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My friends call meh Jenny Jones kuz i always give out my advice.. usally works.. I'm best wit sex and luv questions..but i can do anything. I'm 13.. and luv to have fun! Ash meh a question.. I'll answer A.S.A.P!

SoMe dAy i MiGhT FiNd MySeLf
LooKiN iN uR eYeZ
BuT 4 NoW We'LL Go oN LiViN
..SePaRaTe LiVeZ..

What do u do when the smiles go away-
when every thing changes in just 1 day
-what do u do when luv falls thru
-n the person u luv- doesn't luv u

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ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16

Well, this is hard.. i dunno.. u gotta make up ur own mind own this which 1 do u love? as 4 tha 22 year old.. thats not good.. gurls who go out more than 2 years older r more likly to drink, smoke, get pregnate at an early page, I heard it on tha news =D...
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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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yep do it all tha time!!!! haha.. Its PMS.. Go on www.beinggirl.com they have everything! haha
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i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.

omg.. that made muh eyes water, because thats muh same story right now..This is gonna be really hard to accept it took meh a week but u have to clean tha slate. What I mean is start off being friends.. then afta bout a month move up 2 best friends.. then in bout noth 1/2 months tell him u luv him but won't go out wit him kuz he's hurt u so much.. u dun have 2 mean it wut i'm sayin is reverse phicoligy (spelt rong) It works! Like 99% of tha time.. = ) But if he rly luvs u.. he'll be hurt and will come bac to u.. It worked 4 meh.. but sweets look u gotta be strong and cryin dun help.. = ).. I/M meh plz.. we can talk.. u sound juss like meh.. i'm goin through tha same $hit! s.n= HugzXKizzes1117..
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okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months.. the thing is.. he recently went on vacation for a week and he just got back last night and we only talked for a 1/2 hour this morning from the whole week and he didn't sound happy but he said he had a good time.. plus he didn't sound like he wanted to talk to me and he was grumpy so we got off the phone i said i would talk to him later. Ever since i have been trying to call him ALL day and hes not picking up his phone. His dad did once and i told him to have him call me back but he never did.. i tried callin till 11.. now i think hes gunna dump me!?.. one friend told me he thinks its cuz hes bored.. cuz we haven't made out yet.. but i don't think thats it.. but now im afraid next time i talk to him he'll dump me.. i really love him!

Tell him how u feel.
My Boyfriend got so mad at meh kuz i was scared to come to him.
So i asked his best friend instead.
Of couse his bester told him and he was mad that i was scared to come to him first.
When you talk get right in say hi and get goin.
Tell him how you feel.
Tell him you luv him and don't want to lose him. and are scare that he's gonna dump u.
If he cares juss bout making out or he's "bored" then he doesn't care.. i no it hurts but its tru. but by wut you've sed i doubt thats tru! Right?! hehe.
So Tell HiM!
You can tell him anything .. its so easy. take my advice.. and flat out tell him wut u think and feel.
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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

Don't lose any weight!!!
Don't even try!!!
u r perfect!
that is the perfect weight.. 4 that height.
The way i no this is you should go on www.am-i-fat.com and then go to tha columnon tha left and click am i fat.
u r perfect!!!
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ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!!

Look At Ashlee Simpson she's got rly dark hair. = )
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I Lost my period last month on tha either 1 or 3 ummm i havnt started yet n i havnt had sex none im still a virgin im scared cause my mom wants to take me to the doctor .....what could b wrong with me

if you've has ur period less than a year then ur irreglar. No biggie.. wen i first started i lost mine for 3 months! lol.. it'll come back. Be happy. your not missin out on anythin but a week of hell each month.
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im addicted to soda . is this bad

Every1 is!
hahaha!
no its not bad..
4 ur teeth yeah its horrible but who care..
juss brush!
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i have a small question guys and gurls can answer tell me this is how it seems to me when a guys dick isnt big enough for da gurl its his fault BUT when the guys too big for the gurl is it her fault or his fault caus i want to understand if it works both ways P.S if i get a single its no 1s fault or no 1 is to blame i think i will xplode

Its no1 fault.
Thats rly confusing..
Its no1's fault.
You culd blame God I guess..
I dunno...
haha sry!
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Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP

I would lose him.
My oppion.
He lied.
He might be a father of sum other gurl.
2 BIG things that u try and avoid in a realiship.
howeva u spell it.
I would lose him.
don't get all messed up in this.
i dunno its ur choice.
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I am 14 and i havent started my period. I have been have this white stuff come out for about a year now and sometimes very heavily. Is there something wrong with me? I thought I would of started my period by now..

