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okay so i was gonna have sex with this boy jon (we'll say) but then we both decided we weren't ready and ever since we really haven't talked much. and every time i c him he always has another gurl over or sumthing and he just ignors me. how can i get him to open up to me again? (link)
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You know what, if you guys decided that you were not ready to have sex, and he ignored you after that, I don't think you guys really had a connection in the first place. What I mean by this is that you guys probably just were not right for each other. That can be a hard concept, and you think that you like the person that much, they have to be a good match for you. But thats not always so. Maybe you two deciding you were not ready was sort of a closure between you guys relationship. Maybe he is embarassed! But regardless, I do not know what he is doing with these girls. If he is having sex with them, he probably ignores you because he does not want you to know since he claimed that he was not ready. That may have been a kind way to tell you that he just was not interested. Since this guy seems to have a hard time showing his feelings, forget him. Oh, and any guy that ignores you is never worth going back to. You could try writing a letter telling him how you feel, I have done that, but if he does not answer dont be surprised. Also, if he denies ignoring you, and you know for a fact he is, try to forget him. Think of something else, and focus your energy on other things. If he replys and does show his true feelings, congratualations. If not, TRY to get over him. It's one of the hardest things in the world, and it has taken me as long as 6 months to get over guys after I know all is lost, but you can and will do it eventually.
Good luck!
-Mia
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i have this best friend and i like him and i think its wrong to because he is my best friend, and it could ruin our relationship so does that mean anything and he doesnt even like me! what do i do? (link)
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I know how you feel! I used to have a huge crush on one of my best friends! Did you tell him that you like him, if not, than keep it simple by asking him, "do you ever think of what it would be like if we went out?" If he says that he thinks it would be weird or that he would not like it, than just try to look at some other guys. People have a tendency to want what they cannot have, so maybe you could look at another guy that is unattanable-only who is not your friend. Dont risk your friendship, if you two DO feel the same way, something eventually will happen. Dont wait for anything to happen though, look at other guys! Also, you may think that your friend is great, but chances are he has faults. Look at him more critically!
Good luck!
-Mia
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