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i like this guy a lot...i have liked him for like 2 1/2 years and no1 knows that i like him except like 4 friends. every1 always tells me that he likes me, (which people think is a bad thing because he is sort of a dork in my grade). but there is this other girl who is REALLY popular (nice, pretty, funny) and when i am in classes with the guy i like but she isn't in them, he flirts with me. but when he is in a class with me and the really popular girl he flirts with her A LOT and like forgets me. he is moving away in a little while and i really need to know what i should do? any ideas? thanx

my b/f is 2 years older than me... so i understand what ur goin threw... i think that u should talk to him on the phone or something and tell him that you like him and ask him what he thinks..
See when i ment my bf i liked him when i saw him n then i talked to him a lot n then he just told me one day he liked me n i was like well whatta bout age?? He said age never matters to him because he loved me..
Maybe he thinks the same way as the guy u like?? well i hope i helped..
xOx
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how do u make out?? i know w. ur lips but like do always use tounge r like kiss each others lips??idk! i have a b/f who tryed to make a move on me but i like turned my head its like cum on kiss me but when he goes to do it im like really scared..i guess its b/c idk how

ahh god i remeber the first time i kissed... wow.. i just think i did it.. u just make out normally but then after a couple u threw ur tounge in and just like use it to massage his mouth.. lol..
hope i helped :)
Leah

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im peeing sooo much lately lke im talking like 3 times perhour
whats wrong with me? i jus got treated for a bladder infection???

Well... i mean i know a lot of people who go pee a lot.. i dont think its that unNormal..? but..i mean if u drink Pop a lot then that might b sum of the problem.. but.. u should probably see a doctor about that ... soo i hope i helped..!
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well im in 9th grade these guys are in 10th n we are having a war they are tping n all that sutff to all the freshmen... n breating up all the guys ... they already have plans so we need ways to get them back... but its just for fun

Well you can tp them... or if theyre comming by u dump Buckets of water on them..... get water guns n hide untill they come n squrt them.... if u stand by a window... then u can dump flower on them... umm hmm...crack an egg on theyre head..lol.. umm thats all i can really think of.. soo ttyl lyl hope i helped!! if u need more tell me n ill think sum more..
Leah
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What's ways to get people back - like TP them and stuff like that i need answers FAST =O nothing to bad tho-- just stuff to do to their yard or house or something any ideas??X3 the kers

Can u tell me why you want revenge n Who and for what cause?? please

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Im 14 and a female and My B/f and i have been together for 4 months. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and he asked me back out. He said the reason for dumping me was that i never called him and didnt see him enough. Things havent been the same since the break-up. He never tells me he loves me anymore and acts different. What should i do?

well.. idk if he reall yloved u he would probally talked ot u about it first... n not break up w/ u ... but i mean thats what i think.. But if you Really love him still maybe u should tell hym that things havnt changed... maybe you guys can work everythiing out n go back out again??

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I met this guy at the movies..we had been talkin for quite awhile on the internet. He goes to a different school and my best friend knows him. Well i think he is interested in me but i dont know..how do i find out if he likes me or not?

Well.. i mean not everyone like sum1 after meeting at the movies n talking online for a while...
i think u guys should meet up more...THEN tell hym u like hym..
Hope i helped.. XoX-Leah

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if someone asked u if u evr had an orgasm , and u hav . wuld it b weird to say yes? wuld they like make fun of u or sumthing.

hey... no way.. i mean everyone does right???
xOx-Leah

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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!!

Well usually if guys like theyre g/f then they beat them up... but idt thats neccasary...!

i think you should talk to you ""FRIEND"" n i mean b like yo shes mine... it isnt cool dat u like her.... but if u rly like her... then maybe she likes you..
then talk to your g/f n shee what she seys..then ask her if she likes hym...
i mean if she does then dump her @ss... but if she dont er w.e. i mean i think u should believe her... i mean after all .. she is ur g/f..
HOPE i HELPED..
xOx--Leah--> GL to you!!

