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havent gone to school in 2 weeks (parents don tknow
hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
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awwww i kinda know how u feel bcuz i have a history of cancer in my family and my mom resently had surgery for cancer and she is fine now. but u need 2 spend as much time wit him as u can and tell ur parents that u don't feel comfortable wit goin 2 school and tell them and hopefully they will understand cuz it is hard 2 go 2 school and act like nothin happened when something really has and i hope everything works out wit u and ur uncle *i am more then glad 2 answer ne other questions u have * *STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*
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Not going to school isn't helping anything... you need to tell your parents what you've been up to so you can get caught up on your hw and stuff...just tell you uncle how much you love him and keep a picture of him with you at school if anything happens while your at school have your parents sign you out.
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In October my grandmother was diagonosed with lukemia.She went through trechorus months of chemo and is now in remission.I thank God for that everyday.All I can say to you though is spend as much time with him as you can.Make everyday for him the greatest knowing he might not be there tomorrow.And pray for him.Go to wearyellow.com to get a yellow wristband to show your support for people living with cancer.As for not going to school...you will have to tell your parents.After you let them know maybe they can explain your situation and you can work something out with the school.
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Awwh. First, I'm extremely sorry that happend to you. There really isn't much you can do but hope for the best and live on with life. I'm sure your uncle would want you to be happy [now or later]. I know this is a hard time for you, but you need to tell your parents that you're mourning really bad about this. Tell them how you feel. Maybe they can help. Hope everything goes well. :]
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My Grandpa died of cancer 2 years ago. I saw him die, so that was even worse for me. A few days i was upset, but I tend to deal well with death, becasue there have been a lot in my family. You just have to understand that death happens, it's not your fault or your choice, especially when its something like cancer. I'm not saying you shouldnt care about it, just don't take it so hard. Tell your parents how you feel and maybe also that you're not going to school because of it.
It WILL be hard for you to get through this, but you should definately tell someone.
i hope this helped :/
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well i think ur papa wants the best for u...sOoO i mean i think u should go to school n stuff i mean u gotta go sumtime....if u cann u shoudl see him everyday or talk to him sumhow....I MEAN life is too short to waste ur time not going to school... everyone dies sweetie.. n wen they do u will always have them in ur heart!! it will never leave you!!
xox i hope i helped u!! im sorry bout everything..GL!!!
Leah
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wow, two weeks? sounds serious! well, go talk to ur uncle, go tell him how much he means to u, and how much u love him, while u can, cancer is just one of those things that happen to good people...if u go talk to him, it might give u closure, but really, go back to school...death is just part of life and he might be going to a better place, my grandma has breast cancer and its really hard on everyone, but jsut let him know that u think about him, and that you love him...im sorry!
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tell them that you havnt been going to school cuz you wanna spend time with your uncle, they will understand, hopfully, cuz the school is gunna start calling soon =( im sorry about your uncle, x3
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who doesnt hate cancer? well there are gonna be some rough times in your life and they are gonna be really hard to get over, but some how your gonna have to move on. and hiding inside does nothing! you have to go to school it wont help your uncle by staying inside and feeling bad. its not your fault.
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u gotta realize tht sum bad stuff happens sometimes but it hpns 4 a reason...jus spend as much time with him as u can, try 2 keep him happy n get his mind off it [and urs!!], n prepare urself 4 the worste. im not gunna tell u everything is gunna be ok bc in reality, it wont, but u gotta learn how 2 deal with things like this. its tuff i kno...but think about wut goes through ur uncles head everytime he sees u upset..he doesnt want his last memories of u to be depressing, so just try 2 keep a smile on ur face, 4 him! n remeber the good! gl hunni n ii hope it all works out!
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thats a tough situation, and im really sorry about your uncle. but in life God never throws anythign at us that we cant handle, this situation wil only make you stronger in life and i no its hard but spend time wiht your uncle and enjoy it. you also need 2 go back 2 school, and you shouldlnt hide from evryone how you're feeling. let your family knwo bcuz im sure they r also having a difficltu time and you can all help each other. i hope i helped =)
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Well, hiding isn't the best thing in the world to do. Talk about how you feel with your uncle. School is important, so you need to start going again, I'm sure everyone would want you to. There's nothing you can do to stop the cancer, but at least you can spend time with him before the end.
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