hi my name is monique and im 15 years old okay there is this boy at my school named Orlando and i really like him alot!!!! and i dont know if he likes me but people think he does heres why because he says hi to me different than the way he says it to other girls he always smiles at me and in my english class sometimes he stares and on friday he gave me a hug after 2nd period english and after school ha gave me a really long hug it was like 5 seconds long and i think that is pretty long for just a bye see ya on monday hug!!!! well my friend angie likes him too i asked her how much and she said a little bit alot and i like him alot but i think she liked him before me but i like him more if he does like me and askes me out what should i do say no because of my friend or say yea? please help!!!!!!
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I would just talk to your friend about it and see how she feels and see is she would be hurt if you went out with him. Just let her know how you feel about him too.
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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..
how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?
I think it all depends on the person and what they are planning on doing with there life. I dont want to have kids until earliest 25, and latest 32, but thats just me. and it depends on when you find the right guy and when your responsible enough.
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i'm in eighth grade and my mom doesnt think girls my age should have boyfriends. im not really close with her either. and ive never had a bf either. i dont know what to tell her if i get asked out..? please help, thx !
Hmp, i know a lot of parents that are still like that. Really she cant stop you from getting a boyfriend, cuz if you like him and he likes you its jus hard to stop... but maybe you could talk to her and if that doesnt work maybe have you and your best friend talk to her and see if she will take it with someone elses point of view. and tell her how its common now for younger people to have boyfirends and that just cuz you go out with a guy doesnt mean that its going to be really really serious or anything. i think you should just talk to her about it! and if she says no still try to respect her decsion but honestly there isnt anything she can do about it.
Hope i helped. if you need ta talk lemme know
`xoxo magz
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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!
Well all i can tell you is height shuldn matter, ive went out with like 2 guys shorter than me an i didn think ov it as ani big deal. Its them that matters not really what they look like.
xoxo magz
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Alright I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. A while back, we were hanging out; and I guess you could say things got a little out of hand. Well, I recently found out that I was pregnant. Today, my friend Amber (who is also pregnant, but not from my boyfriend) pushed me into telling my boyfriend. He didn't freak out, but he was upset. He told me that it'd be too much of a burden to have a baby now, and so he told me he wanted me to get an abortion. I'm very against abortion. I told him this, and he respected my opinion, but still tried to push me in that direction. He also suggested this "safe baby" thing. I don't really want to put my kid up for adoption either, because I can just imagine how much it hurts knowing your parents gave you up. My boyfriend doesn't want to tell his parents either, but he said he will, but you can tell how reluctant he is. He told me he loved me no matter what, but it was too much of a burden. I know he's not going to dump me, but he is afraid to keep it because he's going to college next year nad still trying to figure out his own life. Someone please tell me what I should do.
Hey sweety, I think that this descion is totally up to you. If you want to keep the baby then you should keep it and he should respect that, and your not the only one who had sex, he got himself into this too so he should have to be responsible for his actions too. If its really what you want then keep it, which i think is a good idea and a responsible thing to do. It will be a burrden opon him, but he will have to deal with this, its his responsibility, if he is willing to have sex then he should be willing to take care of a kid. Im sure he will respect you for your descion. Good luck and my prayers are with you.
if you need anything or ever want to talk when things get tough, let me know.
xoxo magz
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OK well I was in Science yesterday and we were taking a test and for the end of the test we had to go to these stations so this kid.... "A" was a little faster then me and so he was at the stations first so he finished first and I sit next to him so when I came back he asked me out, and ive only been asked out 1 time before and I kinda freaked out and just said no without really thinking about it and i wasn't totally sure if he was serious and now I do want to go out with him but my problems are I don't know how to bring it back up and i'm not sure if he was like kiddin or something please help!
