UR SELF INTO HAVEIN SEX WITH UR B/F IF HE SAYS THAT HE WONT GO OUT WITH U B/C U WONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM THEN HE IS JUST USEIN U

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xbella_47 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:16 pm:
...f0rqet about him..he`s obiously using y0u f0r sex...and thats not cool =( ....hope i helped!

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ballerina04 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:04 pm:
a guy is a major idiot if he breaks up with you because you won't have sex with him. this means he doesn't respect you and what you believe. dump him first. good luck. send me something if you need anything else

Kristen

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dancergal1024 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 9:43 pm:
if you arent ready then dont do it if hes going out with you just to get sex then hes not a good guy so you should dump him he sounds like an ass anyway

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xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Saturday July 31 2004, 9:34 pm:
Woah! It seems like you should Break up with him!! Cuz it seems like he wants to use u!! When your ready.. go for it.. and be safe! but if your not ready then dont do it!! You dont need sum1 pressuring u!! <3

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