I have long blonde curly/ straight hair, and blue eyes:). I listen to mostly rock/classic rock music. I play 3 instruments, and have a major love for music. I think it's soo awesome. I can speak 2 1/2 languages-(i am learning one now)
I love to help people out who have problems of their own because I realize that I have a lot of problems,and I want to help because I think I can relate to some of your problems.
E-mail: neens1790@hotmail.com
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Location: New York
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Age: 15
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what do you do when you love two people and you cant pick between them (link)
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just think about the one you love more and who you feel more comfortable around. Hope this helps!
-Janine-*
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My friend is annoying as hell. She considers herself punk. She wears HER OLDER BROTHER'S CLOTHES. And she literally wears a size 1, and her brother, in womans, is like a 5. So they're all baggy, and she wears his belts, shirts and shoes too. It's so annoying. She's really pretty, but she never shows it. She wears argile socks that don't match (literally, she miss-matches them on purpose) and her hair is PAST her butt. She hasn't had it cut in like 6 years. I hate that people look at her and talk about her funny, but seriously, it's so weird because she doesn't even dress or act like a girl. Should I tell her?
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I think that maybe if u became better friends with her, then maybe u can help her figure out who the hell she really is. Seriously talk to her and tell her exactly what people say and how bad she loks. She may continue this until somebody says something and tries to help her..hope this helps,rate me please!!:)
-Janine-*
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ok, what's "7 minutes in heaven"..i know its a game, but what do you do? hows it played? rules? etc? =) (link)
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7 minutes in heaven is a game you play and involves kissing. What you do is u send two people of the opposite sex into a closet, for 7 minutes,, and theyre suppose to start maikng out or something. thats about it.
-Janine-*
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There is this boy that i love oh so much and we've been dating for a long time and we both go to different schools. there's this other girl though, that flirts with him alot and im scared of him liking her. what should i do?? (link)
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Ive been in this situation before. Just tell your boy straight up, "if you loved me, youd tell her to stop flirting with you" You gotta make sure your boy knows that he's with you, and not anyone else. hope this works out okay!
-Janine-*
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hey i'm having a party, and i want to have something like "7 minutes in heaven" or w/e (its a halloween party tho)
does anyone have any good ideas for it? help! thanks:)
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OMG! I love this sort of stuff. For a party do the whole 'dare or dare ' thing. it's bound to end up like 'the kissing game'. lol
good luck!
-Janine-*
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sOO ne girls out there who want 2 help a beginner out with liquid eyeliner! i've always used pencil and i can never learn the liquid thing! p.s. what r some brands? thanx so much! (link)
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okay, personally, i would stick with the pencil, only because the liquid eyeliner is a lot more messier. Anyway, i do know some really good brands that i use. Try MAC products, and my personal favorite is CG. Also, for a liquid eyeliner, dont make the lines huge, it looks way too made up. Try holding it by the very end so that your grip isnt as tight, which makes you makes huge splotchy lines, and carefully, apply right on the eylash line. Hope all goes well!
-Janine-*
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I have a really really sore throat, what are some home remedies to cure it? (link)
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for a soar throat, i usually take tea, crackers, a blanket, and the couch. lol Trust me, i hate having a soar throat too, also, try some regular cough drops and ough medicine too
Feel better!
-Janine-*
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How do you get someone to like you? Its sounds like a dumb question but i dont know what to do. Whenever i am around a guy and i like him, i have a funny way of showing it. I have never had much luck and never really had a boyfriend who was serious. Do you know what i can do? (link)
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oh my goodness i am having the same problem!! But you dont need to know about that . lol It's definately not dumb. Alot of girls want to know thIS kind of stuff. I learned the hard way: be yourself, and ur true love will follow. I know it sounds corny, but its the truth. Im still kind of working on it, because i havent had a serious b/f yet either. Anyway, just talk to a guy that you like like hes one of your regular girlfriends: the whole, hey, whats up, blahblah kind of deal. You never really know what guys are thinking, and that makes it so hard. But honestly, at first, dont make it soo abvious and like be all over him or w/e, just talk casually. Maybe saying a few witty things will help. A guy probably wants a girl who is easy going, easy to talk to and fun to be around. Just make good conversation, and dont over-do the being silly thing. Hope everything gets better!
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I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much! (link)
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I'm soo sorry about your girlfriend. That's really sad. I have not been raped before, but came close to it. Really, stuff like this comes as a hugge shoc to girls. This cant be overcomed by doing things for her, she has to realize that it is over and that now it cant happen anymore. If you just tel her that, maybe shell understand a bit more. A girl wants her guys to understand her, and to have patiencce for her. Dont try to rush things out of her mind because then that gives one more thing to focus on, and she doesnt need that.
It was nice giving you advice, Hope all gets better. Bye!:)
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Hi please help me! I have some nice friends but I'm not popular.In my neighberhood these group of girls are all friends and they don't include me but they are nice.I really want to get in their group but it doesn't work when I try.My other friends don't really like them and dont hang out with them.What should I do? I want to keep my old friends but make some new ones. I think maybe its time to move on and meet more people. sometimes im shy but when you know me i dont shutup!Please help me I'll rate good for anything! (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I am curretly going through the same thing. All you really have to do is talk to them. When you talk to them, and bring out the wittiness in you, they see who you are, and they'll want to hang out with you more. The only thing is, is that they are all really good friends with each other and they really want themselves. Really the truth, just talk with them and show them who you are. That never hurt anybody. I'm sure youra great friend, and they will like you for who you are. I know exacly how you're feeling, and I went through the same thing.
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