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NO STUPID! a 5 year old girl cant get pregnant!! u have to have had your period before!!! no 5 year old hashad a period! you arent too bright!!

actually..yah..there was a 2 year old that got her period..so..fuck you

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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16)

you can ask me or IM me llxlbubbleslxll or SweetxvxMisery

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ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??)

she could have gotten raped --> i think its possible..not completely sure

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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??

well..i dont think its *dumb* to wait for marriage...but u shouldnt just be talken to random guy friends about haven sex..b/c thats how you get the reputation of a ho..and all you have to say is that you dont want to..simple as that..if they dont understand.oh well..they are tryin to use you

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can you get pregnant 2 weeks before your period?

Yes, that is actually about the time when a lot of women are the most fertile and wen they do get pregnant`! just make sure that you use protection`!

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Can you have sex when you are pregnant??

yeah..sometimes wen women cant go into labor..sex somehow helps it

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what kind of facial cleansing product do you think a person with minimal zits that wont go away, and oily skin should use to clear it up before school starts? please helpp i give 5's no matter what!!!

well..if you have like little tiny zits and not alot of them..just make sure you wash your face`! and try stridex or that OXYgen or w.e stuff..they work pretty good

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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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yes..hormones`!

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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do?

i think that if you dont want to have sex. then if it IS brought up..tell him you want to wait. 4 years is a long time to be going out. and its normal for guys to want to have sex.but if he truly loves you then he will understand and respect you for it`!

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For the past few months, I have had a very uncomfortable pain around my tailbone.

It's mostly when I'm sitting a certain way. And I'm not entirely sure why and when it started but it bothers me.

I'm afraid this could mean something awful. My uncle told me that it could be cancer and, although he was 'joking', I was scared. What if it is?

Anyways. I'm afraid to go to a Doctor because I'm very uncomfortable with people touching me and, of course, he'll have to see my...butt. (Yes, I said butt...XD) Anyways...It makes me really uncomfortable to have someone, even a professional, touch me. But I'm afraid that if I don't go to the doctor, and it's something serious, I'll end up getting really sick and/or dying.

Thank you, in advance, for your help. This may seem silly, I know. I understand that I will get a lot of 'Just go to the freaken doctor, dumbass' but...it's really not quite that simple.

Thanks, again.

yeah..i understand..its your body and you dont want any body to see it`! but you could have like fallen and broke/cracked your tail bone..its not that serious`! but it does hurt like hell`!but..just watch what happens and if it doenst get better and it gets worse..then you have to go see a doctor..and if you feel more comfortable w. a guy doc. tell them you want a guy doc. to come in there ..and if u want a gurl doc. do the same thing..they will understand. but also..its nothing that doctor hasnt seen/examined b4

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okay i'm 14 years old and occasionally i get these little pimples on my forehead and sometimes on my nose and around my mouth. i don't have acne or anything and to be honest i have pretty good skin but i'm trying to keep my skin really clear. i've used proactive and that didn't work at all it just made it worse! i ordered it twice i used it for 2 months and nothing worked on my skin! when i get a big pimple it's BIG like i swear it looked like i had a miniature tumor growing somewhere... okay maybe not THAT big but they get big and they bother me. does anyone have any products that i could use that aren't that expensive that would help clear up my skin a little bit more? except for proactive because i used that already and it didn't work (as i mentioned before) if you have any just let me know!!!

yeah --> um try clean & clear..or neutragina..stridex..just like make sure to clean your face really good..it doesnt realy matter what you use..as long as you get the dirt and oil off your face--> just wash your face every nite b4 you go to bed..and if you wear make up..try to use as little base as you possibly can`!