Its normal.
Its called Discharge..
and if ur have blood.. then u have started your period.. its juss rly rly light!
buy some pads or tampons.. i suggest pads since your juss starting.
and buy some pantieliners 2.

Where tha pantieliners in between periods and wear tha pags wen theres blood.. keeps some handy in school.. like in a backpack or purse.

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Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it?

Its totally normal.
It means your period is coming soon.
Buy pantieliners.. to put in so u dun ruin ur undies. = )
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WHAT IS IT WITH ALL THESE GIRLS CONCERD OF BEING FAT!!! ....103....120!!! those are all really good for your height and age!!! soo stop worrying were still kids!! live it up!! eat icecream for breakfeast!!!! make milkshakes for dinner!!! Dance the night away!! have a fun time and be a kid!!! heheeh ( im not saying DONT watch your weight b/c you should..just dont let it worry you sooo much!!!)AM I right Ladies?



mwa


LExy

Damn Right!!!! U GO! Live Up Life... You OnlyGet 1 Chance!!!!!!!! Woot!
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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!

Ask him..
I didn't and i asked my bf*s best friend.. and he told my bf..
he got so mad at meh... beacuse i didn't come to him.. and i should have.. you should be able to ask your bf ANYTHING!
So juss right out ask him!
Good luck & God Bless!
Candi

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ok it might sound weird but i can dream things and then like a day week, month... whatever it happens but i never kno when im gonna dream something so wat should i do?

I have that to.. I remember the first time it happened.. i dreamed that i was kneelin praying and then then a fone rang, i was on tha fone and saw a plane and it crashed.. and then caught on fire and rolled down this hill.. well that night i watched tha news.. thinkin of my dream and nothin was on it bout no planes so i 4got and moved on well that night i was kneelin prayin and my dad called meh in tha room kuz my friend called well he had tha news on and at that moment the film they had on was the same thing i saw in my dream.. i screamed and droped the fone..no one wuld belive meh.. but it*s tru! Afta i got used to it i kept a dream journal.. i can only get my dad to believe meh.. she doesn't believe in seein tha future.. wut can u do.. I say keep a dream journal next to ur bed and wen u wake up write down wut u dreamed.. and tha date.. it helps.. and no matter wut don't try to get rid of it we have a gift.. i.m meh on HugzXKizzes1117!
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the past day I constantly feel I need to urinate, what is wrong with me, do i have an infection?
do i need to see a doctor?
what do i do?
i also have a weak bladder control

Its most likley a urianry track infection (ITU). or a yeast infection... either way u should see a doctor..no biggie juss get sum med... it happens to tha best of us..afta u start tha med. it should go away in bout a day or 2.. = )
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Hi see my boyfriend hasnt called me for a week in a half, and im worried about him breaking up with me,we always tell each other thatwe love each other. But I am really worried!!! i cant call him bc he lives far away. What should I do??
Signed
Ineedhelp!!

Well if he has aim er sumthin then type him and tell him yoo're worried...tell him what u think.. he's ur b.f yoo should be able to tell him anything!
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im only 13 and i really like this kid but he lives too far away. i met him at summer camp. he's really cool and fun to hang out with. but im not sure if he likes me. I want to go out with him (if he likes me) but i dont know if it would work because its really long drive. im going back to camp in a few weeks and i dont know what will happen...HELP PLEASE !!!!!
tysM!
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The best yoo can do is ask him! Be prepared for a no tho. They hurt.. so before yoo do anythin make sure yoo read tha singnals he gives yoo.. afta that ask him out. If yoo dun wanna then become rly good friends and thne juss tell him afta bout a month that u've totally fallen for him.. and rly like him.. thats wut i did and i've been wit my b.f for 3 months...
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hey, um..i got 2 questiond..how do u do those fading thingys..ik the site..but idk how to do them..and second, were did u get that picture that has that eye and eye shadow all around her eye from? its kute!!

I'm not quite sure wut fading thing your talkin bout.. But yoo can I.M meh on HugzXKizzes1117 too help meh out.. and for you're sencond question i got it at: http://www.picgames.com/perl/msn-messenger-icons?fa=%2Fperl%2Fmsn-messenger-icons&s=


Its an msm icon and it works well.. therr a bunch of cute ones!! I.M meh or drop another in my box!
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu

I would cry too. You're nowherr near selfish! You've gone through a lot and sumtimes crying helps! People shouldn't care that your the only person wita wheelchair.. yoo can't help it. God makes everything happen for a reason..All yoo can do is pray.. Oh and i'm sry if yoo don't believe in God but i do.. and thats wut i believe.. so cry you're eyes out.. yoo have a reason to.. you're wheelchair should matter to no1.. you'r still a person!

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