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i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.
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dont kill yourself over a boy .. he may be your first ove nd i kno exactly how that is but dont do t over him cause he obviously isnt good enough nd im sure yoove heard it a illion times nd beleive m it gets annyoin cause even thoguh he may noy be good enough or he may be a jerk yooh still love him .. well ive been through it nd yooh kno wat yooh need to do is forget the jerk .. i knoit shard ... im still in pain over my first love .. yoohll always have those feelins but think if someting happened wit yall guys nd he hurt yooh again yooh would be hurt again .. so try to go out wit other guys to try to get hiom off your mind cause one day your goin to find the a guy who yooh love nd he loves yooh bac nd hell treat yooh like we women were supposed to be treated but please dont kill yourself or hurt yourself .. inko people jus need to talk to peoples so im me [ LyL qT x lOnLY ] if yooh want
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i'm sitting here crying...i know exactly what u've gone through and trust me i know EXACTLY how u feel...me and this guy went out for 6 months, did everything but sex, then i cut myself for everything i went through plus i was going through a lot at home, and then after he broke up with me he told like the whole freaken school i was a cutter, then i got help and i still love him deep down inside, i mean i'll always have something but urghh hes over with, and done...i wanted to kill myself to and please please u have to do me a favor and GET OVER HIM! he's a total asshole and he ESPICALLY doesnt deserve u because ur sooo strong to pull through it all and he seems like a complete jackass, do me and fav and email me, SOON ASAP
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Hun..I have been in your situation before.My first love did the same exact thing that yours is doing to you.always an on off thing always getting cheated on and lied to.Its not fun.And no guy is worth hurting or trying to kill yourself.I felt the same way you did i wanted to just die.But i eventually got over it.And so can you!Try going out with your friends that helps.Start meeting new guys trust me there are alot more out there and you will find someone thats going to treat you better.Today i am now with this new guy for almost 2 years now and we are expecting a lil girl in Oct.Come on show this guy that your strong and dont need his ass!And whats funny is when your finally over him and finding new he will regret everything he ever did to you and want you back and it wont happen that time.So keep your head up girl and get out there and move on you can do it!So i hope ive helped.If you need anything else let me know!I def. know how your feeling right now!:-)
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Look sweetie. I was in the situation you were in almost a year ago. And it honestly took me awhile to get back out there, but i realized once i started getting out there and looking for someone better, the better i felt. Thats not saying you need a man to make you happy but just going out with friends. Dont ever hurt yourself over a guy--it more so turns them away then makes them stay, i learned that the hard way. Just be confident and try to find someone new and better because we both know you can. And i know the trust issue is going to come into play when you start dating again, but take it slow and dont rush into anything your not ready for. Good luck hunnie and be strong.
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aww hunnie... this guy doesnt sound like a very good b/f!! you have to move on... i know it seems horrible and you feel as if you'll never be able to do it, but you have too! all this boy is doing is causing you pain! if you go back out you know he is going to break your heart all over again so just start trying to start to get over him! it will get better i promise! please talk to an adult, counselor, or a close friend about your suicide thoughts! sweetie dont do it thats all i can say! your going to hurt your friends and family who love you soooo much over a boy who's a jerk. please dont! i know you think you can never love anyone as much as you did him but trust me you will find someone and that love will be something you could have never imagined its going to be totally worth all the pain you've been through when u find that person! just please avoid this guy as much as possible! i really hope i helped you if you ever wanna talk just leave one in my inbox or you can i/m me! feel better hun!
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please, never ever kill yourself over a guy. because think about it, once your gone, its not like hes going to dwell over you. hes going to go right back on to dating other girls. you shouldnt kill yourself period. for any reason at all. be strong.. i know you dont want to hear this, but this guy that you love is a complete idiot. he knows you love him with all your heart and hes playing fuckin games with you. you dont need to be involved with a total jackass who doesnt realize that youre something good, and its standing right infront of his face. how many times did you guys get back together? and how many times has he told you he loved YOU but dumped you for other females? how many times do you have to cry for him? believe me, he doesnt deserve a girl like you. you can find plenty of other guys out there wholl respect you as a person, and wont do the things like cheating on you and lying to you. i know that its going to be hard for you to step aside and say "fuck him. i dont need him. and i deserve better," because when youre in love, or think that you are, thats the only person you think about. i dont know if im much help.. but i understand what youre going through and what you feel. just try youre best to get over him. whether its by finding a new guy or just going out with friends or doing what you enjoy doing. please.. just dont do anything to hurt yourself.. trust me, things will get better for you eventually. i just hope its sooner for you than later..
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Hun, he's so not worth your time. He just keeps breaking your heart. You have to be strong and tell him you don't want to be with him, if he ever askes you out again. Theres way better guys out there then him, he sounds like a total jerk. First love always hurts the most, but theres someone out there for you and he wasn't it. Don't kill yourself over a guy, guys are not worth your pain. Be strong and try to forget him. Because, theres always a better guy around that corner looking for you, you just have to give it time. "No guy is worth your tears, and when you find one that is, he won't make you cry" =)
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omg.. that made muh eyes water, because thats muh same story right now..This is gonna be really hard to accept it took meh a week but u have to clean tha slate. What I mean is start off being friends.. then afta bout a month move up 2 best friends.. then in bout noth 1/2 months tell him u luv him but won't go out wit him kuz he's hurt u so much.. u dun have 2 mean it wut i'm sayin is reverse phicoligy (spelt rong) It works! Like 99% of tha time.. = ) But if he rly luvs u.. he'll be hurt and will come bac to u.. It worked 4 meh.. but sweets look u gotta be strong and cryin dun help.. = ).. I/M meh plz.. we can talk.. u sound juss like meh.. i'm goin through tha same $hit! s.n= HugzXKizzes1117..
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