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well then next time you are in class just bring it up like you member when you asked me out or whatever, well were you bein serious? and if he says yea be like i was thinking about it and i do want to go out with you.. or blah blah go along with that.
xoxo magz good luck
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okay yesterday nyte i went skating and my brother friend is 18 and he was all hitting on me and shit and i was like okay .. i didnt care at 1st but then he asked me out and i was like umm.. yea i guess ... this isnt the 1st time i went out with him and stuff i mean he is a really great guy and i love him to death . . .then my friend lets call her emily . . is close to this one guy jason and he came over to her and started talkin to her . . then he left and i said dammn is he hott. . she went over to him and his 1st words like who is she so my friend goes Nicole and he goes dammn she fine and madd hott and he is in 11th grade and i am in 11th and he was all talkin to me and stuff and was hitting on me too . . but then the 18 year old guy got all madd and they got into this huge brawl . . JUST OVER ME . .. i dont kno what to do or who to choose . . i mean i really like them both and they are really nice and both hottt helpp me please !!!!!!!!!!
ooo yea by the way i am 16 turning 17 on dec 10
thanxs so Much NICKY
Well first off, you said you already went out with the one guy whos 18... an apparently yall broke up once already or whatever, so unless things have changed a lot then im not seeing to much of a future. But if thsi guy whos in your grade or whatever likes you and you get along well with him then why dont you go for him and try things out and see how they go so you can know or not. but really it all comes down to who you like the most, and since im not 100% sure about how you feel i dont know, but i say go for the new guy!!
hope i helpd you out! good luck and if you need anything else or you need to talk lemme kno
xoxo magz
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ok i just got back from hangin with my love! hes soo awsome but at first im never comfortable then later i get comfortable with him (his family's always around..im a good family friend!) anyways..he always looks around bcz he knos ima see what or who hes lookin at and so i moved my head and he tried to kiss me but i moved my head to where he kissed my cheek...but see his family an me are cool so im sometimes embrassed but then again im not so i didnt wanna kiss him then i think i hurt his feelings..and i think hes mad now because hes all when we were leavin from my friends house my ride was waitin on me so i just got in the car and didnt say "bye" to his face and he called me when i was in the car an was upset..what can i say to his to let him kno that i love him but he wont believe me that i had to go he says it was an "excuse" even tho he was standin right there!?
Well why dont you just talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel , i mean if you dont want to kiss him with his family around or whatever then just let him know. and then for the him saying it was an excuse or whatever if he doesnt believe you then im sure it will just pass over sooner or later but if you really want him to believe you just tell him the honest truth and talk to him about it
hope i helped
xoxo magz
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hey! i'm 16/f and my sis turns 18 on oct. 2nd... ne present ideas for her? or creative ideas eX: MaKinG her breakfast... ThANkS In AdVaNcE!
(shes a normal teenage girl by the way...not a goth or ne thing! LoL!)
well you could just mess with her and get her a gag gift like a sex gift lol jsut to mess with her, and then get her a real gift lyk maybe if you wanna go all out for her then yu could get her some kind of real jewlery. and then if you want to make her breakfast or hav a 'just you and her' breakfast lunch or brunch or dinner and go out somewhere an get that for her im sure she owuld love it. or you could get her her own small personal cake that says something only yu two know about or something. be creative and go all or something!! gl
xoxo magz
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im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.
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I know that it would probable break trust with your sister but thats a very serious thing, i think you should go an tell your mom. you love your sister im sure and dont want anything to happen to her so i would tell your mom to be on the safe side.
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Okay is it true that laxatives help/make you lose weight?? and also, if you take too much, is it dangerous?? thankx
they do make you loose weight but in a bad way, your body doesnt get ANY vitamins and the things it needs from the foods you eat it jsu goes striaght through and its really gross. im not to sure how dangerous it is but im sure it is. i wouldnt even go there if i was you/
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My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
Okay first off, that was a great thing you did for your friend, and its such a great thing yu did. its good to have the courage to do things like that specailly when it comes to the people we love. next, she will see someday what a good thing you did for her, and i know it hurts her now, but you did the best thing for her even if she doesnt realize it. and sooner or later she will get over it. i know you wnat it to be sooner but it may not be, and i know that hurts, but b tough, know you did the right thing and you were just looking out for her. She will someday eventually come around and understand. Also it isnt fair that shes putting all the blame on you but im sure she knows its wrong for her to be terrible mad and you and she knows it wrong what he did. shes hurting right now and you should just try to be there for her, if she wont let you be just try to talk to her about it, and if she doesn accept it then just let it go for awhile and try to work it out. Im sure it will work out. also if you do notice they get back together and he starts hurting her again go to the cops or try to get better help and make sure shes safe, which is all that really matters. even if it does hurt you.
Hope i helped and if you need anything else at all let me know. and i would like to know how things go leave me on in my box, or i/m me, Chatychic08.
xOxO`mAgZ
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All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help!
