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help......
ok well my friend **** is always hangin out with me but when my sister is with us (( shes 21)) it seems like she just hangs out with her not me like she likes her beter when shes with me( idk what 2 do b.c i dont want to lose this friend))
*'help'*
XoX 'Bee' XoX
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shes probably just doing that because she looks up to ur sister or wants to look kool with an older role model . U shud tell her that u dont mind her being nice to ur sister and talkinq with her but it makes u feel left out wen she only pays attention to her because shes ur friend not ur sisters and she probably doesnt want to lose u over a 21 year old
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Dear Bee,
try bringing it up to your friend. ask her if she likes your sister better than her, and tell her that you would really appreciate it if she would hang out with you rather than your sister when she is over, because you feel left out. your only other 2 options are to a) tell your sister that you feel like she is taking your friends away or b) get your sister to go to one of her friend's house when you know that your friends are coming over.
Hope that helped,
-DearBritney
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Wow this sounds fimiliar!! lol. My friend does that.. Its annoying!! Next time you hang out try 2 stay away from your sister.. Life if your sisters home go sumwhere or go 2 her house. But since I know you cant avoid your sister around her all the time tell your sister about how you feel.. Im sure she'll understand how you feel!!Any more ?'s Just ask!! x0x
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your friend looks up to your sister thats why...but you need to let her know that you are a little irritated with her ditching out on you.
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try hanging out at her place.. =]
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if thats the only time your so called "friend" is hangin out with you in when your 21 yr old sister is with you guys talk to her and if that dont help dont hang out wtih her anymore bc shes just using you to hang out with ur sister ok...
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This happens a lot. It still happens to me because everyone likes my sister sooooooooooo much and it just makes me want to wretch. Anyway, your friend just wants to feel cool by usurping some cool off your older sister. You won't lose her as a friend but if it really bothers you then you might consider talking to her about it. A good friend won't go out of their way to do something that you've told them hurts you.
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It shouldn't be a problem to you if she wants to hang out with your sister. It might be disturbing. You should talk to her and try to tell her you want to hang out with her too even when your sister is there. I hope I helped!
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well, that usually happens its normal. your friend just wants your sister to think shes cool. its happened to me too. try talking to her about it. if you have anymore questions you can ask me
~shelbynicole
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People usually like hanging out with older people because it makes them feel cooler, ur friend probably just thinks shes cool for that...i wouldnt realy worry about the losing her as a friend part, because im sure ur friend isnt doing it on purpose.
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i have the same problem w|one of my friends, just tell that you dont want them hanging around your sister when she's there, it should work. god luck&i hope i helped. if you have any other questions just put it in my inbox! thanks
x3 ree
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