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hey,
Well, here's the deal I'm almost 17 and my boyfirend is almost 21. My mom thinks he's only 18, she hasn't met him before becuase we both are in job corp.He just left for the army and I'm going to have a baby now. I'm onlt 2 1/2 months. We have been together for 8 months. Well, this is my Question how do I tell my mom when she thinks I'm still a virgin?
loca (link)
Well sence your almost 17 you should wait till then unless its noticeable then tell her when you are an adult. I know it's hard to hind it but just so your baby is safe. Plus congradulations. My sister is due next month.


i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on? (link)
Yeah, NYC, it works for me.
-Hope I Helped-


My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
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In no way shape or form did you do anything wronge. Don't let her blame you for caring. She's probably so used to people lian that she doesnt know what the truth is. She's probably really exhasted from that and needs time to think just let her no you didnt intend on hurting her and she will treasure you doing that in the future.


Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody... (link)
Goin out.


I really like this guy lets call Him "gabe" well Ok I met him like 3 days ago well OK I met him like 6 weeks ago but we never really noticed eachother till now. well when I met him we were at a party type thing and He drove me and my friend home But he ended up staying over at her house with us and me and him were talking and stuff then all of a sudden we were holding hands next thing U know were making out and kissing and everything else at school he doesnt ignore Which is kewl U know he even kisses me and everyones like "oh you and Gabe are so cute together" Even though were not going out at all but Hes 18 and IM 14 is it wrong (link)
It's not wronge. I'm fourteen and I know a lot of people who are that date 18 year olds. I mean, if he's cool and you injoy it then it doesnt matter.


Hi please help me! I have some nice friends but I'm not popular.In my neighberhood these group of girls are all friends and they don't include me but they are nice.I really want to get in their group but it doesn't work when I try.My other friends don't really like them and dont hang out with them.What should I do? I want to keep my old friends but make some new ones. I think maybe its time to move on and meet more people. sometimes im shy but when you know me i dont shutup!Please help me I'll rate good for anything! (link)
I know exactly how you feel. I went though the same thing all though middle school, and I ended up being pretty happy so heres what i did and hopefully it'll help. Well, sence you're shy they probably like you more then you think but you should open up anyway. Try to be yourself instead of acting like them. Because if you open up and be yourself you will be happy no matter what happends.
Hope I helped!


im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.

-confused (link)
Oh, I know exactly where you're coming from. I was goin though the same thing a while back, except I was the one doing, and my sister is the one who helped me. You probably shouldnt tell your mom just yet. Talk to your sister first and see how that goes then if it doesnt work and your still concerned tell your mom.


i need a homecoming date and all these girls wanna go with me but i dont no who to take. i like them all but none more then the other. i dont wanna make ne of them feel bad. wuts a good way to pick the right one? (link)
Try pickin the one who you think likes you the most, or you could just tell them how you feel and that you want to go with all of them as friends.


okay well i really need a guy in my life... someone who is there for me and can help me with my problems... because it seems like all my friends are like blocking me or something it just isn't fair.. :-/ i want a sweet guy who knows how to confert a girl... does anyone know that feeling?? (link)
Ah, I know exactly how you feel believe me. I'm sorry you have to feel like that just talk to people and who you think is special will most likely think you're more special then you know.




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