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Okay, I have only had my period twice now, well 2 weeks of it. I don`t think that made since, but ok. I`m only use pad because i`m scared to use a tampon. Do they hurt? How does it feel when you stick it in. lol sorry that sounded sooo wrong. =/

yeah..lol..um dont be affraid to use tampons. no it does hurt and you wont even be able to feel it. some ppl think that using tampons are like fingering yourself but i dont even no where they come up w this stuff. so ya. dont be affriad..its alot better than pads--i promise

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Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!!

well..all guys are gunna look there..but..if you want.get a water bra or something..lol..or you could just not worry about it.. youll get boobs eventually * when your body is ready * lol

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hey im skinny...but like my thighs and stomach and upper arms are flabby!! i wanna get fit and tonned for skool which starts sept 8th...lately ive been jumping on my trampoline ALOT!! will that help?? where will it make me fit..will it help my stomach and stuff..just a big trampoline..

yeah..it will help..also..for your legs..you can run and you can ride a bike around your neighboorhood *bring some friends along if you dont wanna go by yourself`!* that will really get your legs muscular`! for your arms..push ups..maybe..lol..stomach..crunches..the running will help too

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I'm gonna redo my whole room and i need a magazine or somthing to get ideas from. I watch trading spaces but i need sum10 nore. Thanx bunches!

okay.heres some websites

http://ww2.pbteens.com/undex.cfm?

http://www.wakeupfrankie.com
^ thats a realy kool website..it shows you all kinds of designs and stuff`! hAve fuN`!

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i really like the look of black nail polish but the rest of my clothes are really preppy and it looks out of place. is there something i can do to make it blend in with the rest of my clothes?

thans

ahh--> i went through this..lol..okay..you can like..get black tips on your nails...like just have the tips black..or..paint your nails black..and have like a kool design put on them..rinestones..ne thang..blacks a kool color`! lol.. i dnt care wat anybody thinks`!

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oK wElL..my room is soo small i have a huge bed and a dresser and chest and a very tiny bit of room to walk in my room looks just so small and i wanted to paint it and get a theme but i dont know what to do to make it bigger and what kind of theme cuz my mom wont let me paint it or gett anything for it cuz we dont have the money plez help!

yea..hmm..okay --> maybe you can just like..move the chest thing out...put it in the garage or attic/storage place..w/e you have...re-arrange your room too`! make sure you dont put anything like catty-corner or anything..that takes up alota room escpecially wen you dont have that much. and w. your walls..just like the ?? i just answered lol..you can gett shopping bags and pictures of friend and stuff to hang up..make a cologe or something and hang it on your walls. that should get you started`! you can probably think of more ideas while your doing all this`!!

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my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch!

okay. this mite sound weird. but...i was reading in a magazine and it said that if your parents wouldnt let you paint the walls that you could like..get shopping bags from your favorite places to shopp and hang them on your wall. and you can also make like signs and put pictures of your friends on there to. With the beds. maybe you can talk your parents into getting a full or queen bed * which ever you have room for* and you can get like a different comforter or sheets w.e`! re-arange your room to`! that helps..and uh...if there is somewhere else that you could move the big desk then move it out of there unless you want it and it has your computer on it * like me * but once you move one of those beds out you will probably have more room and theres like these kool little pull out tubs that you can get at like target and places like that. you can get those in different colors and you'll have a kool new room`! hope i could help

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ok. well i live here in a town called fresno. fresno is a town of really down to earth, cool people. most people aren't really wealthy, which means theres hardly any stuck up snobby people etc.

well.. now im moving to the town next to fresno, called clovis. and clovis is a really nice town. home to people living in MILLION dollar homes. a lot of wealthy people living in that town. so.. theres definetly gonna be snobby rich b**tches there.. and i dont mix well with those kinds of people. meaning, i dont like them lol.

i dont totally have anything aginst them tho, thats just not the type of people i like to hang with or be around..

so of coarse. im going to the school there called buchanan. so like.. im really worried that im not going to make friends because i dont care for rich snobbs which is mainly what the school is made of.

WHAT DO I DO??? how do i make friends..

love, manda

okay. alot of schools are like that. but it mite be like known for the *snobs * but there are probably all kinds of different ppl that go there. so just wait till the first day and meet new ppl. try to get along w. them even if it kills you`! some of them could be really nice and yall could be really good friends

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Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?

if its a birth mark --> let it go..i mean..everybody has them. but if its like a mole thats big -- > i think you can get them removed. I dont no. dont worry about it though.it makes it more noticable

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