Hi everyone, My name is Jamie and I am really glad that I have my own advice column now. I love to help people or at least try to. I haven't had much of a bad life myself but I have bad experiences with Guyz! N other things but Not so much with a bad life. I can still help you..
Thank You,
Jamielynn
E-mail: NewYorkCheerGrL1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: High-School student
Age: 14
AIM: x3sweetxbabyx3
Yahoo: Cherry_grl_200869
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: November 13, 2004
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ok my I dumped my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and now i really like him but he acts weird he flirts with me one minuite then round his friends he doesn't wanna know me but I think he still likes me but he keeps saying he's got his other girlfriend pregnant and I'm sick of hearng iit because I think he's lying what should I do I'm really confused please help me (link)
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Well First think about it for a while. Ask youself, Do you really want to be with him? Do you think it will work out better? ...
If he is ignoring you infront of his friends that shows he isn't man enough. So think about that. Then if you still want to be with him..try talking to him about it one on one. Tell him how you feel and let him know you are confused weather he still likes you or not because of the way he acts when he's around his friends. And ask him if he really did get his other girlfriend pregnant...
hope i helped
Xo..Jamie..oX
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ok i am 14 yeaes old going on 15 in october and i have a bf. everytime i am around him he is always asking to have sex and i just dont want people to think i am a slut. I want to have sex but i dont b/c it's like well i lost my virginity at 14. I really love him but idk if he is just using me. Should i do it or not. SHould i use a condom b.c he said that he would pull out before he cums.so idk..HELP (link)
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Well first think about it..How long have you and him been together? if it has been more then 4 months and everything in your realationship is all good and nothing has seriously gone wrong for you to believe he is using you then I would say do it if you want..But if your not ready which i don't sound like you are then don't pressure yourself! and you should deffinatly use a condum because even if he pulls out you can still get pregnant..from pre-cum
hope i could help..if u need anything else lemme no IM me on aim at x3sweetxbabyx3
xOx Jamielynn
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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do?? (link)
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wait a little longer..and then if your still late take a preganace test.if you are pregnant I guess if your not going to get an abortion which is the right thing to do (not to get an abortion) then you will have to suffer with the concequences(sp)
hope i helped xOx
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Umm, it may sound stupid, but people have been mentioning it, what is a cherry? not the fruit. (link)
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There really isn't a cherry..But people have always known the cherry as when a girl is a virgin and she has sex for the first time the blood is from the cherry popping. when really the blood is when your close to your period..
xOx
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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ? (link)
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Talk to her..and talk to him...
xOx
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me (link)
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Use a condum and you wont have to worry so much..
xOx
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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~* (link)
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I really wouldn't recomend doing that if you want to be noticed. Unless of course you want to be laughed at and all of that..which i highly dbout that..But if you want to be noticed more..start off with your fashion..Then work your way up with the way you act..and whe you get into school try and get in activities that are popular.Or try and talk to more people that are popular or aren't in the "low class" and you will be noticed..
XOX
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Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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Yes, it is a possibility that someone can pregnant from pre-cum
XOX
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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else?? (link)
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Well you were probably close to the time of your period and that is why it bled so much..
XOX
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how do you give a hickey? (link)
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You suck on someone's neck...
XOX
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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You should do what you think will be best for you..and your future...x0x Jamie
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can you get pregnant 2 weeks before your period? (link)
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Yes you can always get pregnant
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Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
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You can..But I don't think it would be to healthy!
~☼x0x☼~Jamielynn
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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot
~*~Emily~*~ (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you. So talk to him and ask him if he would consider you and him as boyfriend and girlfriend..~☼x0x☼JamieLynn
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when you use a tampon is that like fingering yourself? (link)
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No, Using a tampon is just so that blood from your period doesn't flow everywhere. Fingering yourself is using your fingers instead of having sex in other words. But Tampons are strikly for your period.~x0xJamie
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Im 15 and have been getting erections a lot lately
and my penis stays hard for quite a while is this normal? (link)
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Um..well ur probably just going thru puberty. But since I'm not a girl I'm not quite sure.
x0xJamie
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im not in any of my friends classes and i feel depressed ive had such a bad day.. and im really starting too get back at the "im ugly" stage
[its not really about advicenators] (link)
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Umm go to your conselor(sp) or your principal and ask if you can get a schedule change. Maybe you should tell your parents that you would like a schedule change it might be easier if one of your parents called the school..
☼*Jamie*☼
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What the hell does IDK mean? (link)
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IDK means I DON'T KNOW!
☼Jamie☼
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i have liked this guy for about a year now and we hung out alot when my best friend and his started to date and i herd that he liked me well now his best friend moved away and i have talked to him all summer and i hed he likes this other girl what should i do im so cofused (link)
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Well talk to him and ask him if he likes you more then a friend if he doesn't then don't ask again..It would be way to uncomfotable to talk about it im sure! But if he is talking about liking other girls then don't ask because if he likes you he will come to you. I really wouldn't chase after him much. You can't make him like you..But slowly you can make him fall for you...by flirting and kinda coming onto him but then again not coming to far onto him. If ya know what I mean..
hope i helped
x0x JamieLynn
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17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping?? (link)
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its dry humping
x0x Jamie
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