Ok, well you two are friends right?? apparently, well if you are a good friend then you will realize what she is going through and try to help her, when she trys to bring you down with her try to bring her up with you. i have soooo many friends like that and its just like OMG SHUT UP! lol i know how you feel, just try to make it better for them and when they act like that b like ok im in a really good mood plz dont bring me down with you, and just talk to them about it and let them know how you feel but in a nice way lol.
hope it works out! gl and if you need anything else lemme kno.
xoxo magz
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I recenlty this summer met someone at camp. And we both liked each other and hit on each other. We don't see very much of each other anymore because our schedules are not compatiable but we talk online and on the phone. The only problem is I don't feel that crazy for him, as I used to. I just don't have it there in my heart. And he still loves me and I'm ready to move on. Its just I don't know what to say. Can you tell me if I don't like him anymore or its just that I don't feel love for him anymore because we don't see each other?
It could just be that you guys dont get to see each other any more. i mean ive felt that way before and then when i started to see the person more, my feelings got stronger. so it could just be that, try spending more time with him SOME HOW and see how it goes, but if you jus keep loosing interest then just let him go, its not fair to have him hanging on. No regrets though!
hope i helped.
XoXo'MaGz
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hey i dont get it when people write "ii" what does that mean??
EX: kiiss this...dont get it can someone please tell me?!
ii doesnt mean anything differnent. whenever im freely talking i do it too. its no big thing its just slang writing that makes it more interesting and its kind of creative,no big.
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ok how do you get your hair to look like wet but wavy or well not wavy but i dont know! well if you have any idea on what i'm talking about how do you get your hair to look liek that? thanx!
My hair is naturally curly, but i can make it look any way. if you want it to look wet then just put some kind of good gel in it and hair spray, and kinda scrunch it but not too much, that way it looks wavy and wet from the hair spray and itll hold!
Hope i helped if yu need anything else drop me one in my box
xOxO'MaGz
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Hi please help me! I have some nice friends but I'm not popular.In my neighberhood these group of girls are all friends and they don't include me but they are nice.I really want to get in their group but it doesn't work when I try.My other friends don't really like them and dont hang out with them.What should I do? I want to keep my old friends but make some new ones. I think maybe its time to move on and meet more people. sometimes im shy but when you know me i dont shutup!Please help me I'll rate good for anything!
Okay, well sweety i know exactly how you feel, if you feel you want to move on to a new group and stuff then you need to just be yourself to find the kind of 'new group' to be in. and you have to be REALLY outgoing. but still yourself, and dont loose all those other friends either, still be friends with them jus ween yourself away little by little! youll be fine, and if the group of girls you are trying to hang out with now arent accepting you just try to find something you have in common with them and try to have a conversation or something about it, if that doesnt work and they still dont accept you for you then i would try to find some new people. also. if one of your friends that you have now feels the same way that you do talk to them about it an you can both try to meet new people and talk to new people!
Hope i helped if yu need anithing just drop me one in my box and lemme know how things go!
xOxO`mAgZ
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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??
I was 11 when i got my frist boy friend, but im 14 and ive still not had a 'real' kiss. so dont worry about it, its no big deal trust me. your time will come.
xoxo magz
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this one is for the guys...I am going out with this guy and the bad thing is is that he lives in a different state than me...we both decided that we want to have a long distance relationship...well...i dont think he would cheat on me but he says he's "a gangsta" and my friends all think that he's cheating on me...I havnt talked to him in almost a month and usually he wants to talk to me everyday...are there any signs that he could be giving me that he is cheating on me??? Thanx for all ur help
Ok hunni, when your man dont talk to you in a month you know hes cheatin on you. i mean specially if he used to talk to you every night. im sorry but when it comes ta guys that are like that, thats how they are. you just gotta know how to keep them in line. but yea hes def. cheatin
xOxO`MaGz
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i think i am being stalked. i get weird emails from somone named "zoner" and when i walk home from skool theres someone close behind me but after i turn around a few times they go away. what should i do?
Just to be sure and to make sure that nothing happens to you i would tell your parents NOW! and have them do something about it, maybe go to the cops or get some kind of protection because that is a very scary thing, and im sure you dont want anything bad to happen. i hope everything works out.good luck and stay safe.
xOxO`MaGz
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