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well iive alwaysz enj0yed qiving people adviice..ii used to post on aol messaqe boardsz but ii figured it sound much more "pr0fessional" if ii had my own advice column lol so leave ur message and i will try to give u qood advice!! x0x-meqan
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well my friend sabrina likes this boy tyler who likes me but i dont like him and hes alwasy callin me and hell say "i love u,y cant we go out,i cant live without u".i have a bf (his names joe)and he knows that. when ever i touch joe tyler alway gets upset like he looks like hes going to cry and i dont no what to do cuz im friends with tyler but i dont like him like that and sumtimes hell tell me that he saw joe all over other girls and that hes an ass and hes doesnt diserve me and i told joe what he said and joe said that hes never said 1 bad thing about me and that he loves me and he would rather die then give me up and i wouldnt give joe up for anything or anybody in this whole world!!!! what do i do about tyler ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
it sounds to me like tyler is jealous so hes tellinq u bad stuff about ur bf joe. Its probably because he likes u so much. Try to explain to him that u like him as a friend and maybe if things somehow dont work out between u and tyler u might think of dating him ( if u like him that way ) and next time he tells u that joe said something bad about u either ignore it or if u kind of belive him then ask him to prove it to u somehow so u kno who to belive
Well theres this guy, he is the first guy i ever loved and he knos that...we jus went out for like 3 months and we went through a wicked lot...and he knos i still like him...but anyway, the day he broke up with me we hung out and i noticed he was acting really different and so after we hung out i went home and got on the computer and thne he got on..and he was acting wierd then too..so i asked him why and he said he doesnt kno..and that was pretty much all he could say to every question..then he told me that he doesnt like me anymore and that it was been going on for like 2 days now...and so we broke up and i cried myself to sleep that night..but that day he kissed me and everything but then he broke up with me not too long after..so yeah that morning i even woke up crying...and its been about 3 weeks since he broke up with me and literally every night cept for like 3 i dreamt about him...and i still cry like every day...he is seriously the FIRST guy i ever loved...and i never felt this way about anyone and i wont about anyone else...and i tried everything to get over him and idk how to...cuz nothing is working...and he acts nice to be and shiz but then like the next day hes a total ass...and tonight he told his friend to tell me to go to hell...and everything he says and does about me makes me wanna cry and it pisses me off...theres a lot more to this but i cant type it all...so IM me if you wanna help more...x Vanna 25...but do you have any ways i could get over him?...or what should i do?...should i talk to him?...i tried doing everything and he doesntt understand...oh and like 2 days after we broke up he wwent out with this other chick and then they broke up and now he likes someone else...and i always help him with his girl problems just to get him to think i dont like him...but then i always tell him i still do..and his still a prick to me...idk what should i do???
maybe theyres somethinq going on in his life and its puttinq him thru some hard times and makinq him make bad discisions.. wen he does and says those mean things to u turn to a good friend cuz remember blood is thicker then cum ;-) and i kno it will be hard but TRY to forget about him
okay, well this is my story:: *
my best friend, who i've been best friends with since 1st grade(in 8th now) she liked this guy when we were in 6th grade. on the last day of 6th grade, he asked her out. but like the whole summer they were messed up, like she would just miss him cause he couldnt see her or they would fight or like she'd get jealous about something, but she was in love, so i just let her vent to me. but they broke up in november of 7th grade, now its the beginning of 8th grade nd shes still not over him. i mean, she loves him so much still, nd he has a girlfriend now nd he's moved on, but he still told her he loved her nd stuff, cause they are like best friends but i mean my best friend just gets so upset about everything cause sometimes he does treat her like crap. but, well, she started cutting herself shortly after the break-up nd i was okay with it, cause i was too. but now, she's just.. suicidal. nd it scares me. nd she says she's lost herself, that the guy knew who better than she knows herself, nd that she doesnt wanna live anymore. nd i am trying to be there for her, but we fight so much because of everything, nd i know i shouldnt be fighting with her, but she scares me so much. nd she totally lost herself over this guy, nd he was her first love nd all, but still. i mean, i dk what to do to help her. so can you please please please help me?! i feel like such a terrible best friend!
~thanx a bunch
xO Christina
its not ur fault of ur friends actions. its not the guys fault either. u need to tell ur best friend that it just wasnt meant to be and she shouldnt be getting herself so worked up over it i mean hes just a boy and shell find others cuz remember theres plenty of fish in the sea ;-)
hey im the girl who couldnt get the picture to upload.. i resized it and saved it as .jpg .. and then it said it uploaded.. but it still didnt show up... like when i go to my site, it has the box with the red 'x' in it still. and when i right click and hit "show picture" it still doesnt show up! my username is xxxxxx... is it showing up for you? im getting SOOO frustrated please help!
hmmm. maybe if u right click ur mouse and click show picture other then that i dont kno =( im sooo sorry
okay heres my story..what should i do?
i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!
wow.. some best friend is right! a friend wudnt go behind ur back and do that to u! just forget about her and invite ur friend charlie somewhere where its just u and him or if u feel uncomfertable like that then invite wen of ur OTHER friends NOT that girl who did that to u bcuz shes likely going to ruin ur plans again.
ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!
well, sometimes wen ur angry u cut probably cuz ur so mad u want to hurt someone but u kno there will be consiquences so u hurt urself instead. U shud think about wat ur doing i mean those scars will be with u for the rest of ur life. so maybe try doing something else to control ur anger instead of cutting.
ok well my friend **** is always hangin out with me but when my sister is with us (( shes 21)) it seems like she just hangs out with her not me like she likes her beter when shes with me( idk what 2 do b.c i dont want to lose this friend))
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XoX 'Bee' XoX
shes probably just doing that because she looks up to ur sister or wants to look kool with an older role model . U shud tell her that u dont mind her being nice to ur sister and talkinq with her but it makes u feel left out wen she only pays attention to her because shes ur friend not ur sisters and she probably doesnt want to lose u over a 21 year old
ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do
I kno its hard to ignore it and it really doesnt work but just act like it doesnt faze u just be like LMFAO and theyll get bored of it and leave u alone
This girl that I used to be friends with is spreading rumors about me. She is telling everyone I had sex with this guy I liked. The guy and I hooked up not long after the rumors started. He's three years older than me, so we didn't tell many people. We didn't wanna hafta deal with all their shit.
He and I didn't have sex until almost 2 months after these rumors were started. My best friend heard the rumors, and she was mad cause I didnt tell her I had sex for the first time. I didn't want her to know I did, so I told her they weren't true.
I want these rumors to stop cause its no one else's business if I had sex with him or not. I don't want to talk to this girl in person cause i already wanna beat her ass, and if i saw her, i know i would loose control and hit her.
Is there any other way to stop these rumors without talkin to her about it? And don't tell me to ignore them cause that never works. I have ignored them for almost 3 months, and im sick of it.
Please Help me!!
it sounds to me this "friend" of urs isnt really a friend at all. I hate rumors theyre gay but just think ull be outta school in a few years and all the drama will pass so i wudnt pay much attention to it. Anyone who is bored enough to pay attention to another persons sex life that much is a loser so ignore all of them its between u and ur boyfriend so just shake those gay asses off
but everytime i try to upload a picture of me, it doesnt work? why? and how can i get it to work? someone answer... i'll rate you.
it needs to be .JPG or .GIF format. wen u press browse look at the bottom drop down menu and click image files or pictures that shud help
how do i know if i need a bra?
if ur boobs show and hang down... DUH !
Okay so i have this friend and she has been my best friend since first grade. I still love to hang out with her and we are going camping together soon. But she met this new girl and well thats all she talks about but also shes been changing and it kind of scares me. Part of me really likes her still but also part of me doesnt want to be her friend anymore
No matter how close 2 people are , sometimes they can grow apart. Maybe ur friendship was never meant to be, or maybe her and this other girls friendship will end and she`ll turn back to normal. Just give her some space but set a limit on how much changing shes been doing and if she changes too much then talk to her about it. Hope this helps !
Everytime i take a shower i blowdry my hair because it is less time.. but right after i go to blow dry it i straighten it and my hair is so puffy.. the blowdryer puffs it up... i dont know what to do because i cant wear my hair down that day because my hair is puffed up
wut i wud do is blow dry ur hair then straighten it with a flat iron. that works for me , hope it works!
Put yourself in this position.
My boyfriend is a total dick .. when he went on vacation he told me he wouldnt have time to call me and than told me when he got home he didnt barely do anything .. and than i walked a wicked long ways to see him one hott summer nighht and he said he'd never walk that far to see me ( we live the same f'n town ) and than he told me he couldnt stand me for a whole day .. when i know damn right i could love to spend a whole day wit him .. and he said he'd call me when he got to his friends .. well he never did and decided to walk to see his friends girlfriend wit his friend .. what should i do ? my friends say theres a neon light telling me something here .. he doesnt give two shits about me ! ugh.. should i dump him ?
i hate to say this but ur boyfriend sounds like a total prick. if i was u i wud dump him because u deserve better then that. u shudnt settle for less wen u deserve more. or tell him that he better straighten up or its over. i hope this advice works!
Ok, I have thick, brown, shoulder-length hair, and normally, I straighten it every day with my CHI straightener. But everytime I straighten it, it gets messed up within the next 30 minutes. So my question is, what should I use to keep my hair straight for the longest period of time possible? Like, should I use a gel type substance? If so, exactly what brand do you suggest, and exactly HOW do I apply it? Thanks so much!
i have to straighten my hair everyday too. What i wud do is spray it with a little bit of hairspray then comb it and then straightin it, for some people this might make ur hair look kinda greasy but for most people it works and stays in longer! i hope that helps!
i have this best friend and i like him and i think its wrong to because he is my best friend, and it could ruin our relationship so does that mean anything and he doesnt even like me! what do i do?
maybe u shud tell him how u feel and if he says he doesnt like u be like o i was kidding i was getting the wrong vibe from u or something like that but dont say it too seriously and scare him lol
Hey do u think i should dye my hair brown with blonde and redish brown streaks e-mail me asap
hmmm it depends on what ur skin tone is.. if its tan that look neat.. but if u have very light skin id go with a lighter color such as dirty blonde with light blonde streaks or strawberry blonde streaks. I hope this helps u !