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i wanted to know if you had any wet hair curly looks because i really need something new or any thing and if you do pleaz put it in step by step form
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hey! i always wear my hair curly what i usually do after i get out of the shower i towel dry my hair and then i put some kinda frizz-ease stuff in it and comb it through then i turn my head upside down and put gel in my hands and scrunch my hair and then spray it with hair spray and then i go the same thing with my head right side up and u can just leave it down or wait for it to dry and put it up with pieces hanging out or half up always looks cute! hope i helped!
ok.. well this kid i thought i liked was being a really nice guy and all of a sudden we start getting into all these fights. he does have a girlfriend and he knows that i have feelings for him and he promised me that him having a girlfriend wouldnt change anything but i think it has. and sometimes it seems like he only goes out with girls that he thinks are hott and my friend asked what he thought of me and he said i was ok :-( and my guy friend was like dont worry about it. but now i dont know if i like my guy friend or the guy i was pretty sure i liked. soo i got 2 questions.. what do i do about the guy i was pretty sure i liked and how i think things have changed and #2 about me not being sure if i like my friend or not
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hey! i think you need to talk to this guy you are pretty sure you like. just say that you know he said things wouldnt change and they are and you want to know why. but it sounds to me like he's shallow and thats not a good thing at all! soo i know its hard to tell you not to like him anymore (i always hated that when people told me that) but i think you need to try to start getting over him. and about ur friend just wait and see dont tell him your feelings right away.. wait until your 100% sure you like him. and then i would definately talk to him cause he seems like a great guy! hope i helped and good luck hun!
my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do
i think you need to talk to both of them. tell ur bestfriend how you feel and if he's ur friend he'll decide what is more important to him. and tell this girl that you still have feelings for her and you never know she might like you too! but if you dont wanna go back out with her just dont say anything to her and try to get over her! alrite? hope i helped and good luck!
hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.
Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help!
awww that was so nice of you to do that. i can tell you really care about her because you want her to be happy! i definately think you should talk to her.. just be like i know you really like my bestfriend but i just thought that you should know that ive liked you for a long time. im sure she has the same feelings for your bestfriend as you have for her. this is always a hard situation to be in. talk to your bestfriend and see if he really likes her. if it would hurt you if they went out i think you should tell him that. i have a friend that really likes this guy and her bestfriend went out with him and every night she cried herself to sleep because of it and when she told her bestfriend that after they broke up and all she was like omg if i knew that i would have never went out with him. so i think you need to tell them both the truth before anything happens between them and if they still want to go out, well thats their decision. and if this girl is too stupid to realize what a great guy you are.. thats her loss! but she might really like you and just doesnt want to ruin your friendship because you two are so close. remember... if its meant to be it will happen! i hope i helped.. i dunno if that did but if u need anything else just let me know! hope it all works out for you!
ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u
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aww sweetheart.. this girl doesnt deserve you at all!! you need to just forget her! there are tonz of girl who would want a guy like you! that girl is blind and when she finally realizes what she passed up and how great a guy you are.. its going to be too late and you'll be with someone who's 100% better than the stuck up jerk you'll have a girlfriend who appreciates you and loves you for who you are! just screw her! i know i would love to have a guy like you, i think anyone would! good luck and i know you will find the girl of ur dreams!! hope i helped!
i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.
aww hunnie... this guy doesnt sound like a very good b/f!! you have to move on... i know it seems horrible and you feel as if you'll never be able to do it, but you have too! all this boy is doing is causing you pain! if you go back out you know he is going to break your heart all over again so just start trying to start to get over him! it will get better i promise! please talk to an adult, counselor, or a close friend about your suicide thoughts! sweetie dont do it thats all i can say! your going to hurt your friends and family who love you soooo much over a boy who's a jerk. please dont! i know you think you can never love anyone as much as you did him but trust me you will find someone and that love will be something you could have never imagined its going to be totally worth all the pain you've been through when u find that person! just please avoid this guy as much as possible! i really hope i helped you if you ever wanna talk just leave one in my inbox or you can i/m me! feel better hun!
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Around the beginning of July, I went into a chatroom and met this boy. I know meeting people online is a bad thing but this is different. Lets call the boy I met "Jim". Ok Jim is turnin 15 very soon and I'm turning 14 very soon. Jim lives in Connecticut and I live in New Hampshire. He is the most sweetest and kindest person I have ever known and met in my life. I sometimes talk to Jim on the phone (passed 9pm on my cell phone so I don't have to pay lol). He is so hot lol. Well anyways, he flirts with me all the time online like he'll say "cough cough you're hot" or "guess what? you're hot" and he'll say sweet and kind things too. I think he likes me but there's just one problem, he likes another person. Jim says I am hotter and have a better personality than her. I don't know what to do like I'm not the type of girl who will ask a guy if they have feelings for me. I think he likes me because he wouldn't say sweet and kind things and he always flirts with me. He's not a player so don't say "he's only saying that to get in my pants" lol. I like Jim as a great friend but I don't know if I like him. I flirt with him sometimes but when he flirts with me, I get these feelings inside of me that makes me wanna like me. Like I said before, I don't know what to do. Please help me lol. Thanks for those of you who are taking your time to read this and might wanna answer this lol.
hey! i know it hard cause u like him but do dont even really know him! and even if he did like you how would a relationship between you ever work out?? i think he would make a good person to talk to on-line but i dont think you should want more than that and i dont think that you should meet him either cause you just never know. just stay the way you guys are now!! good luck! hope i helped!
What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o)
hey! you could have a picnic make lunch urself and then go to a park or somewhere really pretty!! umm... you could go to the zoo i think most are free if not really cheap. you could go swimming at a pool where its like $5 to get in, i have a lot of those by me, i dont know about you! well i hope a help a little! u need ne thing else let me kno!
