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SOME BEST FRIEND!
okay heres my story..what should i do?
i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!
<3*Chelsea
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wow.. some best friend is right! a friend wudnt go behind ur back and do that to u! just forget about her and invite ur friend charlie somewhere where its just u and him or if u feel uncomfertable like that then invite wen of ur OTHER friends NOT that girl who did that to u bcuz shes likely going to ruin ur plans again.
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-cHElSeA
Ok! Your friend is a little backstabbing brat i say loose her completely! Tonight GO! Dont hold yourself back. Hang out with Charlie and just totally be yourself. Just because they are there shouldnt stop you from doing ANYTHING! Take this as a chance to let your best friend know that you dont need her help at all! Talk to Charlie yourself dont Have ANYONE do anything for you. Also just because his EX girlfriends there doesnt mean ANYTHING.. i mean they broke up for a reason right?. and im sure hes gunna be just like you.. mad cause hes got his EX girlfriend there, when hes suposed to ask you out. GOOd lUCk sWeEtiE!
-aMaNdA<3* (i hOPE i helped you out)
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hey! just be honest with her and tell her your hurt about the whole thing because you havent seen her in a long time and you wanted it to be just you guys. but i think you should go anyways even if she brings the other girls maybe you will make some new friends! and ask her if you two can do something together alone really soon, and you dont have to spend money just have a sleepover or something so you guys can catch up and just talk! thats always fun! but when u go bowling dont got there with a negative attitude like you're not going to have any fun, be positive and you will have a good time! and who cares if his ex is there its his EX they r done! and if he still cares about her you shouldnt be making out with him! just follow your heart! :-) hope i helped!
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Hi. tell her how you feel and ask her why all the sudden that shes doing this...and point out that she made a promise to you that it would only be YOU AND HER...amd if that doesnt work then just dont go and call up charlie and tell him that you dont want to be there with all the extra ppl there including his exgf if you feel this way...and then after tonight i guess you can go and call her friend up and talk to her more about and ask her that how would she feel if you invited her to go somewhere and said it would be you and her and you brought your new group of girlfriends and see how mad she would get...if you need anything else let me kno..Take Care..I Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.
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follow your heart but dont do anything wrong. do what you want to do. not what your friends want to do. but also be carful with the guy, dont push it. :) sorry if that makes you mad at me. if you have anymore questions. you can ask me:)
~shelbynicole
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at first i thought u were overreacting, cause u never no her friends could be really cool..but bringing his ex-girlfriend is just wrong. she doesn't sound like a good friend either, saying that she wont ditch you "completely"?! thats messed up..you needa talk to her about it and if she cant apologize and realize she was wrong..if she doesnt..u need to realize she might not be the best friend you thought she was. hope i helped!
<33 Jordyn
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Um.. u should tell him if you and the guy whoever he is can go somewhere else instead of bowling.Ditch her like she is going to ditch you.
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Well maybe if you go and meet her new friends then you can become friends with them. But she did break her promise so you should talk to her about that. And just tell her that you're upset that she broke a promise and told that guys ex-g/f that stuff..
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You need to calm down a little. There was no need for her to invite them, but who knows, her new friends could be really great! Give them a chance and get to know them. Don't worry about his ex, I mean Charlie might be a little annoyed but it won't affect his feelings about you. Good luck!
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Chelsea...I think you should call your friend before you go and let her know how you feel, and if shes being mean about it to u on the phone like you think she doesnt really care while your talking to her on the phone then just tell her your not gonna go with her, and still go out, but with someone else. You know what I mean? Like you can call a different friend and go out with them, even if its not bowling, you can go to the movies or just hang out somewhere, or do something you guys both enjoy, but call Jerra first and explain everything to her. Hope I helped.
Amanda
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hey, wow quite a predicament. What I think you should do is before you go tonite..call her and confront her. Tell her that it wasn't right of her to invite these other girls from camp with out your conesnt and that you had made the plan before she has let. She also shouldn't have told his ex you were going to do that, it shouldn't make much of a difference and you guys will probably still end up hooking up. You may even have a fun time tonight with these other girls. Good luck and have fun!
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