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

i think that you should go to public school for fifteen days... i mean ur only there to get your money back...
But i mean u'd go to public school for like a whole YEAR!! i mean fifteen days outta it wont kill you... lol...
just get the money back n get back in dat public school class room!! lol....

well i hope i helped...
xOx-Leah

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ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?

heyy hunn!! i have had the same prob...
Just tell hym "you like hym n everything n then just b like yeah do u think ud eva go back out w/ me??"
Maybe he does like u alot .... maybe that gurl was just a g/f to try to piss you off or sumthing???
Well maybe he does like you n he just didnt wanna b lonely but he rly likes u alot!! :)

Hope i helped
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xOx Leah

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hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
ihatecancer01

well i think ur papa wants the best for u...sOoO i mean i think u should go to school n stuff i mean u gotta go sumtime....if u cann u shoudl see him everyday or talk to him sumhow....I MEAN life is too short to waste ur time not going to school... everyone dies sweetie.. n wen they do u will always have them in ur heart!! it will never leave you!!
xox i hope i helped u!! im sorry bout everything..GL!!!
Leah

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I remarried and my husband is nit very understanding to my son and is verbally abusive. he came frome an abusive family and thinks i am a terrible mom because i don't disiplend him differently he thinks i should be meaner to him. he is so bad he accused me of wanting to have sex with my son and says this is why i'm so nice to him. i'm not overly nice and i do punish him if needed. hes just a normal teen who never wants to put anything away that he uses and won't keep a cleen room. i don't think he's a bad child but my husband does therefor we continusly are fighting because i take up for my son now he says this whats wrong please help me

wow...he dont sound like the greatest guy... no effensve... but.. i mean ur son.. i dont think hes a bad child at all!! i mean all children r like that!! soo... i mean ur sons ur son.. do whats best for hym!! :)
xox Leah
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hope things works out!!

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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

yeah, i had the same problem...
well if you rly rnt ready then just b like yeah Brandon.. "im rly not ready for a relationship right now... n if we were to go out... n if we were to break up we might ruin summ of this bond we have...n i dont wanna do that...."
i went out w/ my best guy friend.. n i totally blew it wen we broke up...
luv ya.. GL
i hope everything works out...
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xox Leah

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

hey hun.... how bout u start...
i mean just b diff.. if u rly like hym the give hym a big PUSH :)!! lol ..
just b like... " have you eva thought of goin out wit me?" or sumthing like thatt..
need nymore help.. i/m me--> CHIgurL26
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xox i hope i helped..
Leah

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i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.

I think u shoudl go to the doctor!! whoo ur scaring me just from hearing it!!! huh.. im puzzled.. lol
well go to the doctor..
i hope u feel better soon!! xox
Leah!!

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hey! well i have blonde hair, and about a year ago i got highlights just to make my hair color a little bit lighter, and i got them redone about 4 months ago. but now my hair is growing in darker, so its a light brown, and my roots look really bad cuz there is like a line where my hair goes from blonde to brown. well i dont know if i should just get more blonde highlights, or if i should get low lights(brown hightlights) so that it blends better. plx help! thanx

i think u should get the low lights... i mean everyone can go w/ a change right???
i mean especially if it goes better...but i mean its still up to u hun!!
xox leah i hope i helped

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If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

well..... if u r friends w/ hym then just b like yeah i know its gunna b wierd to tell u this but i like u...
^^ if u guys r friends then he should understand!! :)!!
if u rnt then u should become better friends so then u guys can b closer for wen u do tell hym!!
i hope i helped!!
xox Leah

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i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom?

Yeah...thats what i did... i wus just like..
" hey ma, can i start shaving.. ?? i mean everyone else does...."
If not then just buy you own.. its not expensive....
xOx-->leah
hope i helped!! :)

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what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.

1st:base : making out

2nd:base: anything with hands/Getting fingured or giving a guy a handjob.

3rd:base: anything with mouth,getting eaten out or giving head.

4th:base:sex
xox Leah!! hope i helped you

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