Why does it hurt more to take out a tampon when it hasn't soaked up enough blood?? sorry if that sounds really stupid..
no thats not stupid at all. its because part of the tampon in still dry and that hurts when it rubs against the sides when u r taking it out and there's no moisture to help move it out more smoothly. if this happens a lot maybe u should consider using a lighter tampon or a pad on ur light days! home i helped!
okay heres my story..what should i do?
i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!
hey! just be honest with her and tell her your hurt about the whole thing because you havent seen her in a long time and you wanted it to be just you guys. but i think you should go anyways even if she brings the other girls maybe you will make some new friends! and ask her if you two can do something together alone really soon, and you dont have to spend money just have a sleepover or something so you guys can catch up and just talk! thats always fun! but when u go bowling dont got there with a negative attitude like you're not going to have any fun, be positive and you will have a good time! and who cares if his ex is there its his EX they r done! and if he still cares about her you shouldnt be making out with him! just follow your heart! :-) hope i helped!
ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!
she has a right to be mad at you! and the only reason she is is because she cares about you and she doesn't want anything bad to happen to you, you're not going to lose her! just say the only reason you did it was because you had all this really bad stuff going on and you didnt have anyone to talk to. ask her if you can talk to her about it, it will make you both feel better and hopefully prevent you from doing that again! make some kind of promise between you both that when you have the urge to hurt yourself you will call the other one to make you feel better instead of going through with it! hope i helped if u need ne thing just let me kno!
Well Me and My boyfriend of almost 2 years now are expecting a baby girl in just a few months.The problem is he doesnt have a job yet and has been saying hes going to get one for months now.Hes been looking and everything but still nothing.And everytime i talk to him about it hes always got the same stuff to say and sometimes gets mad about me always mentioning it.I want to believe that hes going to get a job soon so what to i do or say to him? :-/
you need to be firm with him! he needs to find a job or borrow some money from his parents or something! tell him if he really cares about you and this baby he'd get a job to support you! he needs to get serious. talk to his parents and make sure he really is giving all of his effort into finding a job! or talk to your parents! hope it all works out for you and good luck!!
how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons?
its really not a big deal.. she'll completely understand! first ask her opinion on them and say that you've heard they're better than a pad and you'd like to try them. maybe she'll let you use some of hers to try out. and if u like them just ask her if she could pick u up some! she's a woman too and she went through the same thing! dont worry about it and just ask!
Ok my b/f j/ dumped me cuz hes older and he said he'd feel like a fuck up if he took my Virginity...but he still talks 2 me and calls me baby and tells me he luvs me and misses me but do u think hes being honest or j/ sayin that so he doesnt hurt my feelings please help!!! im so confused thanx
um... i think he's being honest but why would that cause him to break up with you? just because you are going out doesnt mean you have to do anything if u arent ready... i think he really cares about you but i just dont understand why he would break up with u because of that?? hmm maybe he wants to do that stuff and he thinks if he broke up with u (even though he still likes u) he can do stuff with other girls without feeling guilty. so you just have to ask yourself if you really want a guy like that. maybe he just needs to do that stuff... or maybe im totally wrong! if u need anything else let me know, alrite! i hope i helped!
My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!
hey! well theres alot of things you can try... you can get a new haircut!! get bangs and layers! i got bangs and i love them! they make my hair look so much better when i wear it up! you can blow-dry it and then straighten it, you can leave it down or put it up and it will look great. or you can srunch your hair by scruching it with mouse or gel while its wet and put hairspray in it and when its dry you can put it up or leave it down! :-) lots of options! or you can go with a curling iron if ur hair isnt naturally curly or wavy! umm... you can put it half up, or in a clip! hope i help some! if u need anything else just let me kno!! k babe?
I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do?
hey!! i know it hurts.. but personally... i think you should be completely honest with her and tell her the truth! she might like you too but she's afraid to tell you or she might not think you like her in that way. but go for it. if she likes you too it can turn into something wondeful!! maybe she doesnt realize you're perfect for eachother yet! you sound like a nice guy so she doesnt have any reason not to like you! and if shes really ur bestfriend she will completely understand and it shouldnt hurt ur friendship! its definately worth a try~ if its really meant to be it will happen! GOOD LUCK! if u need anything else u can contact me! hope i helped! :-)
My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.
Signed,
Very Scared!
you definately have to let someone know! this is a really serious thing! just confront her and tell her the truth and tell her parents, a counselor or someone!! she might be mad at you at first but in the long run after she gets help she'll be very grateful to you. looking at her diary was wrong, but people make mistakes and its a good thing that u did so u can help her- maybe this was meant to happen so u can save her life! if ur truly her friend you'd help her cause something really bad could happen to her, and shes truly ur friend this wont hurt ur friendship it will probably even make it stronger! even if this down ruin ur friendship (which i really dont think it will), dont u think its better she get healthy so she can live a long happy life?? YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HER!
This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!!
hey! just be honest with him! and if he loves you he will be honest with you too! just say u've heard rumors that you don't think are true but u want to make sure. and you dont like hearing things like that even if they arent true.. who does? and about the marriage things tell him u arent ready to talk about it yet even though it could be an option a long way down the road. dont rush things, you need to get to know him better (especially if u think he may be cheating on you!!) just take ur time, nothing good ever comes from moving too fast! if u need ne thing else just let me know! i hope i helped some..
OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH!
hey! yeah i know how confusing it can get... but i think you need to decide who is more important to you, your friend or this guy. if your friend is dont, you dont want to hurt her over a guy thats only temporary. but maybe shes not really a *true friend* because she went out with ur ex... if you know shes not true then go for it with the guy. but dont risk ur friendship if u guys r good friends cause its not worth it trust me!! if you need anything else just let me kno k babe? hope i helped!