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Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 11:44 am

Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?

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lilxxcrystalxxbv answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:12 am:
look thats what makes you so special.. trust me everyone has something different about themselves that sets them apart from everyone. So if anyone makes fun of it..ignore it cause u know that it sets you apart from that person and plus what if they had a birthmark like that they wouldnt like it would they?? hehe nope!
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mellophones_rock_77 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:54 am:
your birthmark is part of you and you were made that way, so the older you get, hopefully people wont care. if it were me, i'd just let it be :)

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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:00 am:
Hello =) Trust me, your friends can't make fun of you because of a mole. I have about a billion freckles lol and no one names fun of me. If you still don't feel confortable with that, you should get it removed. I hope I helped :) If you need anything, drop one in the inbox <3 Steph

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Chatychic08 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:11 am:
Well its just a birth mark/ mole thing! its apart of who you are, and im sure its not that big a deal, we all have little things we are insecure about and that we dont like about our selves but hey its human nature, and we all hav little things. so it shouldnt b that big a deal. Dont hide it anymore and see wat happens. :) hope things work out.

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SweEtxvxMisEry answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:52 am:
if its a birth mark --> let it go..i mean..everybody has them. but if its like a mole thats big -- > i think you can get them removed. I dont no. dont worry about it though.it makes it more noticable

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JLB209 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:10 pm:
let it be cant do anything about it

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OrangeLuverr answered Friday August 13 2004, 6:58 pm:
If i had a mole or birthmark i wouldnt cover it...if people make fun of you for something that you cant control then their stupid idiots, if you want to show it..then ya, dont listen to what people say.

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BeezKneez answered Friday August 13 2004, 3:35 pm:
U were born w/ it so it's a part of u! Ur gonna have 2 show it off eventually. Don't worry about wut it looks like or about covering it up. If u really wanna keep hiding it, just try 2 wear long sleeves or t-shirts... but I wouldn't bother hiding it if I were u. <3

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xo_APRiL answered Friday August 13 2004, 3:32 pm:
People can be really mean sometimes. I think you should just not care about it. Cuz your going to have it all your life. [ unless you get it removed?? ]

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MummuM answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:42 pm:
People shouldn't be laughing at your birth mark/mole in the first place, people can be so cruel. Mmm, how you can keep hiding it. Maybe wearing some long sleave tops, or have a tank-top and then put a sweater or a cute jean jacket over it =)

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xogiirlygurlox answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:05 pm:
you shoulld'nt care about it at all! dont care about wat people think of you. if someones going to make fun of something like that, it just shows that they are so much more immature than you. just let it all go in one ear and out the other. if it really bothers u that much, ask your parents about going to a doctor and seeing if you can get it removed. hope i helped!

<33 Jordyn

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liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:55 pm:
I think that you shouldn't be trying to cover-up your BEAUTY marks! They're what make you - well YOU! Every inch of you is beautiful, ever mole, freckle, and mark. If people stare, just ignore them, they have no life! =)

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xo_Meg_ox answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:02 pm:
as long as it's not hairy, then let it show! it's part of your skin and you! lol but if it bothers you so much then get it removed!! *i think you've been watching too much austin powers haha...moley,moley,moley ;)

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Mackenzie answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:25 pm:
I don't think you should coveR it up - I mean, honestly.. who caRes what people will think! To hell with 'em!! I don't see why they WOULDN'T accept you because of this. They have to take it oR leave it! I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D

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sunny answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:17 pm:
i think you should just sho it and if it really buggs u get it removed some day but its there and its a part of u so sho it. i have a scar fom something on my stomach and i was afraid to wear swimsuits that showed it but its gonna be there and its part of me so if you show it and ppl dont like u just for that then they are not good friends.GOOD LUCK

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KateStar1011 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:11 pm:
Well...hunnie. You're gonna have to find out who you're real friends are...and not wear it. If they make fun, they shouldn't be your friend. They all need to love you for you, and not for somebody that hides things, ya know? So, strip it off..SMILE and BE YOU!!!! It's the best feeling! <3 Have a great Day!

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alisonmarie answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:50 am:
Let it be. Would you put up with friends who made fun of your hair colour or your race? Well, you're born with those things, just as you are born with birthmarks, and it's pointless for people to make fun of it.

If people see you are really uncomfortable about it, then they could see that as a way to pick on you. But if you don't care - and you shouldn't care, you were born with it - then people will realize it's no big deal.

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x0inVisiBlekiSs0x answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:49 am:
i wouldnt hide it, its a part of you. now, people might not say or think anything of it bcus it was a long time ago, and now everyone has grown up and matured, and realized theres nothing to make fun of. i have friends w/ birth marks n stuff..it doesnt change who they are and what they mean to me. if it rele bothers you tho..wear shirts with sleeves that cover it up a bit. i hope i helped =)


x00o gina

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