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He Might Be The Father
Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP
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I think you should stick with him for now and see if that girl was lying and if she is really pregnat + if he did have sex w| her and he lied to u DUMP HIM!!
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I would lose him.
My oppion.
He lied.
He might be a father of sum other gurl.
2 BIG things that u try and avoid in a realiship.
howeva u spell it.
I would lose him.
don't get all messed up in this.
i dunno its ur choice.
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Candi <3
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well the chick mite be the one lyin. but if it's the guy who's lyin then he lied to you. and you can't be wid a lyin prick. so just go wid ur instincs.
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well if hes a liar hes not good enough for u, nd u deserve better but maybe the girl is lyin nd shes just sayin that cuz shes like his ex or sumthin nd she wants to get back at him or sumthin.. you should find out everythin u can about it nd then try to figure out wut to do, if he was lyin bout bein a virgin dump his ass cuz u deserve better nd trust is a big thing in a realationship, but if shes lyin or sumthin like that then stay wit him,
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Find out weither he is the babys daddy or not and if he is then he is a LIAR! and once a liar always a liar. Id get rid of him...
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Ask him the total truth. Wait it out... until you get ful proof its his baby dont do anything you may regret. She may be some crazy bitch who just wants you two to split up and has to ruin someone elses life b/c hers is tough enough being pregnant. Dont believe someone you dont know over your boyfriend. If he turns the father, break up with him. Not for him expecting a child but do it b/c he lied to you and obviously isnt faithful to you. But see what happens... and for now go on as usual. You may want to confront him and ask him to admit anything b4 the results come... and tell him you wont get mad if he admits whether or not hes a virgin now... if he says he lied ask why... if its a good enuff reason .... then keep him for at least confessing...
good luck xoxo
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Well, the real questoin is..Do you Love him? Wait awhile, maybe he isnt the father....
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*sigh* if he's a virgin...then how could he "maybe" be the father? the only chance of that happening without him losing his virginity is testtube babies...which costs like hundreds of thousands, and i dont think they could afford that being young people...and they wouldn't do it just for fun...so...yeah he lost his virginity and he lied to u about it so u wouldn't be grossed out about it, cuz it is kinda a turn off when u know they're not innocent, if i were u i'd break it off and keep him as a friend, a distant friend, or not one at all...
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A guy will say alot to hook up with you. Sometimes its harmless. But lying about being a virgin is a big deal. You could try to talk to him about it but be careful. Its hard to determine if hes lying or being truthful. And why is this pregnant girl in the club anyways??? My honest opinion? If you really like this guy but he tells you that this pregnant girl is lying, than the only thing you can do is wait until a paternity test is established. If you see this girl again, pull her aside and ask some honest questions. Make sure to tell her that if she contacts her local Child Support Division, they will pay for the DNA test when baby is born.
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I think you should just talk to him about and ask him why he said he was a virgin and if it is a reasonable answer i think you should stick wif him and back him up 100% becuz when that happens to guys it scares them *thats wat happened to my bro* just be there for him and talk to him about it! i hope i help!
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ask your boyfriend about it. See what he says if he seems to be lying then leave him. She might be jealous you bc you now have him. So by saying that she's preganant with his kid it will get him from you
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ok well if u like him enough, i would wait it out, see if he really is! and if he did lie to u about that, personally i have a big trust issue so if my boy friend were to lie to me about something that big and we JUST started going out, id have to let him go! hope i helped u!
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if he were my bf- I would have that chick go take a test to find out if he really was the dad.
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