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Hi please help me! I have some nice friends but I'm not popular.In my neighberhood these group of girls are all friends and they don't include me but they are nice.I really want to get in their group but it doesn't work when I try.My other friends don't really like them and dont hang out with them.What should I do? I want to keep my old friends but make some new ones. I think maybe its time to move on and meet more people. sometimes im shy but when you know me i dont shutup!Please help me I'll rate good for anything!
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well if you like them try to be their friends and if ur old friend wont be ur friends because of that then their not ur true friend .. did they even give the new gurls a chance to find anything out about them and just be nice to the new gurls and try not to talk alot lol and ask them if they wanna go to the mall or sumthing okay hun good luck <33 always debbiie*X0o
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Okay, well sweety i know exactly how you feel, if you feel you want to move on to a new group and stuff then you need to just be yourself to find the kind of 'new group' to be in. and you have to be REALLY outgoing. but still yourself, and dont loose all those other friends either, still be friends with them jus ween yourself away little by little! youll be fine, and if the group of girls you are trying to hang out with now arent accepting you just try to find something you have in common with them and try to have a conversation or something about it, if that doesnt work and they still dont accept you for you then i would try to find some new people. also. if one of your friends that you have now feels the same way that you do talk to them about it an you can both try to meet new people and talk to new people!
Hope i helped if yu need anithing just drop me one in my box and lemme know how things go!
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I know exactly how you feel. I am curretly going through the same thing. All you really have to do is talk to them. When you talk to them, and bring out the wittiness in you, they see who you are, and they'll want to hang out with you more. The only thing is, is that they are all really good friends with each other and they really want themselves. Really the truth, just talk with them and show them who you are. That never hurt anybody. I'm sure youra great friend, and they will like you for who you are. I know exacly how you're feeling, and I went through the same thing.
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Ok for starters...
who like PREPS?! I DONT!!!
if you want to meet new people GO FOR IT!
you never can have enough friends!
your buds should know just because you hang out
with other people doesnt mean your not still
there friends...
but whatever you do DONOT get caught up with
your new friends and forget your old friends
at least your old friends befriended you off the bat...now your going to have to struggle and impress these dumbass rich groupies to hang out with them..if i were you get to know them and if they are mean and rude forget them! BUT DONT DUMP YOUR OLD FRIENDS!! what if the new ones end up dumping you or dont like you!?
good luck with that
judith (the lil' helper) keep me updated! (:
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i think you know what you need to do. these lame 'old' friends you have are all a bunch of fish-eating dykes who want nothing more than to bring you down to their pathetic level. ditch the losers, and go find yourself some respectable friends. at least your new friends will be popular. that doesnt mean that youll be popular by hanging out with them. everyone already knows youre a loser at heart because theyve seen you with your old friends. sorry but its the truth.
but seriously popularity is total bullshit. youll come to realize this when youre a little more mature. high school is really your gateway to real life. in real life there is no such thing as popularity. YOU DONT NEED TO DITCH YOUR FRIENDS FOR SELF-CENTERED DESIRES. THAT MAKES YOU A BAD PERSON. SHOW SOME RESPECT AND DO WHATS RIGHT!
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I wouldn't waste your time with them if they dont accept you in there group, but if their nice to you maybe you should try to make them your friends but keep the ones you have now.
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Try organizing something yourself. See if you can get a few of them to go to a movie or whatever it is you kids do these days. Keep trying even if they say no right away. If they turn out to be total jerks and blow you off and stuff, screw them. Find a new crew to run with.
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why dont you invite your popular friends somewhere and if they dont invite you somewhere after that you should probably come to the conclusion that maybe they really arent your friends
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i think you should meet some new friends and still hang with the old. theres never enough friends !
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I know exactly how you feel. I went though the same thing all though middle school, and I ended up being pretty happy so heres what i did and hopefully it'll help. Well, sence you're shy they probably like you more then you think but you should open up anyway. Try to be yourself instead of acting like them. Because if you open up and be yourself you will be happy no matter what happends.
Hope I helped!
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hey girl
wuts happenin
u need to stick with your REAL friends. those girls r probly slutty or whoes be yourself and dont try to fit in with neone that gets u nowhere in life trust me i figured that out the hardway and im only 15
so get out there and find a group of friends who r real and down to earth but most of all
BE YOURSELF
im out
peace biatches
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okay well just start hangin out w/ them! just go up to em and say hey ! ask em for there numbers and yall can go on double dates and ask some to come and sleep over! hope i helped! mwuah! klg*
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