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There was SO much blood! Was it my cherry? Is something wrong?


Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 3:03 am

i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else??

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday October 13 2010, 9:01 am:
it was your cherry everyone is different and with it being your first time you probably has some tearing as well.

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LisaSavage answered Tuesday October 12 2010, 9:39 pm:
Everyone is diffrent my mate hade lots of blood and she whent to see when to get cheked she was fine nothink roung but to put your mind at rest i think you should go and see your doctor it would make you feel better i am sure if you herd it from a doctor and not some random of hear..
good luck i am sure you are fine :)

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SweEtxvxMisEry answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:25 am:
yeah --> it was..some ppl bleed more than others..its okay..dont worry

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xo_dream answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:33 pm:
A lot of people bleed the first time // first few times they have sex. Your body's just not used to it. And there's always the possibility that your hymen wasn't broken yet. You're probably fine =)

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Chellz8 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:51 pm:
hmm-- pretty sure.. yeah im sure it was your cherry ;)

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JLB209 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:04 pm:
it was ur cherry he probably just did it too hard

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UhOhItZbLaZeT answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:39 pm:
yes it was ur hymen (cherry)

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girdy_goo15 answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:43 pm:
ur fine it was just ur cherry. every girl is different. and he mite have cut you alittle. no worries

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PinkPrincesses answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:15 pm:
I think its perfectly normal, your body probably wasnt used to having something stuck in it (other than tampons).

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x3sweetbabiigrlx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:29 am:
Well you were probably close to the time of your period and that is why it bled so much..

XOX

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alisonmarie answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:59 am:
Your hymen was probably completely or partially gone by the time you had sex - whether it's intact or not, pain/discomfort and some bleeding is completely normal the first few times you have sex.

If the bleeding continues for more than a day, or is severe, you'll need to see a doctor. Otherwise, wear a pad and be gentle with yourself.

In future, make sure you've got condom-friendly lube around (water based lube), take plenty of time warming up, and your boyfriend knows to be gentle with you for awhile.

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Untouched1 answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:15 am:
yes it was your cherry and on different people you will bleed different you will either bleed more or less then others thats why it might have seemd weird at the time but your fine
-Cass-

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sexiiKt answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:49 am:
Hey its normal it just means he has a big dick and yeah lyk if you dont have sex wif him in lyk a week you will go back lyk your hole will get smaller and then you will bleed again it happens all the time to people it happened to me before 2 times so yeah its all good its normal! i freaked when it 1st happened to me!

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SmoothiesFknRock answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:41 am:
Like everyone else has been saying, it was probably just the cherry popping. Every girl bleeds a different amount. If it keeps happening tho- then something isn't right and you should get help. <3 | Jenn *

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kevin1986 answered Friday August 13 2004, 3:13 am:
It was probably just your cherry popping. If it happens again this bad,it may be a lot more serious.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday August 13 2004, 3:12 am:
Chances are it was just your hymen breaking. Everyone bleeds a different amount - my mom didn't bleed, I had about the amount I get with my periods, I had friend who barely bled... Though if he was rough, he might have hurt you. Knowing you were a virgin, however, I doubt he was rough.
Don't worry about it too much. Unless you feel pain NOW - like deep internal pain - you're fine.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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