JLB209 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:50 pm: BOTH if ur best friend cheats with ur boyfriend she isnt a friend and the guy dump him he isnt a real boyfriend [ JLB209's advice column | Ask JLB209 A Question ]
xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:36 pm: Both!! Your Boyfriend shouldn't cheat.. And your bff shouldnt get with any guy your dating.. Seems like she wasnt much of a friend. Your better off without them hun!! Any other ?'s Just ask! x0x [ xShAdYzBaBi3x's advice column | Ask xShAdYzBaBi3x A Question ]
jesikuh977 answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:13 pm: both, obviously shes not a good friend and hes not a good boyfriend AT ALL! forget them both, their not worth being in ur life
LostCanadian23 answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:34 pm: First of all dump him and about your friend i wouldnt quit being friends with her but if this is the first time shes ever done anything like this talk to her and make sure it wont happen againa and give her a second chance. But if she has done this before i wouldnt trust her. =) hope i helped!
Ryan answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:12 pm: that's messed up! you need to talk to your girl! For the so called boyfriend...bag his ass! [ Ryan's advice column | Ask Ryan A Question ]
xogiggles37xo answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:29 pm: i think both thats bullshit what they both are doing. it might be hard but you should at least be mad at them for a while and if they dont care then they never really cared about you. [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:50 pm: dump your boyfriend. he cheated on you once, what if he does it again?? talk to your friend. ask her why she did what she did. if you could find it in your heart to forgive her, then OK. but if you really think this is going to put a strain on your relationship, take time apart. if you need to, dump her too. a real friend would never get involved with your boyfriend. please send me a message if you need anymore help!!! xo [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:11 pm: I'm so sorry! I think you should dump them both, or forgive them both. It's up to you - but you need to find out why they did that and why your best friend just didn't tell you that she liked you boyfriend. Ditch the guy because he cheated on you - and he's totally NOT WORTH it!
Xheavensent16X answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:00 pm: wow i have been on this situation before, with actually 3 of my best friends...it's not that great..wut i did was made the guy feel really guilty about wut the had done, becuase, obviously, he deserves it!!!!!!! and talk 2 ur best friend about it and y she did it..talk it ovr cuz u NEED to find out y she did that 2 u! if u need more personal advice, feel free to ask me!!
hope this helps u hun!
::*sarah*:: [ Xheavensent16X's advice column | Ask Xheavensent16X A Question ]
xogiirlygurlox answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:33 pm: both. neither one is innocent. friends are always more important than guys, so if your going to "keep" anyone, let that be your BFF, bcuz im sure she realizes the mistake she made now, even though that still doesn't make it right
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xo_Meg_ox answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:00 pm: you can't place the blame on just one of them - cheating involves 2 ppl! but give them a chance to redeem themselves b4 u cut them out of your life [ xo_Meg_ox's advice column | Ask xo_Meg_ox A Question ]
Amanda801 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:58 pm: Dump them both... If she was really your BFF she would have never been sneaking with your boyfriend behind your back. Dump him because hes just a dog. They don't deserve you. They were obviously thinking about themselves and not even considering you. So in my opinion leave 'em both.
Jelousy880 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:57 pm: Don't be her friend. And break up with him. if he says "oh i will stop...trust me" that is just a bunch of crap. and she isnt a real friend if she is goin wit ur bf. There are otha guys and otha friends. hope i helped
sunny answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:46 pm: DUMP HIM talk to ur friend and if there isnt anything good she has to say then dump her too [ sunny's advice column | Ask sunny A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:43 pm: Dump 'em both! He's a jeRk and youR "bff" obviously ISN'T, is she?? AppaRently SHE doesn't seem to think so. You shouldn't have to be putting up with that. You deseRve betteR - don't waste youR time OR youR teaRs oveR this; they'Re not woRthy! I hope things woRk out! I wish you the best! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:39 pm: Well, can you ever trust them again?
If I were you, I'd do the hardest thing of all - get rid of both of them. Your boyfriend obviously has no respect for your relationship, while you best friend obviously has no respect for your friendship.
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