i have this best friend and i like him and i think its wrong to because he is my best friend, and it could ruin our relationship so does that mean anything and he doesnt even like me! what do i do?
MummuM answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:30 pm: Well if he doesn't like you, I think it would be best just to remain friends. But, if it's meant to be it'll find a way =) [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
BriBabe answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:07 pm: It isn't wrong at all. you cannot control your feelings. You just need to talk to him about it. Even if he doesn't like you, it is better to explain your feelings, than to bottle them inside. Try to remain friends, but- it will be hard. Just do your best in the situation, and what you feel is right. [ BriBabe's advice column | Ask BriBabe A Question ]
meqanx3o answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:23 pm: maybe u shud tell him how u feel and if he says he doesnt like u be like o i was kidding i was getting the wrong vibe from u or something like that but dont say it too seriously and scare him lol [ meqanx3o's advice column | Ask meqanx3o A Question ]
exyweetee99 answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:31 pm: well if he doesnt like u theres not really n e thing that u can do bout it...no it's not wrong 2 like ur best friend but it could effect ur relationship w/ him...hope i helped....plz rate
oftheseamarina answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:29 pm: I know how you feel! I used to have a huge crush on one of my best friends! Did you tell him that you like him, if not, than keep it simple by asking him, "do you ever think of what it would be like if we went out?" If he says that he thinks it would be weird or that he would not like it, than just try to look at some other guys. People have a tendency to want what they cannot have, so maybe you could look at another guy that is unattanable-only who is not your friend. Dont risk your friendship, if you two DO feel the same way, something eventually will happen. Dont wait for anything to happen though, look at other guys! Also, you may think that your friend is great, but chances are he has faults. Look at him more critically!
Good luck!
-Mia [ oftheseamarina's advice column | Ask oftheseamarina A Question ]
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